What's a realization / eye-opener you've had lately?

[hostsamurai]

There aware

Its just that when u offer solutions they say yeah ur right and never do it

Or once that problem is gone they find something else to whine about it

Like for example how I have to constantly tell a girl to stop getting into relationships with dudes who are obviously aint shyt dudes. Shes like yeah ur right but I love him. Then complains about him . Then complains about u not wanting to hear her complain.

Or telling a fat person how to lose weight and they argue against the facts. Then complain about being fat.

They want to be miserable

On that other point, most people really don't want advice if you're on the same level as them, they just want attention.

 

[hostsamurai]

You'd be surprised by how many low energy, possibly Asperger, depressive people I've seen in bars and clubs over the years.

 

[75 Others]

Her IG? nikkas in her DM's offering to smell her farts for a chance at eye contact with her.

On everything, I've always wanted to peep a girl's PoF/IG for messages and just see the say dudes say to her

 

[Shadow King]

You'd be surprised by how many low energy, possibly Asperger, depressive people I've seen in bars and clubs over the years.

nikka spotted me in the cut

 

[MaxPain]

On that other point, most people really don't want advice if you're on the same level as them, they just want attention.

True

But this realization came from females at my job and other jobs in the past ranting to me about their husband/bf

I used to nod and say mhmm maybe offer a lil advice but now I just straight up tell them go dump ur baggage somewhere else


If u really had an issue with ur man liking girls instagram pics ud be talking to him not me


Oddly enough they like it when I do that but im not interested.

 

[hostsamurai]

nikka spotted me in the cut

Just be positive, match the energy and context of the room and smile.

 

[Jesus Bhrist]

Most people are negative & willingly surround themselves with negative energy....if you are positive they will try to make you negative or subconsciously destroy you, through passive aggressiveness or relational aggression (rumors gossip)...And on advice I've learned to say nothing because most people are not that intelligent

& 2ND When you describe a person in accurately yet unflatteringly detail, you destroy his ego & what do most people do when the ego is affronted? Attack but since it's a friend they become vindictive & do so insiduously

 

[Shadow King]

Just be positive, match the energy and context of the room and smile.

It may not be as bad as I think I just don't have shyt to say in the realm of small talk. I do know if I go out with a group of friends (or at least my friends) there's a pressure to be "that dude". The one time I went to a spot, got tipsy while watching a playoff game, then spent my zone out time on the dance floor >>> going out on some "mmmmm, mmmmm, where the hoes? Get that ass, bro!"

But nightlife will likely never be my scene no matter what.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Pregnancy is no joke, but it's also beautiful. I have so much more empathy for moms and disgust for people who rationalize putting kids in a shytty environment out of spite. Even the stress of relationship issues during a pregnancy has life long effects on kids.

 

[TransJenner]

Being "woke" is just another distraction from real issues

 

[cjlaw93]

Vast majority of people who always have drama/conflict in their lives, create it as means of feeling alive. If they didn't they wouldn't know how to live.

if this makes sense

It does

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Also, I am a lot better at small talk and schmoozing than I give myself credit for. The key is that it has to be for a purpose and in short spurts.

 

[NoMorePie]

How racist someone can be.

Eye opener every damn day

 

[Turk]

9-5 really ain't for me. This shyt not gon work at all frfr

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

That I still don't give a fukk