Relationships, marriage, procreating is really not worth the drama/trouble/responsibility. It's just another thing to keep you busy til you die. A woman's love is the least secure thing you can desire.
What's a realization / eye-opener you've had lately?
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BlackAlacard
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Most people will never accomplish anything that will set them apart from the majority or leave a legacy. And most people are okay with that.
letti cook
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as a person that is constantly explaining why im single/dont want kids to people who are pressed for me to be in a relationship/have kids, this post speaks to me
it trips me out that literally everyone in my family is divorced and at odds with their children but looking at me weird cause i chose to do my own thing until I figure myself out..
my mom in particular...left my dad when I was 3...then disappeared on me until I was like 25..talking bout "when you gone bring some grandbabies?"
Clay Puppington
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letti cook
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edit: nvm..to early for all that 
im posed to be on hiatus anyway
im posed to be on hiatus anyway
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How much pain my dad’s in from his time in the military, I type up some paperwork for him and I read about his PTSD, High blood pressure, depression, migraines, back, hip, shoulder etc pain. 
It’s a horrible feeling to know that strongest men in life is in so much pain, but he never shows it around my brother and I 
gotta start taking care of my dad more.
It’s a horrible feeling to know that strongest men in life is in so much pain, but he never shows it around my brother and I gotta start taking care of my dad more.
Nobody really knows what they are doing in life...vast majority just floating thru..most goals keep u on a treadmill in some shape or form(not a bad thing)..
stereotypes are lazinesss..puts ppl in boxes because no one wants to take time to know an individual..
Most ppl that u thought had it all together don't upon further review...
stereotypes are lazinesss..puts ppl in boxes because no one wants to take time to know an individual..
Most ppl that u thought had it all together don't upon further review...
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- Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
That’s all you got breh and brehettes..
Listen to your body and never let someone talk you out of something..
I almost let my stubbornness and pride get in the way of finding out I had a tumor..
Also fukk anything that doesn’t bring you happiness..
None of this shyt matters..
Take care of self and loved ones..
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Enjoy your life and loved ones.
None of this stuff matters, it just seems like it does because we live on this planet abiding by rules that were already previously established before we were even thought of.
Racism will never die. Too many people don't want anything to change and are comfortable(or comfortable enough) and they benefit from it so they have no reason to even care and will continue to teach future generations to be racists as well. Plus give their children/grandchildren opportunities and instill this hate in them towards the poor(or less well off) and that same old "All you have to do is work hard/bootstraps." BS will still get preached meanwhile they've never had to 'work hard' and neither did their children/grandchildren. A business(es) gets left to them along with large amounts of money and the racism gets passed down with the generational wealth. The cycle will continue to repeat. The majority are satisfied with the supremacy, it doesn't effect them in a negative way, so they don't care. People will still look down on the poor and praise the rich.
Racism will never die. Too many people don't want anything to change and are comfortable(or comfortable enough) and they benefit from it so they have no reason to even care and will continue to teach future generations to be racists as well. Plus give their children/grandchildren opportunities and instill this hate in them towards the poor(or less well off) and that same old "All you have to do is work hard/bootstraps." BS will still get preached meanwhile they've never had to 'work hard' and neither did their children/grandchildren. A business(es) gets left to them along with large amounts of money and the racism gets passed down with the generational wealth. The cycle will continue to repeat. The majority are satisfied with the supremacy, it doesn't effect them in a negative way, so they don't care. People will still look down on the poor and praise the rich.
Demon
Evil b*stard
I started talking to one of my classmates because I've been on some anti-social ish. We're chopping it up and she shows me her Snapchat with about 5 unopened messages and 3 nikkas she left on read. Her IG? nikkas in her DM's offering to smell her farts for a chance at eye contact with her. She also convinced her ex-in real time-to buy her a $500 Tiffany necklace, while also bragging that she doesn't even fukk him anymore and cheated on him. I thought simps and simping was exaggerated but man what a pathetic showing.
Oh, and being broke translates to almost every other part of life
when xhamster first started poppin the shyt was not filled with bots at all like it is now. just regular freaks. met a girl locally on there and we started kicking it and she showed me her xhamster messages....
it almost made me feel embarrassed to be a man.
I know bytches who got moneygrams and western unions from simps from other countries with no chance at all. nikkas will send bytches 100+ dollars for a pair of used panties. Beyond pathetic
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Cant stress this enough. If words worked, man wouldn't wage war. You'll never convince a white racist that the black woman is God. You can't sway a savage with a well put argument.
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
I believe in a combination of free will and destiny.
I really used to think like the 5 percenters in that I was the God of my universe and that everything was under my control but I've come to realize that so much has little to do with my choices. I've come to believe that the soul has a predestined path and how we get there is our own choice and free will but for the most part we're just following the pre destined path of our soul. You can try to hardest to make something happen and it may not happen while others can not even try at all at something and it can fall in their lap. Some people are just meant to win, some are meant to fail, some are meant to go through certain things, etc......it's just what happens and so much of our lives is based on luck, pure randomness and is completely out of our control. I'm sure we've seen people who no matter what they do just can't get ahead while others just have it easy for no apparent reason. It's just the way life is.
When I read stories of some celebrities, athletes, businessmen, etc it just makes me feel like people are just fulfilling a destiny. Look at Allen Iverson......born to a single mother without intercourse, was a star athlete football/basketball player, gets caught in a bowling alley brawl & goes to jail for something he didn't do. Tom Brokaw of NBC does a story on Allen Iverson in which he interviewed him to shed more light on his story. He then gets pardoned by the Governor, his mother begs John Thompson to take him into Georgetown. He stops playing football because basketball was his only option and the toughness from growing up poor in Newport News, VA without a father, going to jail for something he didn't do helps him get to the point where he could be the number 1 pick in the NBA draft going on to become the perhaps the greatest little man in the history of the league. How could that not be destiny? It's like everything just comes together for people to proceed on the path that they're supposed to be on.........and no matter how much you fight it (Allen loved football more than basketball), it just happens.
We'll hear about many countries and lands that we will never see.
There are numerous adults walking the earth, who are ignorant and misinformed but won't acknowledge it because they persistently swear that time+age converts to knowledge and information.
There's ton of great music that I will never hear.
Vast majority of "great debates" aren't great at all, they often are one informed side, vs one ridiculously insular side who implements an absurd amount of denialism and anecdotal evidence.
In our society bragging about material possessions or earn more than somebody else is acceptable, the moment you brag about being smarter, more knowledgable than somebody you're "uppity" "pretentious" "snide" no matter how evident, it's just taboo to say. It's only acceptable to call them stupid and leave it at that.
There are numerous adults walking the earth, who are ignorant and misinformed but won't acknowledge it because they persistently swear that time+age converts to knowledge and information.
There's ton of great music that I will never hear.
Vast majority of "great debates" aren't great at all, they often are one informed side, vs one ridiculously insular side who implements an absurd amount of denialism and anecdotal evidence.
In our society bragging about material possessions or earn more than somebody else is acceptable, the moment you brag about being smarter, more knowledgable than somebody you're "uppity" "pretentious" "snide" no matter how evident, it's just taboo to say. It's only acceptable to call them stupid and leave it at that.