When did women go from "I am independent, I dont need no man" to I "dont date broke ninjas"

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Your thought process and conclusions were stupid....



and you weren't the only one to get called stupid...

it's not about push back... its about you drawing an erroneous conclusion and trying to dish out relationship advice...who are you?.... lets check the receipts...
Aww. Stupid is just the go to when you have nothing else to say. :camby:
 

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i will say this again, "marriage" is a business contract that benefits mostly women and those who have less wealth than their partners.Theres a reason why smart white woman are incredibly selective when it comes to finding a husband, theyve been playing the game for centuries and have been taught well by their mothers. Theres a reason why women get mad when a man who is aware of this truth demands a prenup. They know a marriage is great for their bottom line and a prenup would ruin this advantage. Thats why 90 percent of divorce is initiated by women.
 
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If nikkas had any sense they'd be on that same shyt.
I am....
a cute bum with a fat ass and good p*ssy
aint enough for me to make her my ole lady.
i'm a intelligent nikka with ambition and nice
shyt so any broad that I fukk with gotta be on my
level or look like she's slumming it by fukkin with me.
will I knock a bad ass hood chick down??
(in a rabbit's heartbeat)
but i'm never gonna dive in raw or have her
laying aross my sofa or bed surfing the net
in panties..
cats need to understand that anytime you
have sex it's a chance of producing offspring
so choose wisely......my kids are gonna have nice shyt!
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@Colicat I only ask cause when you post it sounds like personal experience. I personally can feel the emotions coming off your post as well as some other female posters who i want name ,but depending on the topic you feel the raw emotion in some of your post ...like it's happens to you before.
 

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Aww. Stupid is just the go to when you have nothing else to say. :camby:

No.... below is actually stupid...

A fully thought out analysis of sardonic posting (which is clearly indicated as trolling) :mjlol:
What I gather from both of your posts:

You're on a similar page, no? While I see @Colicat s perspective that men need to do more than "provide a paycheck"

I also agree with @Emperor_ReinScarf - 'a woman should be grateful that her husband is bringing in'.

There are a lot of other details that go into this, but...

The golden rule :blessed:


Then you give relationship advice as I continue my back and forth:russ:
I'm sorry miss, but what men have you been dealing with lately? There is not a bone in my body to judge, but please take what I have to say into consideration- you get in relationships with who you choose:mjlol: WTF is this?.
 

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Oh you read a bitter tone.... how convenient .... so what do you call people when you can't handle push back? :sas2:
I can handle pushback. I've been on this site just a little longer than you and had to deal with a lot of it. I'm just not ok with resorting to calling people 'stupid' as a defense. I thought you were better than that.
 

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I think the two ideas can be complementary.

You can have enough independence to not have to depend on a male, while still wanting a husband/boyfriend that makes a livable wage. Wouldn't we all want that for our partners?

I do think this theme of women needing "sponsors" should be stamped out. It's apart of this culture that encourages the sexist and racist oppression of poor and working-class women. I don't want my sisters, daughters, or nieces to feel like they have to find a man to "sponsor" them just to get the things they want in life.

Rather than perpetuate a culture where women are expected to put their welfare into the hand's of some man (which is a great gift to male supremacy), these women should turn their attention to real issues like getting proper social services for working mothers (sufficient paid maternity leave, free child care etc), the gender pay gap, workplace sexism and other serious problems that are affecting working women today.
 
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I can handle pushback. I've been on this site just a little longer than you and had to deal with a lot of it. I'm just not ok with resorting to calling people 'stupid' as a defense. I thought you were better than that.

Your tenure on this website just means that you have more keystrokes than I do....it is not an indicator of anything else...
Trust... I am 100 times better than anything you can ever think about me.... Your comments, critiques, and counsel may have come from a genuine place but they still were stupid...
 
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