When did women go from "I am independent, I dont need no man" to I "dont date broke ninjas"

[Youseenmywork]

So now it's not and indictment on one's maturity level?.... oh... ok...

Chill

 

[Youseenmywork]

Your tenure on this website just means that you have more keystrokes than I do....it is not an indicator of anything else...
Trust... I am 100 times better than anything you can ever think about me.... Your comments, critiques, and counsel may have come from a genuine place but they still were stupid...

Why did you take it as something malicious thoe...

 

[Colicat]

Why did you take it as something malicious thoe...

Who said it was malicious? I said it was crazy and stupid.... I had no idea where she or you were getting your ideas from. the conclusions that y'all were drawing were waaaay off base...

Someone quotes you twice with some left-field mess and then says it's because you quoted them?

 

[MikelArteta]

Girl fight!!!

 

[Luck]

Idk where this "I don't date broke nikkas" shyt came from either because a chick would be better off with a broke nikka than a nikka like me. Dudes with money that simp are a dying breed.

She'll learn to be "independent" fukking with me

 

[Groanman]

They don't know what the hell they want.
Yesterday it was this.
Next week it'll be something else.


But to you, my brothas, you gotta stay calm.
You gotta be the captain of the shyt at all times.

Never waver.
But make sacrifices here and there.


Cause women are crazy.
All of them.

 

[XII]

Clearly the maturity vibe is not happening in this thread.

@Colicat doesn't like pushback. If what you intended was a 'tit for tat', realize this is a message board, and there is no tone. I'm not the only one to notice, because you were asked if you were dealing with something.

and you weren't the only one to get called stupid...

it's not about push back... its about you drawing an erroneous conclusion and trying to dish out relationship advice...who are you?.... lets check the receipts...

This is the strangest catfight I've ever seen

 

[Mowgli]

Just break up with her and she will ack right

 

[Diondon]

A pay check and loyalty/faithfulness is not enough

 

[Youseenmywork]

Idk where this "I don't date broke nikkas" shyt came from either because a chick would be better off with a broke nikka than a nikka like me. Dudes with money that simp are a dying breed.

She'll learn to be "independent" fukking with me

They would rather be a rich nikkas smut...than be a poor man's queen

 

[HoloGraphic]

When they came to their senses

 

[Micky Mikey]

the collective mindset of black women in America changes every decade

70's - sexual freedom and black feminism
80's and 90's - black men aren't shyt and dead beats
2000's to somewhere between 2012ish - "I am STRONG AND INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMEN"
2013 - 2014 "I dont date broke nikkas" , "i'm a diva so I must have the blonde weave to match", "white men make better husbands"

 

[Another Man]

to wanting providers, sponsors and all that extra nonsense , I thought that independent life is what they seeked.

.....when everyone starting seeing that the "women" screaming that I'm independent don't need no man shyt are usually broke bytches, so now that they've been exposed they have no choice but to keep it real

 

[Another Man]

Sounds like love wouldn't be enought either ....Mann those unrealistic expectations

The chicks in the thread are sounding like those women who never know what they want, and will pretty much just make up a reason to find other men when they get bored and blame it on the guy they're currently with.

 

[swimmingpools]

So whats your definition of faithful and loyal?

Sorry, but what does this have to do with what I was talking about? He said that it seems like love wouldnt be enough in a relationship and I said it wasnt because being in love =/= compatibility. You may be in love with someone but if you're not on the same page, you have to be honest with yourself. You can love someone who is toxic or not good for you..