Where Are the Brothas? How the Continued Erasure of Black Men’s Voices on the Marriage Question Perp

[ThatTruth777]

 

[CarmelBarbie]

[B]@CarmelBarbie[/B] already told you there's a lot of Black women who are team #GMS I'm starting to think this whole shyt is to sell Black women solutions.


There's continuing fallout from Mochafest 2019 in Jamaica. Basically when the country was locked down they allowed Mochafest basically a Black woman's freaknik to go on.


Also way more straight Black women are getting killed by HIV/AIDS than straight Black Men. HIV is a huge problem with Gay Black Men and trans Black people though.


Also you see how stats get inflated the study says 1.5 million Black Men are "missing" and somehow it got to 2million. First of all those dudes aren't missing they just moved out of the communities they were born in. The Prison and homicide rates are falling so there's actually more Black Men out here than before.


Less Black People are being born though.

I did? I don’t remember saying that.


As for the op, I think there was a study by the brooking institute that suggested that when brehettes marry Brehs they don’t really benefit from it financially, like other groups of women do when they marry men from their own race.

And it could be because the brehettes who do marry are sometimes marrying down. But that also debunks the myth that Brehs lose more financially in a divorce—if a woman makes more than the man, doesn’t she have more to lose financially if the marriage ends? The majority of black folks and bm don’t make enough for that to be a real argument as to why they don’t want to marry(the fear of her taking all his money) yet this is used as an excuse on here consistently.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

maybe black men need to swallow their pride and accept a more domestic role

black women want to marry black men. their selection is just trash or the successful black men PAWG to validate their success.

if i have a college degree but my girl has 2 and makes more, I'll take a more pronounced role as the supporter. spend more time with my kids, which black kids need way more than other groups anyway, and keep it moving.

 

[Ziggiy]

maybe black men need to swallow their pride and accept a more domestic role

black women want to marry black men. their selection is just trash or the successful black men PAWG to validate their success.

if i have a college degree but my girl has 2 and makes more, I'll take a more pronounced role as the supporter. spend more time with my kids, which black kids need way more than other groups anyway, and keep it moving.

Statistically this is pure bullshyt

 

[Mowgli]

Look for a black version of the white man brehettes

 

[Thanos]

You can still be w/ someone and/or have a family without getting a state institution involved. Which is why I care more about children getting the resource from the public they deserve over anything else.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

But what is the suggestion? You can make the argument that Kevin Samuels rise is a manifestation of BM being ignored in this debate. Interesting times we are living in

You can also blame the rise of the entire black “manosphere” for the reason of black men being ignored. See women today want it both ways. They cannot just simply ignore men and expect the men not to create our own to voice our opinions. Because that’s what men do, we overcome and find ways to succeed. The reason why we are in the situation we are is that the black man’s voice isn’t as valued or warranted. Then the women wonder why black men are being off-putting in general. We can’t even blame white supremacy for the schism.

 

[It is a mystery]

I blame thecoli.com GMB culture for this happening

 

[RareHunter]

We hate each other because we’ve been bought to this Babylonian land, and they’ve road blocked us at every turn. They purposely promote intermixing to white out the race and turn black ppl into a new race altogether.

That’s was after they first tricked black women to buy into feminism and pursue their “passions” which was really to help white women.

 

[Brolic]

maybe black men need to swallow their pride and accept a more domestic role

black women want to marry black men. their selection is just trash or the successful black men PAWG to validate their success.

if i have a college degree but my girl has 2 and makes more, I'll take a more pronounced role as the supporter. spend more time with my kids, which black kids need way more than other groups anyway, and keep it moving.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

Statistically this is pure bullshyt

oh well shyt if you say so, it must be true.




Black men are 2x more likely to marry a white woman when they do marry.

Black women, and women in general, are attaining more post-secondary education than black men.

In the workforce, black men are less employed than black women, despite earning marginally more on average; a symptom of income inequality in general

Peep the % of all couples for black husband white wife and vice versa. There are more PAWGers than there are wenches. Which elucidates the point of black women choosing to marry outside because there arent as many prospects inside. Despite that they still do marry inside second only to hispanics. My point is, if they choose to marry black men, black men ought to be flexible to keep the family unit together.

if you're going to bring up stats and call bullshyt, put your numbers up or shut the fukk up.

 

[Bossino]

Yeah I just chose to ignore all that bullshyt.

 

[Bossino]

No one will want to address it but black women being the most single demographic more or less proves black women don't take dating/marriage having families seriously until it's too late and several posters have already said this in numerous threads only to be called women haters, but Meg, Cardi, etc. and that imagery, messaging, etc. has no effect and yadda yadda. The older I get the more I understand dating out. For me if I can't get a level headed black woman I'll be alone (which I probably will be alone statistically), but I really see why dudes go to Latinas, etc. I don't trust cacs so pawging is still scust for me (seriously dating a white woman), but those demographics of women are more serious about settling down, and the stats prove it.

EDIT: It hit me rn while looking at the homepage the argument above is perfectly surmised by difference between Lizzo and Adele.

One lost weight, became conventionally desirable and landed a successful black man in Rich Paul

The other is Lizzo

Taken from another thread and posted for emphasis the problem for the last 50 years in the American Black community family structure has been the choices of bw but we will not discuss it. They want what they want they DESIRE what they DESIRE and we are living the fallout it's that simple.

 

[Ahadi]

Why would people care what Black men think about declining marriage rates in the Black community? Black women and the White media got what they wanted out of the narrative of declining Black marriage rates. They all blamed the Black man. Apparently all Black men are unavailable because they were in jail or gay or inconsequential or whatever other bull shyt they want to throw out there about Black men to say that they are not marriage material.

There has been no real examination of Black women's role in declining marriages in the Black community. Nobody ever points out why Black women are not marriage material, because then Black women would levy a bunch of "shaming" accusations rather than take a collective look at why they are not marriage material. So a lot of Black women shyt is just swept under the rug and the blame is on Black men. They still blame Black men for the decline of marriages in the Black community, even though White women and Hispanic women don't seem to have many problems finding Black husbands, which defeats the whole notion that Black men are not marriage material.

This article spells something out very nicely. Black women may not be married, but that does not mean that they are single. The dudes that they are with just don't deem them as marriage material. The question then comes down to why?

Goddam he’s on fire

 

[Neuromancer]

Another l thread where the gold digging wench that married a fukking Arab feels as tho she can critique black men and offer her useless bias 2 cents
Never fails.

bytch should be praying right now or making Ahmed his Halal lunch instead she worried about what we doing.

Report her. She doesn't have any business is black relationship discussions.