Where the hell do y'all meet single WOMEN at?

[The Devil's Advocate]

Every decent looking chick I meet is either married or in a relationship.

are these women really as single as they claim to be

or am I just that ugly that they make up an imaginary man just to get me away?

Outside.

i mean women go everywhere... they shop, they eat, they drink, they go to comedy shows, they definitely go to bars and clubs, they go on vacation, the beach, concerts......

i mean damn... they are everywhere.. life is fukking short. you see something you like, go approach and talk. only thing she can tell you is no. then you move on to the next thing you like


the problem is not where are they.. the problem is what are you doing when you see them. looking and saying DAMN... or walking up and saying HI



here's a gem.... wine tasting events.. lots of groups of single women, rare to see men there, and they all liquored up, dressed up, and ready to mingle

 

[Larry Lambo]

Females have their guards up in these types of spots, so their not as receptive. Not saying it's impossible but its not as smooth. I like catching women at the grocery stores or random places, that's when they have their guards down

Grocery stores are the worst for me. I always get the "damn I can't go anywhere without getting hollered at" vibe.

Now mind you I don't look for choosing signs and go after women I think are fine as hell. Maybe if I went after chicks who were a little more understated physically, it would be a different story.

 

[Black Steph Curry]

Twenty tree jump street. Starring Chicago's very own R Kelly!

 

[badtguy]

May depend on area. Grocery stores or any store. Chicks literally be striking up convos with me randomly.

And I'm usually the one like "damn I can't go no where without being checked out or disturbed" esp when I get off work sistas usually hit me with the "it's been a long day huh, what do you do, where do you work at?"

Grocery stores are the worst for me. I always get the "damn I can't go anywhere without getting hollered at" vibe.

Now mind you I don't look for choosing signs and go after women I think are fine as hell. Maybe if I went after chicks who were a little more understated physically, it would be a different story.

 

[How Sway?]

How old r u? There are always way more girls on college campuses than guys so you could meet a lot of them there, assuming you wouldn't look too out of place

Im 25 going on 26

But I look about 21-22.

 

[badtguy]

All the chicks I meet be single or in a relationship getting ready to exit talking about "yeah I'm kinda seeing someone but it's not going anywhere" infact met I met 1 today.

Every decent looking chick I meet is either married or in a relationship.

are these women really as single as they claim to be

or am I just that ugly that they make up an imaginary man just to get me away?

It might be you're wanting to get with these girls as opposed to just talking shyt to let time fly.

If you show interest in these joints too soon they'll be turned off, just talk to these joints like you would a nikka you been cool with and let time fly.

They usually say shyt like "it's crazy how much I feel like I know you" or "damn I'm telling you all my business"

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

May depend on area. Grocery stores or any store. Chicks literally be striking up convos with me randomly.

And I'm usually the one like "damn I can't go no where without being checked out or disturbed" esp when I get off work sistas usually hit me with the "it's been a long day huh, what do you do, where do you work at?"

y'all need to have better game... game adjusts to any situation

i was just talking to my home girl this morning about this. she starts off with "i wouldn't ever want to be hollered at in the grocery store"

so i said "what if i just asked you some shyt... like hey i'm trying to teach myself how to cook, and i'm thinking about baking some chicken with rice and veggies, but i'm not sure what some good sides would be"

she said she'd help me with that


then i said, "ok now what if while you're helping me, i'm being very thankful and polite.. and then i say something like... well if this turns out right, maybe i'll invite you over for dinner so i can cook something and you can see what i learned from you"



she literally awwww'd and said "well that would be different"



which tells me, that shyt would be in the bag if a nikka tried that shyt. now you not gonna shoot 100%... but like i said, life is short. you see something you want, you better go ahead and try. all she can say is no. and who knows, maybe you see her again. now she already knows who you are from the last encounter. try try again

 

[TransJenner]

Just walk up to a woman

 

[Larry Lambo]

Interesting. I haven't had problems in bars...the majority of women seem extra friendly around here. If you can make them laugh within a couple seconds you're good to go. Just gotta make the situation as comfortable as possible

I like bars because I get positive responses most times. I know the conversion rate is typically lower, but I'd rather shoot a lower % in an environment I feel more comfortable in.

 

[Larry Lambo]

y'all need to have better game... game adjusts to any situation

i was just talking to my home girl this morning about this. she starts off with "i wouldn't ever want to be hollered at in the grocery store"

so i said "what if i just asked you some shyt... like hey i'm trying to teach myself how to cook, and i'm thinking about baking some chicken with rice and veggies, but i'm not sure what some good sides would be"

she said she'd help me with that


then i said, "ok now what if while you're helping me, i'm being very thankful and polite.. and then i say something like... well if this turns out right, maybe i'll invite you over for dinner so i can cook something and you can see what i learned from you"



she literally awwww'd and said "well that would be different"



which tells me, that shyt would be in the bag if a nikka tried that shyt. now you not gonna shoot 100%... but like i said, life is short. you see something you want, you better go ahead and try. all she can say is no. and who knows, maybe you see her again. now she already knows who you are from the last encounter. try try again

Wayyy too much finesse for me, but I respeck it.

Everybody's G is different. I like environments where women are looking to socialize. But some cats can make it happen anywhere.

 

[shutterguy]

1. First step, is log off the coli.
2. Second, have at least one single homie to go out, enjoy yourselves and kick it at venues with a social atompshere where y'all know there will be females at.
3. Profit.

either you live in a rural town with a population of 20 or you just making excuses. bytches are everywhere. not just clubs/bars/lounges. they at grocery stores, the park, gyms, the starbucks, just walking along the street to work, to a show, to school, to a language class, to a happy hour, wherever. The only way you not encountering women is if you a homebody and choose not to go out. I've been tellin nikkas hop on kizomba. The kizomba socials and any dance social in general like salsa or bachata be loaded with women and not enough dudes to dance with. I didnt' believe till I went to one. Dozens of broads all dressed up on a fri/sat night dressed to the nines sitting against the wall looking because there's not enough brehs to dance with...

summertime music festivals, bbq festivals, wine fest, man it's so many options.


breh you just making excuses now. We didn't even begin talking about tinder/bumble/soulswipe at your fingertips. bytches you meet while you're out traveling. nikka

Bolded and quoted for the truth!!!

 

[Womb Raider]

Supermarket

 

[CoochieMane]

I actually meet a lot at work, whether it be customers or workmates. I used to feast at clubs as well but I never really knew if they were truly single but that didn't matter I was only interested in smashing back then.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Wayyy too much finesse for me, but I respeck it.

Everybody's G is different. I like environments where women are looking to socialize. But some cats can make it happen anywhere.

Oh I never actually tried it. But soon as she said she never would talk to a dude at the grocery store, I had to envision how I would pull it off

I'm the same way as you. If we are not in a place where socializing should be happening, I'm not going to walk up and just spit game.

But dudes do it and win daily. Coming up with all sorts of game and hollering at any and everything they deem fukkable.

These are the dudes you usually see with "all the women". It's not that they are something special. It's just that they try more often

20% of 100 is still more than 100% of 10

 

[Astroslik]

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20% of 100 is still more than 100% of 10

Fair point if you're looking for quantity, I'd rather take the 100% of 10 if the quality is better.