Where the hell do y'all meet single WOMEN at?

[Ohene]

y'all need to have better game... game adjusts to any situation

i was just talking to my home girl this morning about this. she starts off with "i wouldn't ever want to be hollered at in the grocery store"

so i said "what if i just asked you some shyt... like hey i'm trying to teach myself how to cook, and i'm thinking about baking some chicken with rice and veggies, but i'm not sure what some good sides would be"

she said she'd help me with that


then i said, "ok now what if while you're helping me, i'm being very thankful and polite.. and then i say something like... well if this turns out right, maybe i'll invite you over for dinner so i can cook something and you can see what i learned from you"



she literally awwww'd and said "well that would be different"



which tells me, that shyt would be in the bag if a nikka tried that shyt. now you not gonna shoot 100%... but like i said, life is short. you see something you want, you better go ahead and try. all she can say is no. and who knows, maybe you see her again. now she already knows who you are from the last encounter. try try again

tell these nikkas man

 

[VFib]

Id be surprised if women actually fell for that.
Not saying it won't work but it sounds too movie-ish and corny.
Who knows?

I wouldn't 'fall' for it but I'd be more receptive to a man who attempted to carry a conversation with me instead of "you got a man? Can I get yo numba"

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

let me give you the greatest advice when talking to women.. and i mean greatest

WOMEN LOVE THAT MOVIE shyt.. that's why they go to the movies and watch it... pick up books and read it.. rub their toys on their p*ssy and fantasize about it

they fukking love it.. they want that dream man that says all the right things.. they NEED it


why you think all these smooth talking nikkas always getting bytches.. while another man in the corner like "man you fell for that corny shyt" and she's like "i know i know.... but the way he said it, i just believed him"


women fukking love that shyt.. they'll tell you they don't.. but who they always fall for? who they always end up with? who is the guy their best male friend is always warning them is a liar and a fake? the smooth talking a$$hole dude right off the movie screen

The a$$hole aint tryna ask her over to cook.
I know a$$hole brehs that spit regular shyt and stay having a new female. You proly gotta try that angle on uppity chicks. But i thinl the average woman might laugh at you tryna sound like a comedy romance movie

 

[VFib]

At this point I'll take a girl with severe drinking/drug problems if it meant having a girl

A bar doesn't mean she has a drinking problem and not all women drink alcohol while at the bar. People socialize at bars and lounges. Single women are everywhere. There's no special place that they all go to. They live their lives just like anyone else. Shoot, I got approached the other day outside of a laundry mat. If you see someone you are attracted to, then approach. If she says No, treat it as her loss.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I wouldn't 'fall' for it but I'd be more receptive to a man who attempted to carry a conversation with me instead of "you got a man? Can I get yo numba"

Im not knockin the holding a conversation but it seems like a woman would look at it as "game" for playing a "im confused in the grocery store--how do you do this" scheme.

It just sounds cringeworthy to me. A woman most likely would know a dude aint look at her and said "damn....i sure wouldnt mind cooking for her"

 

[VFib]

Im not knockin the holding a conversation but it seems like a woman would look at it as "game" for playing a "im confused in the grocery store--how do you do this" scheme.

It just sounds cringeworthy to me. A woman most likely would know a dude aint look at her and said "damn....i sure wouldnt mind cooking for her"

The point is, he is conversing with her instead if asking a woman he literally just met for her number. He is showing that he has social skills, game or not. Any time a man you don't know approaches you and conversing with the intent of getting your number, it's game anyway IMO. Women know this. You aren't fooling anyone. It's the way you go about it. I'm not going to go over to his house and eat his cooking. I'll appreciate that he took the time to have a conversation with me instead of "shorty you lookin good. Let me holla at ya".

 

[How Sway?]

Where do you live?

raleigh nc

 

[blackzeus]

raleigh nc

Heartbreaking: Raleigh named worst city in America for dating

Singles: It’s not just you. Raleigh just snagged the notorious title of “worst city for singles to find unbiased love.”

You might want to live in a different city breh

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

The a$$hole aint tryna ask her over to cook.
I know a$$hole brehs that spit regular shyt and stay having a new female. You proly gotta try that angle on uppity chicks. But i thinl the average woman might laugh at you tryna sound like a comedy romance movie

the avg woman ain't trying to hear you ask her what's her name and what she do for a living and all the other bullshyt when she trying to grocery shop and shyt. that's what i mean by fit your game for the situation

an a$$hole is the type playing this fake ass role to get some p*ssy... knowing damn well he ain't cooking tonight or any other night she coming over. but i definitely see your point.. cause there are some dudes who take that a step farther and just say any old thing

but if you in the grocery store, open the convo up by talking about groceries... if you walking up on her at work, talk about work... if you in a clothing store, talk about some clothing... if you............ adjust your game. dont just be running up in every situation like "hey what's up, you looking good today"

don't be out here bothering bytches at nonsocial settings was my point. turn it into a social setting



edit: see what i mean... it's not 100%.. it's not perfect.. i could have typed something, but i was telling you the story of some bullshyt i thought up on a whim.

but the point is, women would be more open to talking in that setting, if you actually made the conversation about that setting. she already knows what you talking to her for, it's up to you to do the rest

The point is, he is conversing with her instead if asking a woman he literally just met for her number. He is showing that he has social skills, game or not. Any time a man you don't know approaches you and conversing with the intent of getting your number, it's game anyway IMO. Women know this. You aren't fooling anyone. It's the way you go about it. I'm not going to go over to his house and eat his cooking. I'll appreciate that he took the time to have a conversation with me instead of "shorty you lookin good. Let me holla at ya".

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

this what I figured. I knew too many ladies in a 'situationship'. Sometimes with a MFer that had multiple women too.

People, esp women no offense, love half-assing shyt nowadays more than ever.

They don't wanna be 'lonely' ...............but at the same time would rather not be official in order to avoid being 'tied down' , .......... yet don't want to be labeled a ho or stupid so they gotta find a name for whatever thing they got going on.

Most women just fukkin a guy and he's not her man but she being "faithful"...

I can't really explain it but it's common.

Hell I been there. You eventually realize how stupid you're being.

But in their defense the guy is probably blowing smoke up her ass and playing word games...like eventually, future, my girl you know lil silly shyt like that.

 

[How Sway?]

Heartbreaking: Raleigh named worst city in America for dating



You might want to live in a different city breh

good to know I'm not just trippin

I've been planning my great escape from here since I moved back in with my fam.

I'm looking at charlotte or the dmv or even Texas

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Go to a painting class that is BYOB

I went to one with my girl and I was one of two males there

It was a group of black females and a group of white hoes all drunk looking at me hard

If u single u would have ate good

 

[jackson35]

Where do they have black power rallies at?

there is always something poppin at harlem on 125 st and seventh. always a rally for some black cause in down town Brooklyn. there is beautiful sister in all ther glory at these rallies

 

[philmonroe]

Im not knockin the holding a conversation but it seems like a woman would look at it as "game" for playing a "im confused in the grocery store--how do you do this" scheme.

It just sounds cringeworthy to me. A woman most likely would know a dude aint look at her and said "damn....i sure wouldnt mind cooking for her"

Yeah unless that chick dumb as fukk she knows what time it is when a random dude approaches the vast majority of the time. What real reasons do you have to approach a woman out and about? If they like you and or they started the convo first you can say any ole thing and it just flows from there. Hell one time at a bar a chick started a convo with me by asking why I hate the Eagles and it was on from there.

 

[VFib]

IDon'tDoClubs hosts "Must Love Beards" parties in various states. It's free for men and women have to pay. These parties are full of women.

You have to go to places women go to, but some of you guys only want to complain about what women do and wonder why you aren't meeting any.

Paint Nite events is a perfect place to meet women. As one poster said, it's mostly women there. The only men I have seen there are with their SO. Dancing events, wine tastings, day parties, brunch places, after work HH, First Fridays at Schomburg, First Saturday at Brooklyn Museum, etc.


Step away from your boy friends for a few minutes and go speak to someone new. You might just meet someone.