My child.. of course. boyfriends come and go, husbands come and go, kids are forever and theyre innocent. Besides that, any man worth having around your kids like that would tell the mother to make sure the child eats first, or prepare a plate for the kid, he will wait to get his. That's for any situation tho.. kids first, adults last. what kind of mother would i be to make sure my child doesnt eat first, but I'm feeding the man, that's some thottery. That's like feeding my kid some microwave spaghetti-o's while we're sitting down eating a 3 course steak dinner.
But if we're together as a family, then we eat and break bread all together as a family, in that case everybody eats the same.