Who do yall ladies feed first

[Caca-faat]

Husband get served first and has the largest portion, child second and me last. But we are all eating at the same time. Husband’s plate will also be presented nicely but my plate is just put together.

 

[ben anderson]

Why would I let my children eat after me?

 

[SupaHotFire]

You should be embarrassed with yourself if child isn't the first thing that comes to mind. How is that not the only answer?

There are so many terrible parents

 

[Rockstar Mom]

And yes also acceptable...

I grew up eating as a family, and I do the same with mines. So i can’t really relate to who gets served “first”. I make all plates at the same time, put them all on the table at the same time,and then yell “Dinners ready”.

 

[Poitier]

Who cares?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

@Kex
@gogogubari
@Milk N Cookies

 

[Gold]

My child.. of course. boyfriends come and go, husbands come and go, kids are forever and theyre innocent. That's for any situation tho.. kids first, adults last. what kind of mother would i be to make sure my child doesnt eat first, but I'm feeding the man, that's some thottery. That's like feeding my kid some microwave spaghetti-o's while we're sitting down eating a 3 course steak dinner.

But if we're together as a family, then we eat and break bread all together as a family, in that case everybody eats the same.

Kids grow up tho.

When I was in my teens my mother wasn't preparing a plate for me.
She made one for my dad and told the rest of us to fix our own plate

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

You feed everyone at the same time.

I said this in another post. I'll probably have everybody plates sitting in front them as I go around the table and put food on each plate.

I don't know why this is an constant debate amongst people.

 

[Gold]

You should be embarrassed with yourself if child isn't the first thing that comes to mind. How is that not the only answer?

There are so many terrible parents

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You should be embarrassed with yourself if child isn't the first thing that comes to mind. How is that not the only answer?

There are so many terrible parents

I think it goes back not to people being terrible parents, but having.... I'll say... unfocused relationships.

What I mean by that is I'm reading these comments by women who say "of course my man eats first" which is selfless of her, for sure. But wouldn't that man know that the entire focus of ya'lls relationship should be the well-being of the children? Does that man really require that gesture in order to feel like a man? Is he gonna raise a stink if the 4 year old takes a bite before he does? If so, he's probably kind of not shyt.

Ultimately, it's the man's house and he needs to direct priorities as he sees fit.

 

[StarGirl]

I’m not feeding my kids that nonsense

 

[Gold]

Child.

at a grown man catching feelings over his progeny getting sustenance before him.

Maybe this is a cultural thing but there isn't a Nigerian woman alive who is gonna fix her kids a plate before making her husband food.

I could absolutely see a Naija man catching feelings over that.

Especially if she gives away all the best meats first

 

[Karb]

Y'all would eat in the presence of starving kids giving you that hungry look?

Fukk kinda monsters...

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Maybe this is a cultural thing but there isn't a Nigerian woman alive who is gonna fix her kids a plate before making her husband food.

I could absolutely see a Naija man catching feelings over that.

Especially if she gives away all the best meats first

Yea, different cultures do things differently for sure.

I'm at the mental image of a dude spazzing out at his kid.

 

[Gold]

Yea, different cultures do things differently for sure.

I'm at the mental image of a dude spazzing out at his kid.

Breh i'm telling you it happens


Imagine getting a bigger piece of meat than your father.

Somebody gonna fight before supper is finished i guarantee it.