T-K-G
Veteran
40-45 minutes out is the max distance someone should be able to commute comfortable to work assuming they have a car, that shouldn't be a deal breaker for any reasonable adultNo they make excuses cause "But I like it here and we have a Wegmans"
My steppop used to drive an hour each way to work to survive and work two more jobs after that... nikka in a million dollar home now with 3 more in Florida
My girl's uncle got a farm... hundreds of acres... Still drove 3 motherfukking hours to dc to work everyday and back... Now he don't work at all on his 100 acres and broke some off to his two kids and still sitting on more
I live 30 mins outside the city.. When I tell people it's "Damn that's a far commute.. Damn why you live so far... Damn you can just get an apt in the city." Then they pull up to the HOUSE, ask about my rent, and see all my extra cash and say "Damn... Can I stay the weekend? I hate my little apt. I wish I had a yard. You should buy this place."
You don't have to go to those extremes.. But to cry about moving 45 mins away cause "I don't want to drive" is insane when you also "don't want to pay the rent to live there" Sounds like you got a problem.. You gonna move or pay out your ass and yell at the sky?
That's called sacrifice.. You do what you don't want to do, save up and improve your salary, then do what the fukk you want earlier than everybody else in life who wanted to just get by and do the bare minimum..
It DOES get tricky if you live in an area with high traffic tho
