Why are men expected to provide and protect?
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.Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.
I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman
The fear is if you don't - you'll actually think critically about surrendering
your resources and realize how selfish women actually are
That would be a disaster for the economy and society as a whole.
Ya' Cousin Cleon
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this site really is filled with incels my god
Elle Driver
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Things are changing these days though.
Then what's the basis of the thread? Relationships are at the core mutually beneficial. Women traditionally don't work so that they can provide a nurturing home.
If a woman works then domestic duties are split. That's pretty standard.
As far as protecting, as someone else said, you'll be hard pressed to find a woman who will be okay you leaving her to the wolves if she is in danger but you can find it. Women protect their men and child too and you unwillingness to do that probably means you'll sacrifice a lot of respect.
if the gun toting gang banging neighbor saw u walking by and grabbed your ass and said "damn my nikka u looking thick" would u fight him?
clearly, there are circumstances you'd feel ok fighting the dude behind. if i'm not one of them, then you not my man. i don't even think in this scenario most women would let u actually go fight, they'd stop u at the door. but the guy would at least have to show a willingness to protect her
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Theres no excuse not to be a protector, but it’s hard to be the sole provider in this current environment.
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I feel the same way. I grew up in a household where my Mom was a stay at home mom and my Dad worked. Growing up seeing how that dynamic works caused me to realize that's not the lifestyle I want to have. It doesn't motivate me and I don't like the idea of providing for a woman that doesn't work. Previously I was open to the idea of being the typical provider if the woman plays the supporter role perfectly but the thing is how many women can even handle that. Most women can't even play the supportive role without becoming unhappy about it :OLIVIAFACEPALM1:
I'm a lot more attracted to women that want to contribute and don't want to be carried by a man. I've also found out that once a man meets a woman he connects with and truly likes (can possibly grow to love) then it's natural to want to uplift and protect that woman. It doesn't feel like a job or something that she's entitled to. The whole entitlement with women expecting a man to protect and provide for them is a big turn off for me and I don't think women that believe in traditional gender roles are for me.
I'm a lot more attracted to women that want to contribute and don't want to be carried by a man. I've also found out that once a man meets a woman he connects with and truly likes (can possibly grow to love) then it's natural to want to uplift and protect that woman. It doesn't feel like a job or something that she's entitled to. The whole entitlement with women expecting a man to protect and provide for them is a big turn off for me and I don't think women that believe in traditional gender roles are for me.
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BmoreGorilla
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Think of it like this. You in the crib with your girl and there’s a spider. You gonna curl up in a ball and ask her to get it? You hear a strange sound in the house at night you gonna ask her to check it out while you stay wrapped up in a comforter?
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
gotta give that bytch some chores
make her punk ass run errands
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