Why are single moms the devil again?

[MalikX]

thanks for the honesty.

the root for a great deal of this single mamma hate is because some of yall feel thats one less chick for you to fukk conveniently

or old pain over some chick that you couldnt fukk but clearly she let someone else fukk and shoot the club up.


no need to make up grand stories about worrying about the black community.
anyone who was truly concerned with the community would be 100% pro-2 parent homes and expect better from both black men and black women.

And if you cared about the black community....you would've gotten married to that nikka before having his babies. The black community needs strong families. Not single mothers, absent or part time daddies and confusion. A strong nuclear family. And yea.....I'll wait while you give me an example of single mothers being praised anywhere in any community over childless women If anything, the black community is the most forgiving.

 

[HellRell804]

Because single motherhood reduces our chance if finding a suitable wife.

Shame is good.

Shame will hopefully convince other women to be smarter and choose not to have out of wedlock children.

This was a REALLY dumbass question.

You gotta understand bruh, bytch nigas and women don't care about society as a whole. They don't give AF about the future.

For women, bytch nikkas, and degenerates this is probably the best time in history to be alive. Of course he doesn't want women to stop putting themselves on the discount shelf. Better quality women = high standards = more work to meet said standards. No sir lol

Let's all hold hands and let these women live their lives

 

[MalikX]

It really wasn't.

I actually salute you for the first part of the answer. Good luck with your search

So how do you translate the shaming to women who don't have kids so they don't get caught up?

What other things do you find not suitable in a wife and how do you go about shaming them for that?

Not playing your game whoadie.

If you gotta problem with anyone not wanting the baggage of a single mother, then you clearly have an agenda.

 

[The ADD]

Not playing your game whoadie.

If you gotta problem with anyone not wanting the baggage of a single mother, then you clearly have an agenda.

No worries. I stated numerous times in this thread that I don't blame a dude for that choice or reward him for the opposite.

 

[Wiles]

btw

i dont think theres anything wrong with someone who doesnt have children [or even someone who does] not wanting to date people with children
everyone is entitled to their own standards, whether that be childless or tall or making a certain ammount of money etc.

just no need to demonize them, you dont want em then dont date em

I agree

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[wickedsm]

And if you cared about the black community....you would've gotten married to that nikka before having his babies. The black community needs strong families. Not single mothers, absent or part time daddies and confusion. A strong nuclear family. And yea.....I'll wait while you give me an example of single mothers being praised anywhere in any community over childless women If anything, the black community is the most forgiving.

im married you fool.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

so every single mom an angel now

there are good ones and straight up garbage ones

 

[MalikX]

so where do you stand on premarital sex?
premarital sex leads to oow children
and stds
and abortions

do you agree that everyone should abstain from premarital sex so we can all have the largest pool of suitable partners?

You get pregnant in 2016 because you want to. White women and Asian women take just as much penis yet don't come close to our rate of single motherhood.

 

[wickedsm]

You get pregnant in 2016 because you want to. White women and Asian women take just as much penis yet don't come close to our rate of single motherhood.

k so lots of premarital fukking is fine.
just not out of wedlock babies. gotcha.

how do you feel about bringing back shotgun weddings?

 

[MalikX]

im married you fool.

Could've fooled me with your silly questions. You seemed personally involved. Baggage isn't attractive. You sounded like you took offense.

 

[MalikX]

k so lots of premarital fukking is fine.
just not out of wedlock babies. gotcha.

how do you feel about bringing back shotgun weddings?

Or you could just get on the pill and take plan B like every other woman

 

[MalikX]

White and Asian girls run through 20 guys in college. Still childless.

Black chicks fukk 10 guys and end up with 3 kids.

Priorities

 

[MalikX]

I'll take that back. It's not even a race thing tbh....black college girls ain't getting pregnant like that either.

Just the hood boogers.

Having a child is their greatest life achievement

 

[wickedsm]

Could've fooled me with your silly questions. You seemed personally involved. Baggage isn't attractive. You sounded like you took offense.

you the one sounding upset making nasty comments to me about how i" should have got that nikka to marry me"

i dont believe ive come at anyone personally in this thread.

im contributing to a conversation, which is the purpose of this website.

if you think its silly that i feel both black women and men need to do better

feel free to put me on ignore.

 

[Citi Trends]

why do the mouth breathing idiots on this site always try to use this place as a barometer for the rest of the country?

the reason single mothers are talked about so much here is because outside of here who the hell talks about single mothers and their responsibility/problems
deadbeat fathers have been lambasted for decades and they're a running joke, they get fined and priced out the ass and we all know about them. but where is the same for women who choose aint shyt nikkas, have kids and then blame it on everyone else while raising them terribly?

This is the thing. women can set standards for men and look out for eachother all day, but as soon as men tell eachother what to look out for it's "shaming" and "bitterness" and "yo mama is ____ yu hate yo mama"

The reason single mothers are discussed here and not absent fathers is because this is a primarily men website where men can actually have somewhere to speak about their problems and interactions without being nagged and shamed by women.