Why are single moms the devil again?

[wickedsm]

I'll take that back. It's not even a race thing tbh....black college girls ain't getting pregnant like that either.

Just the hood boogers.

Having a child is their greatest life achievement

if its just hood boogers then whats the problem?
you not checkin for hood boogers right?

 

[Neuromancer]

thanks for the honesty.

the root for a great deal of this single mamma hate is because some of yall feel thats one less chick for you to fukk conveniently

or old pain over some chick that you couldnt fukk but clearly she let someone else fukk and shoot the club up.


no need to make up grand stories about worrying about the black community.
anyone who was truly concerned with the community would be 100% pro-2 parent homes and expect better from both black men and black women.

I agree with most of this except the bold wick. I've found single mom's the most convenient to sleeplay with. I think if you're up front about not wanting to court them or be in their kids lives it gets easier, to get to the nit and grit.

 

[MalikX]

if its just hood boogers then whats the problem?
you not checkin for hood boogers right?

If they didn't have 10 kids, maybe.

 

[wickedsm]

I agree with most of this except the bold wick. I've found single mom's the most convenient to sleeplay with. I think if you're up front about not wanting to court them or be in their kids lives it gets easier, to get to the nit and grit.

no i absolutely agree with you, i think unfortunately alot of single parents are deseperate for affection or wishing for a fairytale ending.

i was more referring to the attitude of some of theses super i hate baby mama posters and their motivation.

 

[Neuromancer]

no i absolutely agree with you, i think unfortunately alot of single parents are deseperate for affection or wishing for a fairytale ending.

i was more referring to the attitude of some of theses super i hate baby mama posters and their motivation.

Oh. I see. Yeah. No need to hate em. One of my best friends is a single mom. Started out as an FWB, but I made it clear it would never be more. She is the type looking for a fairytale ending, sad tbh. Everyone should have a slice of happiness.

 

[Action Mike]

This myth that "single mothers didn't give us play in the past now we're bitter" is bs.

Just undesirable. That's it.

When women talk about their turnoffs are we saying "oh a short nikka didn't give you play huh...huh!"

...

Dating with a gang of kids is just undesirable. End of story.

 

[Neuromancer]

This myth that "single mothers didn't give us play in the past now we're bitter" is bs.

Just undesirable. That's it.

When women talk about their turnoffs are we saying "oh a short nikka didn't give you play huh...huh!"

...

Dating with a gang of kids is just undesirable. End of story.

This too is true. It's a weird double standard that men are bitter or something because they don't like something. But women aren't because they don't like something.

 

[The ADD]

This too is true. It's a weird double standard that men are bitter or something because they don't like something. But women aren't because they don't like something.

I don't disagree but it's self-reported here. Part of the narrative is that she didn't want "me" (or a guy like me) and chose Jaquavious and had Jaylen and now she wants me because I'm successful. Maybe bitter isn't the right term but let's not say that isn't part of it. .

 

[Citi Trends]

This myth that "single mothers didn't give us play in the past now we're bitter" is bs.

Just undesirable. That's it.

When women talk about their turnoffs are we saying "oh a short nikka didn't give you play huh...huh!"

...
Dating with a gang of kids is just undesirable. End of story.

Like a said a few posts ago. Women can warn their friends of certain men and set standards for men all day but if men do the same we're shamed and ridiculed and told we're shaming women. Then they come up with the standard shaming tactics even emotional ass men do this now.

Men dont run around crying in women's circles about who they do and dont like or making think pieces about women shaming broke men. This is a primarily male website so we're going to talk about things that pertain to males, we dont invade female sites and make them talk about bad females.

 

[wickedsm]

i dont think its such a double standard really.

these miserable cows on fb and the gram who continuously post all the memes about aint shyt nikkas and whats the defenition of a "real man" we all call bitter

if you rant about some shyt incessantly chances are you might be bitter


if i knew some chick who was kept repeating that short guys aint shyt and short guys should just accept the dregs of society as opposed to just saying "short men arent attractive to me, i dont date them"

i would wonder what short man broke that miserable bytches heart too



i agree with @The ADD post above. its a common theme on here "oh shes run through. oh she already had her fun with dontavius and them. she wouldnt have looked at me/ you 5 years ago, 10 years ago"

thats bitter-ish at the very least.

 

[Neuromancer]

I don't disagree but it's self-reported here. Part of the narrative is that she didn't want "me" (or a guy like me) and chose Jaquavious and had Jaylen and now she wants me because I'm successful. Maybe bitter isn't the right term but let's not say that isn't part of it. .

I think the word is offended. Who wants to be anyone's second choice after their first choice screwed them over?

 

[wickedsm]

Like a said a few posts ago. Women can warn their friends of certain men and set standards for men all day but if men do the same we're shamed and ridiculed and told we're shaming women. Then they come up with the standard shaming tactics even emotional ass men do this now.

Men dont run around crying in women's circles about who they do and dont like or making think pieces about women shaming broke men. This is a primarily male website so we're going to talk about things that pertain to males, we dont invade female sites and make them talk about bad females.

i asked another breh upthread what is this "shaming" that i see yall mentioning
[not trying to be funny, seriously looking for someone to expand]

how can someone "shame" you for what you like or dont like?
and how can that be effective?

i mean i wont feel ashamed unless im guilty of something wrong. no guilt no shame

can you provide some examples?


how is the baby mama shaming different than any other type of woman you might not be attracted to like obese women or unattractive women or unemployed women?

 

[The ADD]

I think the word is offended. Who wants to be anyone's second choice after their first choice screwed them over?

Good choice on offended. I think it depends on your outlook:
Truth be told you likely won't be your wife's first choice. In saying that a kid would be a reminder of that which is fair.
How many of these situations are actually truly a situation where its actually the person that was rejected being approached by the single mom later?
I get confused with where the interaction gets deep enough to cause these situations. If you know she has kids and you don't want that, I would imagine the interaction ends after she approaches and you find out. That seems fairly harmless and not much to be worked up about.

 

[EndDomination]

so where do you stand on premarital sex?
premarital sex leads to oow children
and stds
and abortions

do you agree that everyone should abstain from premarital sex so we can all have the largest pool of suitable partners?

This is the best answer.
No more premarital sex.
I can throw my support behind this.

 

[Action Mike]

This is a primarily male website so we're going to talk about things that pertain to males, we dont invade female sites and make them talk about bad females.

Exactly. And let's maintain, got younguns reading this.

Sure you have the over the top populace here but the point still stands. It should be generally condemned unless the case is exceptional.

Most men know this anyway, where just typing it.

Ain't no one bitter. How can I face my father and people bringing a single mother home....