Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?

[Blackking]

I've always said that the worst a chick can say is no. But what I've learned later in life is that some chicks have a certain way of saying no that can kinda get under your skin.

Some guys are luckier than others. I'm not saying that because some guys get madd hoes and so the rejection doesn't matter. What I'm saying is some guys have pulled women with ease at a young enuf age that they were able to realize sh1t about women that would normally harm a man.

First off, a real woman says no or I have a man if she's not interested. No big deal. A stupid bithc says it with a certain sting in her voice. - You shouldn't let this hurt you because you should know that those women are hurting inside or are insecure. It's not because of you, so you can't take it personal.

Second, confident men pick targets. You know your limits and your confidence usually allows women to give u a chance. If you have no confidence, them build some and talk to lesser chicks in the mean time.

Third, a mistake men make is thinking that pulling madd women will build confidence or increase skills. Realistically, You learn the most sh1t from a GF or a girl that you’ve known for a while. She builds you up, plus you learn her body and the good sex builds you up.

Fourth, the easiest time to talk to a chick is when you already have a girl. Plus if you are ugly or fat - there are other things you can do to get women. Get Money- Money will increase swag/confidence and eventually a women will like you for you. Or be funny. Or be friends with girls at work/school.. one of them will get to know you and like you.

being fat or ugly is just an excuse. There are attractive men that also have no confidence.. they just luck up and get that one chick that lets them know that the world is their playground if they want it.

Just find out what a b1tch wants and you can have her... then be careful what you asked for, because the worse thing is to be w a chick who really isn't feeling you.

 

[Mr.bocario]

You guys are taking this rejection thing too seriously. There is a reason why they call it ''game''.
There is a endless supply of women out there, so the idea of a girl ruining your reputation by telling her friends, wont happen

The idea that getting rejected will be embarrasing is a lie. Only bytches(women you dont want) and Dudes too afraid to do what you do will laugh at you being rejected, but others will respect your courage.

The idea that a girl rejected you because you did something wrong is a lie. She doesn't know anything about you nor do you know anything about her, so why would you care about someone that doesn't fully know you rejecting
. If a girl wants to fukk with you she'll fukk with you.

I could go all day in this thread, but I got class

 

[Frump]

Its one thign to get rejected by good looking women but when you get harshly rejected by average looking women with a sense of entitlement it gets frustrating

 

[BigE214]

This has always been funny to me. I remember nights coming out the club with 10 numbers nshyt and a few of my boys would have 0 cause they didn't wanna get rejected.



































Niggga like me in there going 10 for 38

 

[electric_fur]

because women are trained to be complete c*nts when we're rejecting men. We have to be otherwise you hang around.

 

[Wild self]

I've always said that the worst a chick can say is no. But what I've learned later in life is that some chicks have a certain way of saying no that can kinda get under your skin.

that public embarrassment shyt is no joke. That is why you gotta have a car and know many social circles around.

 

[ChocolateCake]

Dont reject me :sadsoulja:

You... never

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

You... never

 

[Wild self]

Of course there is only so much rejection one can take before they give up.

People don't know that. Especially if he isn't getting proper info that can improve his game drastically.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

good thread

 

[Wise]

Her: It's just that i... that i...

... never seen an angel without wings before...

Her: :inlove:



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Everything that you said was agreeable but its hard for me to believe that you can keep a convo going with a girl saying some shyt like this lol.

Its a mad corny pickup line, pickup lines dont work. Personally, I wouldn't even compliment the main things about her off the bat (ie. she pretty, etc) She hears that all the time, say something that makes you standout (now this isn't an excuse to act like an idiot lol)

Again.....



You actually say that angel shyt bro? lol

Personally I like hitting on girls with my homies along, cause if I get rejected I can have a laugh with them, less intimidated for some reason.

Also, some guys who are afraid of that bytchy rejection. Arent you glad you got it over with? Rather than thinking about it the whole day "what if", you found out shes a bytch and wasn't even worth your time.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Everything that you said was agreeable but its hard for me to believe that you can keep a convo going with a girl saying some shyt like this lol.

Its a mad corny pickup line, pickup lines dont work. Personally, I wouldn't even compliment the main things about her off the bat (ie. she pretty, etc) She hears that all the time, say something that makes you standout (now this isn't an excuse to act like an idiot lol)

Again.....



You actually say that angel shyt bro? lol

Personally I like hitting on girls with my homies along, cause if I get rejected I can have a laugh with them, less intimidated for some reason.

Also, some guys who are afraid of that bytchy rejection. Arent you glad you got it over with? Rather than thinking about it the whole day "what if", you found out shes a bytch and wasn't even worth your time.

i feel you

 

[Jesus]

Maybe if majority dudes stop trying to spit game at the female

keep the shyt simple

Hello, How are u doing today? Whats your name?

this approach is simple respectful and from their the conversation is on you

and if she rejects you

just say

No worries it was nice to have met you take care

then leave it at that

way too many woman to be all BUTTHURT BOUT A DAMN REJECTION

That's all I do nice in and out delivery...

 

[PhonZhi]

lol i agree with this. i understand the mindframe of the threadstarter, but in all honesty, the reason people fear rejection is what you just posted.

even as a guy, if i see another guy get shot down, i feel sorry for him. its not a good look. imagine a girl seeing the same thing. its one thing to get shot down when there aint nobody to witness it, its another to get shotdown in front of people. the walk of shame away from the spot where it happen can have souls burning hotter than the deepest regions of hell.

and with all of that said its still a better feeling than not hollerin and having the question "what if?" on your mind all day and night

 

[PhonZhi]

chicks be like........................

Dikembe Mutombo Blocks Michael Jordan 2 times in a game - YouTube

when the hell did Dikembe play for the knicks???!!!!