bloodsimple.
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Went through this thread, now I'm 
as fukk.
All those painful memories.
as fukk.All those painful memories.
Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?
- Thread starter kermit da hustla
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Maybe if majority dudes stop trying to spit game at the female
keep the shyt simple
Hello, How are u doing today? Whats your name?
this approach is simple respectful and from their the conversation is on you
and if she rejects you
just say
No worries it was nice to have met you take care
then leave it at that
way too many woman to be all BUTTHURT BOUT A DAMN REJECTION
That's another thing i don't think WE guys emphasize enough but I mentioned in my last post.
Depending on my mood, i like to go extra like sugar free gum.
Across the board, the most overall effective method to approach-ology is the K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple, Stevewinwood) execution. That i agree.
A vast (if not majority) of women appreciate a nice, subtle gesture in the form of, "Hey, how are you?"
BUT gauging on how many of those they get a week, you think your odds of creating any lasting impression going to be great if your approach was just a simple, run-of-the-mill greeting with no umph to it?
If i see a girl at say, Starbucks, i'm going to switch the game up a little bit and infiltrate your roaming domain, smile while i casually (with a slight squint on my right eye) and utter:
You: Hello, i noticed you're sipping a nice frappa mochacino with extra whipped cream and brown sugar cinnamon spice. But the thing that got me is that i'm surprised you can even taste anything in that thing.
Her: Uhhh... what do you mean?
You: Well, i figured it'd be pointless for you to consume something with so much sugar - considering the fact that you look so much sweeter.
Her:
Don't underestimate the power of a little banter and silliness mixed with a punch, hook and sinker.
Most women respond to it well because:
1. It's creative
2. They're grow weary of the repetitive remarks that regular Jay from Around The Way has to say (when she's already seen, heard and kicked to the curb, about the last dozen or so herbs - and that's word).
If i expend any kind of energy initiating convo with a random female stranger, i'm going to make it worth her while.
So in the event that i do get rejected like a midget at a basketball court, i'm at least going to feel the dignity and fortitude that i was able to exit the scenario by giving her a gift via the random act of aural stimulation and in public flattery.
When you're walking away, she's thinking to herself, "Did that really happen to me?"
And that pink blush color on her cheek sittin pretty on that supple skin of hers ain't from no make-up.
Just don't ever feel defeated from your ill-experiences (or rather, rejections).
Consider it a learning lesson and "thrive" off of your mistakes.
Modify your approach, choose your words carefully but most importantly -
You just have to do it.
And trust - you'll eventually create a strategy for yourself that's tailor made to your abilities and desires.
Once that form has been established - there ain't NOTHING you can accomplish in this life.
So get out there, soar through this social paradigm like the captain you are to your proverbial star ship.
Salute.
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Dreamzeedream
Banned
yea i think you got chance with her breh,she might wanted u to holla again you the saying "another place another time"
kermit da hustla
Banned
Agree. I came at her the wrong way. Too cocky. fukk it.
I very rarely approach women in public, I pretty much won't unless she's already hitting on me or dropping obvious hints.
For me it's not a matter of being scared, I'm just not willing to let some chick get an ego boost off of trying to embarrass me in public.
you're not the only one, iono about other parts of the country but here in the bay area i swear i have rarely seen dudes go up to women in public even if its just to say hello to them/make casual conversation. high school kids do the corny "yo yo yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo can i holla can i holla" crap but dudes in their mid to late 20s or even older, in regular daytime situations i never see it. people prefer to do this in clubs and bars for some reason.
i started a convo with a broad like that a lil while ago, i approached her and introduced myself and she was giving me the
look being suspicious and sht like i was trying to rape her. then i asked her if she gets approached by dudes the way i went up to her and she said no. then i was like yea no wonder you're acting like im an alien, im just making conversation relax 
that seemed to calm her down and after a while of talking about how people in the bay area arent friendly or approachable even just to shoot the sht about things like the weather she let her guard down. didnt even ask for her number cuz she was actin like a snob.
i can count on 1 hand the times ive seen dudes go up to girls out here in the day time at a store or in the street. everybody so into their damn smartphones or suspicious of people. ppl out in the midwest/east coast seem friendlier to me
Dreamzeedream
Banned
i feel u, just play it smooth
What is funny to me about women is they can dish out a bunch of hateful shyt. but if you return it they get all
.Personally, I am not afraid of rejection per se, but I am concerned about a female trying to embarrass me by being rude/disrespectful in her rejection. A rude/disrespectful rejection would make me I feel like I should punch her in the sternum. A polite rejection should be suffice.
Moreover, I rarely women because I do not want to give them any ammo to label me as a thirsty dude to their family and friends. Many women have a tendency to throw the thirsty label onto any guy that approaches them, even when a guy does not exhibit ANY thirstiness.
Moreover, I rarely women because I do not want to give them any ammo to label me as a thirsty dude to their family and friends. Many women have a tendency to throw the thirsty label onto any guy that approaches them, even when a guy does not exhibit ANY thirstiness.
you're not the only one, iono about other parts of the country but here in the bay area i swear i have rarely seen dudes go up to women in public even if its just to say hello to them/make casual conversation. high school kids do the corny "yo yo yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo can i holla can i holla" crap but dudes in their mid to late 20s or even older, in regular daytime situations i never see it. people prefer to do this in clubs and bars for some reason.
i started a convo with a broad like that a lil while ago, i approached her and introduced myself and she was giving me the
that seemed to calm her down and after a while of talking about how people in the bay area arent friendly or approachable even just to shoot the sht about things like the weather she let her guard down. didnt even ask for her number cuz she was actin like a snob.
i can count on 1 hand the times ive seen dudes go up to girls out here in the day time at a store or in the street. everybody so into their damn smartphones or suspicious of people. ppl out in the midwest/east coast seem friendlier to me
Nah, women down south are easier to talk to, as long as you not on that simp shyt. Seems to me that urban areas with little space have the rudest women around and the thirstiest men available.
Southern women can be very fickle and rude.
bloodsimple.
Rookie
If you dealing with ratchet hoes, then yeah.
YaThreadFloppedB!
The Patron Saint of Threads
This is true, alot of women have "group think" mentality.
This is also why alot of women need their guhfriend opinion of you before they mess with you even if they like you.
That shyt is the worst. They let their cockblocking girlfriend see them remain unhappy to make them feel good. Its eat plentiful or starve to death in the dating game now.