Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?

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A lot of guys take the shyt personal and it actually hurts their feelings.:wow:








simps:lolbron:

:wtf: because it is personal. To understand someone peep what the homie Atticus Finch said and walk a mile in their shoes.

A guy youre feeling/ attracted to shoots you down-- your feelings gon get hurt a lil initially.
 

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:wtf: because it is personal. To understand someone peep what the homie Atticus Finch said and walk a mile in their shoes.

A guy youre feeling/ attracted to shoots you down-- your feelings gon get hurt a lil initially.

Truth. Real tired of people saying this.

It is personal, period. Call me a bytch if you want, but you're lying to yourself or being intellectually dishonest if you don't think it's not somewhat personal.

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This chit is pretty much common sense

But for most people, it's easier said than done
 

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I've always said that the worst a chick can say is no. But what I've learned later in life is that some chicks have a certain way of saying no that can kinda get under your skin.
 

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Nah, women down south are easier to talk to, as long as you not on that simp shyt. Seems to me that urban areas with little space have the rudest women around and the thirstiest men available.

NY dudes are out of control with the thirstiness

Guys leaving UPS trucks in the middle of the street to holla at a hot woman. Calm your ass down. Its a peice of ass man
 

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:wtf: because it is personal. To understand someone peep what the homie Atticus Finch said and walk a mile in their shoes.

A guy youre feeling/ attracted to shoots you down-- your feelings gon get hurt a lil initially.

True:youngsabo:

but the reason a person gets rejected isn't always his/her fault. Thats what I'm saying. If it is personal and a chick shoots you down because she isn't interested in YOU... it happens :manny:. now, if a chick shoots you down because she isn't interested in dating or a relationship, thats different. And in that case there is no need to take it personal. it's not you, its her.
 

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Once again, limiting yourself to those who you believe are giving you signs.


That's fine.


But most women, when they're feeling a dude, will not give the slightest hint that's she's adoring a babe.

This is when you have to confront the babe of your choosing.

Yes, i agree that women ultimately select their mates... but what happens when opportunities for them to do that aren't necessarily they're best options or they're simply tired of the conventional game most fellas douse them with.

It's up to you, a coli bi-product who's a know all, be all, see all and skeet on vickie draws.

If i waited for women to toss me the bat signal - then i'd be waiting for ever to respond (and there would be no action for this proverbial caped crusader).

On the flip side, a man has to get right by initiating. By doing so, you're actually "creating attraction". A woman's mind is almost like a pinball machine. It's not going to play itself, but once you slip in the qwo-ter, you cawk back that spring, let it rip and watch the action commence.

How long you keep that ball afloat in the table (macking her down with sheer conversation and moistening her mental slit) determines how far you go with her after after the dialogue has come to a halt. And once you do retrieve the digits, whether or not how strong your initial impression was could be traced back to how memorable your rapport was.

You can try to not make this a science like all the aforementioned...

But that's ONLY WHEN YOU'VE BECOME A NATURALIST (approaching and gaming women truly does become an act of routine and mundanity - but look at how i said mundane because you do it so frequently, the act itself is a lot like brushing your teefs and lacing your kicks; trust me on that).

I've never simped on the internet because reality (as cruel as it can be sometimes, or early in your excursion)... can serve as the plate that keeps you eating good as you should, if and ONLY if - you treat it good (but be mindful to act with swerve to these birds - women love a man with a strong sense of self-assured character and machismo. Be a leader and EVERY woman will follow).

Be the kind lion that ain't err gotta be tryin to have these bytches wildin' for a fly whiz that squirts that fine jizz and can get puss in under five min. I ain't lyin' kids.

Who you are to yourself and how much respect you have as a man is what dictates the quality of your sex life (e.g. never sell yourself short, don't put puss on no mothafukkin' pedal stool and realize that this life you have was meant to be scoured cuz there are WAAAYYYY too many hoes to devour - just ditch that ones that keep that nether region sour).

The world is your social playground...

Once you realize that - you can play on, playa.


Cuz you see, that's what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles...


The captains --- from the crunch.



And like a prom dress...


... i'm off!




Umph.




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What in the bootleg Art Barr impersonation is going on in here

































































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Personally, I'm insecure, self conscious, anxious, all that ugly shyt....fear is some powerful shyt, I've passed or never took so many opportunities, because I was so stuck in that fear, the chance that maybe they DONT want you, and you'll be embarrassed. I'm the guy that thinks the waitress or cab driver won't like him, so for intimacy and relationships, that anxiety and fear is beyond crippling. I'm trying to turn that shyt over though, because it's too short not too. I learned recently, I took the smallest of chances, showed the slightest interest, and a handful of women I'd known for awhile were with it.

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this nikka just described me perfectly
 
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:wtf: because it is personal. To understand someone peep what the homie Atticus Finch said and walk a mile in their shoes.

A guy youre feeling/ attracted to shoots you down-- your feelings gon get hurt a lil initially.

why? not everyone is going to feel you. for every girl that disses you, you're going to get a girl that likes you. that's life. if that shyt hurts your feelings, you got bigger problems than getting p*ssy.
 

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^ breh obviously if a guh rejects you, you should 'oh well' it & charge it. And Im not saying every guh should feel you.

Every person is gon feel some type of way about getting rejected, you just shouldnt dwell on it and K.I.M
 

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What in the bootleg Art Barr impersonation is going on in here



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I'll actually interpret that as a compliment. :o:

Let a mothafukka like me tell you that everything that i post on the Coli is shiit that i've actually applied in real life - i don't sit behind a computer screen and mope about approach anxiety and the disdain/heartache that typically follows or even "chastise" others for throwing in their two cents.

Naw, i literally knew society and the way they perceived my kind would create a steep uphill battle for me. My mentality was, "Fukk it, if that's the case, let this underdog show these fukks what i was capable of." I was determined to not let the unsurmountable experiences of rejection and dismay discourage me from *ahem* ---- finding the woman of my dreams. Nytol love.

You see? I been thru the heartache, i knew about the sleepless nights and personal struggles of seeing couples hold hands, that PDA shiit i never got growing up while i was at Starbucks dolo and staring out of the window pane... (and its as though i could relate to why they referred to the window glass as such - cuz i could feel was pane/pain).

I have, on numerous occasions, asked other Seattleites from this forum to come kick it with me on the weekends; have some dranks, poli about misc. topics from the coli and bullshiit prolly (but at the same time, i was gonna wow these guys at the same time with game spitting spectacles and full-fledged broad snatching debauchery).


Underneaf it all...


Women need to be approached.


Their all lonesome dove bugs that need some thug love.


When the shiit hits the bricks, any one of you can lay a fine demonic fox over an italian broad cloth plush rug.


ANd once you've achieved that feeling, it'll taking you higher than 30 inch dubs and crushed drugs.


But all this can't come true... if y'all keep givin' a fugg... what.


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