Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?

[semtex]

how do i spit good game? and not wack shyt

Whatever happened to being yourself? you deserve whatever birds you end up with.

 

[Two Stacks]

to doing anything besides being yourself...

 

[god shamgod]

how do i spit good game? and not wack shyt

 

[kermit da hustla]

how do i spit good game? and not wack shyt

never make her think you're just about the p*ssy. i fukked up last week with this one chick. i pulled her to the side and said from the jump, "yo, i noticed over there, and damn you make all these other chickeneheads look bad. we need to chill."

i was drunk when i said it, and i knew i came across like a thirsty ass dog. she gave me some bullshyt about having a man, but she said she goes to this other bar, and that maybe we'll run into each other again.

anyway, long story short, i was feeling myself WAY too much when i approached her. if you come across cocky, like you know you're getting that p*ssy, she will probably pull out the shottie and blast you. you have to not look like your only intention is getting in the panties. you have to act as if you care about what she's doing, what she thinks, and how she feels. you also have to just play it cool. i learned my lesson that night.

 

[raidersreceiver]

im always in my head thats the problem

 

[craigsagersuit]

how do i spit good game? and not wack shyt

ask her what dat mouf do

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

Haven't been rejected in a while. Cuz I can tell who is going to reject me or who will approve me. I guess that happens when u rum through a nuff girls. U pick up on the signs. If she ain't responding to ur hi. Don't bother.

 

[acri1]

I very rarely approach women in public, I pretty much won't unless she's already hitting on me or dropping obvious hints.

For me it's not a matter of being scared, I'm just not willing to let some chick get an ego boost off of trying to embarrass me in public.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Pride.

The curse of man

 

[Dreamzeedream]

never make her think you're just about the p*ssy. i fukked up last week with this one chick. i pulled her to the side and said from the jump, "yo, i noticed over there, and damn you make all these other chickeneheads look bad. we need to chill."

i was drunk when i said it, and i knew i came across like a thirsty ass dog. she gave me some bullshyt about having a man, but she said she goes to this other bar, and that maybe we'll run into each other again.

anyway, long story short, i was feeling myself WAY too much when i approached her. if you come across cocky, like you know you're getting that p*ssy, she will probably pull out the shottie and blast you. you have to not look like your only intention is getting in the panties. you have to act as if you care about what she's doing, what she thinks, and how she feels. you also have to just play it cool. i learned my lesson that night.

did she tell u about the other bar on her on or did u ask

 

[kermit da hustla]

did she tell u about the other bar on her on or did u ask

she told me. said some shyt like, "i have a boyfriend, but to be honest, i go to...[the bar].on saturdays..we might run into each other"

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Haven't been rejected in a while. Cuz I can tell who is going to reject me or who will approve me. I guess that happens when u rum through a nuff girls. U pick up on the signs. If she ain't responding to ur hi. Don't bother.

Once again, limiting yourself to those who you believe are giving you signs.


That's fine.


But most women, when they're feeling a dude, will not give the slightest hint that's she's adoring a babe.

This is when you have to confront the babe of your choosing.

Yes, i agree that women ultimately select their mates... but what happens when opportunities for them to do that aren't necessarily they're best options or they're simply tired of the conventional game most fellas douse them with.

It's up to you, a coli bi-product who's a know all, be all, see all and skeet on vickie draws.

If i waited for women to toss me the bat signal - then i'd be waiting for ever to respond (and there would be no action for this proverbial caped crusader).

On the flip side, a man has to get right by initiating. By doing so, you're actually "creating attraction". A woman's mind is almost like a pinball machine. It's not going to play itself, but once you slip in the qwo-ter, you cawk back that spring, let it rip and watch the action commence.

How long you keep that ball afloat in the table (macking her down with sheer conversation and moistening her mental slit) determines how far you go with her after after the dialogue has come to a halt. And once you do retrieve the digits, whether or not how strong your initial impression was could be traced back to how memorable your rapport was.

You can try to not make this a science like all the aforementioned...

But that's ONLY WHEN YOU'VE BECOME A NATURALIST (approaching and gaming women truly does become an act of routine and mundanity - but look at how i said mundane because you do it so frequently, the act itself is a lot like brushing your teefs and lacing your kicks; trust me on that).

I've never simped on the internet because reality (as cruel as it can be sometimes, or early in your excursion)... can serve as the plate that keeps you eating good as you should, if and ONLY if - you treat it good (but be mindful to act with swerve to these birds - women love a man with a strong sense of self-assured character and machismo. Be a leader and EVERY woman will follow).

Be the kind lion that ain't err gotta be tryin to have these bytches wildin' for a fly whiz that squirts that fine jizz and can get puss in under five min. I ain't lyin' kids.

Who you are to yourself and how much respect you have as a man is what dictates the quality of your sex life (e.g. never sell yourself short, don't put puss on no mothafukkin' pedal stool and realize that this life you have was meant to be scoured cuz there are WAAAYYYY too many hoes to devour - just ditch that ones that keep that nether region sour).

The world is your social playground...

Once you realize that - you can play on, playa.


Cuz you see, that's what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles...


The captains --- from the crunch.



And like a prom dress...


... i'm off!




Umph.




.

 

[re'up]

Personally, I'm insecure, self conscious, anxious, all that ugly shyt....fear is some powerful shyt, I've passed or never took so many opportunities, because I was so stuck in that fear, the chance that maybe they DONT want you, and you'll be embarrassed. I'm the guy that thinks the waitress or cab driver won't like him, so for intimacy and relationships, that anxiety and fear is beyond crippling. I'm trying to turn that shyt over though, because it's too short not too. I learned recently, I took the smallest of chances, showed the slightest interest, and a handful of women I'd known for awhile were with it.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

Once again, limiting yourself to those who you believe are giving you signs.


That's fine.


But most women, when they're feeling a dude, will not give the slightest hint that's she's adoring a babe.

This is when you have to confront the babe of your choosing.

Yes, i agree that women ultimately select their mates... but what happens when opportunities for them to do that aren't necessarily they're best options or they're simply tired of the conventional game most fellas douse them with.

It's up to you, a coli bi-product who's a know all, be all, see all and skeet on vickie draws.

If i waited for women to toss me the bat signal - then i'd be waiting for ever to respond (and there would be no action for this proverbial caped crusader).

On the flip side, a man has to get right by initiating. By doing so, you're actually "creating attraction". A woman's mind is almost like a pinball machine. It's not going to play itself, but once you slip in the qwo-ter, you cawk back that spring, let it rip and watch the action commence.

How long you keep that ball afloat in the table (macking her down with sheer conversation and moistening her mental slit) determines how far you go with her after after the dialogue has come to a halt. And once you do retrieve the digits, whether or not how strong your initial impression was could be traced back to how memorable your rapport was.

You can try to not make this a science like all the aforementioned...

But that's ONLY WHEN YOU'VE BECOME A NATURALIST (approaching and gaming women truly does become an act of routine and mundanity - but look at how i said mundane because you do it so frequently, the act itself is a lot like brushing your teefs and lacing your kicks; trust me on that).

I've never simped on the internet because reality (as cruel as it can be sometimes, or early in your excursion)... can serve as the plate that keeps you eating good as you should, if and ONLY if - you treat it good (but be mindful to act with swerve to these birds - women love a man with a strong sense of self-assured character and machismo. Be a leader and EVERY woman will follow).

Be the kind lion that ain't err gotta be tryin to have these bytches wildin' for a fly whiz that squirts that fine jizz and can get puss in under five min. I ain't lyin' kids.

Who you are to yourself and how much respect you have as a man is what dictates the quality of your sex life (e.g. never sell yourself short, don't put puss on no mothafukkin' pedal stool and realize that this life you have was meant to be scoured cuz there are WAAAYYYY too many hoes to devour - just ditch that ones that keep that nether region sour).

The world is your social playground...

Once you realize that - you can play on, playa.


Cuz you see, that's what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles...


The captains --- from the crunch.



And like a prom dress...


... i'm off!




Umph.




.

If u saying u gotta be aggressive and initiate. I agree. But yo. U will get rejected from time to time. I'm giving a fool proof method to avoid it. Granted u will lose on opportunities from shy girls. But I'm just saying how to avoid it. Granted if a woman so fly. I will approach. But if I'm in a room with a bunch of avg lookin girls. I'm going where I feel my chances are best.

 

[Wild self]

Because sometimes females aren't kind about rejecting. Instead of the simple no thanks, some women go to the next level to embarrass a dude especially if people are watching

That's the shyt that I hate the most. Some women love drama and degrading others just so they can have a story to tell to their chickenhead friends.