Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

[Elvira Sol]

And this is why women need to be careful. Fall in love, turn into a babymomma and then when it gets hard your man says he can just go make other kids with another woman.

It’s funny how if a woman walks away from a marriage because things are hard, she gets blamed because women are the ones who always initiate the end and leave, etc, but if a man wants to walk away from a babymomma because it’s hard, everyone understands.




I’m not coming for you, breh, but this is the exact stuff I was talking about in them other threads.

If she was good enough to birth your first child, your family is worth saving.






Finally, the voice of reason.

No lies told. Women are expected to suffer and endure if not for any reason other then keeping their family together.

Rarely will you see any smoke for the men who decide they don’t want to do it anymore.

 

[Nokids]

The timelines and expectations are killing people's happiness. Life isn't a checklist where if you check off all these boxes then you win. Not everyone should get married. Not everyone should have kids. And that's OK. Comparison is the thief of joy.

My ex was my best friend. We had a lot in common we were close to getting married but differences became apparent. Our timelines for marriage and kids didnt match up. She became highly religious. I am not. She began attempting to push it on me and I grew resentful. She was not frugal, I was. Her family was trashy, came with a lot of drama, and not necessarily my cup of tea. She had lots of issues regarding mental health and past traumas she was still working through. Had I ignored all that and married her I would've lived the rest of my life unhappy or divorced her in a few years and be looking in an even smaller dating pool.

It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make. Even though I ended the relationship sometimes I still miss her but I know it was the best decision for the both of us. I think some people get comfortable and too afraid of change that they don't make the decision to end it when dealbreakers are presented. It's not easy. But it's worth it.

Damn fam I feel this.. I fell in love with a girl with the same issues and knew if I stayed I’d be shyt out of luck. Just like you said in the first paragraph some people don’t get what others get. I’ve recently came to terms out of my friend group these nikkas Wade, Bron … and I’m Carmelo.

Not everyone gonna get a ring, kids, wife, or all that. Life’s a lottery and some nikkas hit all 7 numbers and some just get 4 of them.. that’s life

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Who initiated and what was the cause of the split?

She found a measuring tape and PlayGirl magazine in his closet.

 

[Gloxina]

No lies told. Women are expected to suffer and endure if not for any reason other then keeping their family together.

Rarely will you see any smoke for the men who decide they don’t want to do it anymore.

Exactly.

 

[Budda]

The happiest married men I know are consistent cheaters

 

[Ohene]

The happiest married men I know are consistent cheaters

Yup

 

[CBSkyline]

You haven't experienced true sadness until you experience walking out to your job's parking lot on the Friday of a long holiday weekend, and see all the married men lngering around the facility because they don't want to go home

 

[threattonature]

And that's your best friend?

I should've added that is one area she has seemed to get better at throughout the years. She used to be really bitter but therapy helped with that.

 

[V Skyye]

Makes sense why it’s mostly women that file for divorce. If you’re so unhappy then go do something about it besides moping around or cheating. And then they act shocked when their woman bounces and cry about changing divorce laws to force their wives to stay.

 

[lib123]

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The way they were hating on 39 y/o breh who retired a millionaire because he had no wife and kids

 

[maxamusa]

I just came back from bowling with the fam.......


we having tacos for dinner....

locking into Tulsa kings after.....



married brehs winning

 

[ba'al]

I know a lot of older black ADOS/FBA men weren't necessarily forced but pressured into getting married. My granddad told me this face to face.

They still try to pressure men in there mid twenties to thirties to settle down. "Something must be wrong" And by "they" i mean religious people.

So now you got a loud ass boxed shapped wife you really don't want and on top of that she nagging you. And you did the shyt to stop people from trying to nag and pressure you to begin with.

Than old heads come home to a florida evans ass wife always nagging and complaining. A lot of times they either go the "yes dir" and become super agreeable to appease their wife or go cold and silent. Maybe looking to work overtime not for pay but just to get away from his wife nagging and complaing all the time. If the oppurtunity to cheat a lot of them cats cheat but because their wife is always miserable and hard to be around.

 

[Belize King]

I just came back from bowling with the fam.......


we having tacos for dinner....

locking into Tulsa kings after.....



married brehs winning

Wifey laid the babies down and now we about to play Mario Jamboree.

She won the last game. I got to represent this time.

 

[King Poetic]

It’s always crazy seeing the husband 90% of the time dying before the wife

Guys get married and the life become dog years each year