Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

Uitomy

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She sound like a child. You a good dude. When I was teenager and early twenties I would just cursed her out and be done with it. Then if she became a single mom or fell on hard times later in laugh roast her.

But now I'm more zen and just indifferent. I ain't doing all that work because I seen broads act like that but get right without instructions for the right dude. Nowadays I just go "no contact"/ghost. If I perceive any games or behavior I don't like. No i'm not talking it out. I want her to keep those negative qualities and use them on the next cat and familiy. Stay miserable IDC.


I ain't teaching an adult how to act because imo they will default to their natural behavior eventually. "Uitomy likes it when I do this, and dislike it when I do that" He got on my nerves today so I'm going to do all the goofy shyt he doesn't like.
Well to be frank we both were like children, we were fresh out of college, never had a real relationship, besides flings n shyt, we both didn't have any experience on a loving committed relationship and got hurt a lot so we were like some Tasmanian devils at first.

I feel you though, everything you said, if I had met her and I was like 30 ish, yeah I'd be bushing, actually shyt when I was in college I'd ghost quick, but I met her when I was still like 23 so I had time and patience, plus I was a photographer and she was a videographer so my relationship with her also has a core buisness component to it as well, she's made me soooooo much money so she had something to offer.
 

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Been married close to 4 years now, I find it very fun, mainly cause my wife actually listens to me and watches what she says. Took awhile for me to get her straight on respecting me as a man, but! It took just as long for me to improve and work on myself to be a man worth respecting.
I don’t let women off the hook but I attribute a lot of their behavior (or lack thereof) today to a lack of a father figure or a shytty one. And the reality is, a lot of males today are not men and aren’t worthy of the respect they seek.

I’ve seen how a woman acts right when a real man in is their presence. Their “feminine” side comes out. At least you had the self awareness to know you weren’t there yet.

A lot of men can’t even get past the first step of looking in the mirror.
 

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iunno. same reason every dude gets married i guess...they love their girl, societal pressure, reaching the next milestone in life etc.

i have no doubt any of them love their women...they just wanna fukk more than one and it helps them cope with the bullshyt women do
I think dudes get caught up in lust as well. Dudes can easily get p*ssy whipped but like the cliche goes once the women get a ring they realize they don't have to do all the freaky shyt they did before hand or as often. THere's a balance and once the sex ain't as dominant in their mind they have to realize they don't like the personality all that much.
 
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