You were the one that introduced social dynamics and race, with your backwards analysis about white party goers and black party goers. Im not gunna get into a pissing contest with you about our respective resumes concerning our social lives, but all I know is that you're playing yourself something serious with the shyt you're talking in this thread. "Just accept it for what it is"? Accept some fact-free bullsht?
Where you may have had a point is if you turned this an economics discussion versus a racial one. Since white people are generally far more well off financially than black folks, they have greater resources available to them to throw "better" parties, and/or have a good time. Thats might be a fair point. But this idea that black folks dont know how to get loose is crazy talk. At those "white" parties you're talkin about, black people are usually the ones standing out and having the most fun. Who is more likely to dance at parties, white people or black people? LOL
If you feel more comfortable around white folks, which you obviously do, then just say that then. Thats your prerogative. But you cant talk out the side of ya ass and make sht up, and not expect to get checked on it.