I didn't read everything op said but i see this shyt too and it's lame to me and I don't think people even respect you except to laugh at you.
The worst are the tokens who seem to always have to remind the group they are black.
Like I remember watching a YouTube video of some dude in Korea. He was hanging out with some Korean people and a white guy and fried chicken is big over there. They discuss what they want to eat and the Korean guy suggests chicken and the black dude "you know how us blacks love chicken!" And even the Korean dude who is not familiar with the stereotype I guess gave him

face in response

. It would be one thing if it was a one time thing but he does it in many of his videos like people are going to forget he is black .