Why do college educated black women seemingly, immediately write off blue collar black men?

[Shadow King]

Some of y'all have to stop grouping bums and street dudes with blue collar men in trying defend black women with the dating down commonality.

Those men have no collar.

 

[Wiseborn]

Stats prove most black children are born out of wedlock. That doesn’t mean all those fathers are deadbeats, but if you weren’t raised in a two family home, and didn’t see that dynamic, you are less likely to seek that for yourself. Just like if you’re raised Christian, you are less likely to grow up, and be a Jew. Most fat people have fat parents, and fat families because they eat the same meals, and live the same lifestyle.

Damn so basically you could say that if past is the future then maybe Black people should just not date each other since most of us grew up with broken homes.

Or maybe seeing the damage they could be motivated to break the chain.

 

[AAKing23]

Some of y'all have to stop grouping bums and street dudes with blue collar men in trying defend black women with the dating down commonality.

Those men have no collar.

Was gonna say this, street dudes and bum nikkas aren't in the same class as blue collar dudes.

And BW have an affinity towards those nikkas due to them having control

 

[Wiseborn]

This. And he doesn’t even live in America and hasn’t in long time. Instead of getting married and starting a family where he is he spends hours watching and contributing to Black American gender wars and anti Black women sentiments. Just settle down where you are and be happy.

Fair point but I was just in america weeks ago for several months.

Dated an Black american down here didn’t work out well and it can’t most of the Black american woman know each other.

I’m a student of human nature I’m in the political threads just as much as these threads.

Additionally I almost never start threads.

 

[Wiseborn]

Was gonna say this, street dudes and bum nikkas aren't in the same class as blue collar dudes.

And BW have an affinity towards those nikkas due to them having control

This is what it’s all about Black women having autonomy with Black Men because basically they don’t trust Black Men.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

This is a nice way to call people dumb

No, you read it that way.

Lacking exposure to things doesn’t mean someone is dumb.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Are you telling your sister or your daughter with a Ph.D to date a bus driver?

It honestly depends on the wealth level.
If my daughter owes more than she OWNS, while it’s the inverse for the bus driver than yes. We honestly put too much emphasis on income, and not wealth.

Sure income helps, but wealth and wealth transfers(parents; grandparents, etc being able to send money) is more important than income.

 

[Wiseborn]

Hypothetically, I feel like a lot of bruhs have this “shoot for the stars” mentally/ego ingrained in them when some probably shouldn't and instead stay in their respective lanes in terms of seeking relationships or a woman's attention.

This might be a funny comparison, but it's kinda like Damon Wayans in Mo Money when he was trying to holler at Stacey Dash's character when, in reality, he had no business doing so, considering the differences in their lives. He is living in a slummy area, jobless and hustling with his brother or barely making it with a rinky-dink job offer, whereas Stacey's character is educated and working a high-end position in her office with the potential to be an upper-class businessman's wife.

If people of both genders had no ambition there would be no progression. In fact their would be regression instead.

Listen even Kendra G chides women coming on her show looking for the same type of Man. There’s nothing wrong with that but if you’re 40 and single and not making compromises we have to assume that you don’t want it that bad.

Men and women should be shooting for the stars because even if you miss you’ll be in the clouds.

 

[folasade]

Then what’s the point of the thread? Complaining about women not giving every man who is interested a chance…that’s the point. If a woman finds you attractive, you not having a degree, or a blue collar job isn’t stopping you from at least smashing. She needs to find you attractive enough to talk to you to get to the point of you telling her what you do for a living.

Even just dating women will overlook a lot if she likes you. Dudes are simply not trying, or are not likeable or attractive.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

I gotta ask how many times have you been shocked?

On the job 4. If you include incidents outside of work and at home 9.

 

[Wiseborn]

Then what’s the point of the thread? Complaining about women not giving every man who is interested a chance…that’s the point. If a woman finds you attractive, you not having a degree, or a blue collar job isn’t stopping you from at least smashing. She needs to find you attractive enough to talk to you to get to the point of you telling her what you do for a living.

Hey breh these threads are the hottest threads in Black america.

This is the Locker Room and there’s barely any sports threads here ( get they’re in their section but still) shyt I’d take a decent weed thread again it’s supposed to be Sports Hip Hop and Piff.

This same exact thread is probably on Lipstick Alley now with most with your opinion.

trump is trying to upend the global economic system and thread after thread about why Keisha can’t get a date.

You right Keisha finds Tyrone too Mid to date end of.

But tell Ty to go Pawgset or grab a passport and hoes start hatin'

 

[Wiseborn]

Even just dating women will overlook a lot if she likes you. Dudes are simply not trying, or are not likeable or attractive.

Then them nikkas need to get the fukk over it and get the fukk on is all.
Women need to really tell thirsties this to their faces.

 

[Killer Instinct]

I know a few white collar black women with firefighters and police officers, but I'm on the West coast. Cops and firemen make just as much if not more here than white collar workers in other regions.

 

[Wiseborn]

On the job 4. If you include incidents outside of work and at home 9.

welders told me getting zapped is part of the job.

 

[Wiseborn]

I know a few white collar black women with firefighters and police officers, but I'm on the West coast. Cops and firemen make just as much if not more here than white collar workers in other regions.

way more Cops and firefighters get Overtime white collars are salaried.

Cops and firefighters get pensions and disabilty payments on retirement Office workers get 401K that they pay into.