Why do college educated black women seemingly, immediately write off blue collar black men?

[Wiseborn]

To address the complaining issue this thread is more about Blue Collar promotion than downing Black women on their choices.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Damn so basically you could say that if past is the future then maybe Black people should just not date each other since most of us grew up with broken homes.

Or maybe seeing the damage they could be motivated to break the chain.

Many black men will not date a woman who wasn’t raised with a father in the home, and that advice has been given here. And that’s regardless of how that man was raised. I’m not saying that’s the route anyone should go, but I knew I wanted a certain caliber of woman, so I made sure I was qualified. I got my teeth fixed, I kept up with my haircuts, dressed better, always wear cologne, gained some lean muscle (I’m a skinny breh) and worked my way up with my career. I have never been called corny by professional black women, or suburban black women. I stayed away from certain attributes, because I knew those women would not like me, and frankly, tattoos, super long nails, baby hairs, and thick eyelashes aren’t appealing to me. I like Meghan Goode types, not Meghan The Stallion types. If the Meghan Goode type likes thugs, I wasn’t the man for her. I moved on.

But I’m handsome gang, and older than some of y’all, so there’s that too. I’ve been told since I’m out of the game to shut up, but I didn’t have these same problems because I stuck to a certain type.

And I’m not ugly. I have a nice face.

 

[V Skyye]

Fair point but I was just in america weeks ago for several months.

Dated an Black american down here didn’t work out well and it can’t most of the Black american woman know each other.

I’m a student of human nature I’m in the political threads just as much as these threads.

Additionally I almost never start threads.

That still doesn’t answer why you haven’t settled down where you’re living as an expat. Black American women are the problem, so go find someone better.

 

[King Poetic]

I think we just live in a fantasy world more than ever today

That whole concept of 100k man is ridiculous

Average salary for a white man is 60k, black man is 50 k and save all that crap about your life.. talking about overall..

There is no problem at all for any brother to look down on himself hes making 50,60,70 k a year and u don’t have kids or too much debt.. u are good

Majority of that bullshyt u see on social media doesn’t apply when those people log off their phone…

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Hey breh these threads are the hottest threads in Black america.

This is the Locker Room and there’s barely any sports threads here ( get they’re in their section but still) shyt I’d take a decent weed thread again it’s supposed to be Sports Hip Hop and Piff.

This same exact thread is probably on Lipstick Alley now with most with your opinion.

trump is trying to upend the global economic system and thread after thread about why Keisha can’t get a date.

You right Keisha finds Tyrone too Mid to date end of.

But tell Ty to go Pawgset or grab a passport and hoes start hatin'

Let them hate!! If he feels he can do better with white women, fine. But like I’ve said, I don’t think the problem is just looks or money for some of y’all. The way you talk about women is very bitter. That kind of energy is off putting. It’s just like the “men ain’t shyt” women. You can tell those women have attitudes on dates. People want to be around a happy, pleasant, interesting person they have things in common with.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I don’t really even know what college educated means anymore.

Unless it is some advanced or specialized degree, I could care less about a womans education…


Men too in that regard.


Congrats on the degree I guess, but it’s not really an indicator of intelligence to me anymore. I know a lot of dumbasses with degrees.

 

[Wiseborn]

Let them hate!! If he feels he can do better with white women, fine. But like I’ve said, I don’t think the problem is just looks or money for some of y’all. The way you talk about women is very bitter. That kind of energy is off putting. It’s just like the “men ain’t shyt” women. You can tell those women have attitudes on dates. People want to be around a happy, pleasant, interesting person they have things in common with.

True.

I wouldn’t say you’re talking about me but this is where my id comes out. I’m a pro Black Pan Africanist it’s not like I’m out here calling Black women bytches and hoes in real life.

Low key Black Americans are the only group of people that talk this way. It would be weird to hear an African call someone a bytch unless they were really mad at them.

i had an aggressive scammer on my phone in Kenya and I heard him out to humor him and waste his time then I finally got mad and told him why would I fall for an obvious scam and the nikka said Well fukk it then. That was the only time in my three years in Africa had I heard anyone say that.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Do they?

 

[Wiseborn]

That still doesn’t answer why you haven’t settled down where you’re living as an expat. Black American women are the problem, so go find someone better.

To answer your question I talk about my ex fifty times on here. I would’ve wifed but she’s goofy with money. shyt the main reason for women working is so they can understand the value of a dollar. Shorty bought a house while going through several instances of unemployment.

She bought a condo but she has to do a lot of work on it and she was talking about taking a loan to do the work. I said that’s a terrible idea wait till you get on the boat and pay for the work ( she’s now on the cruise ship)

Real talk she’s a nice girl but still low key wants to turn up and despite coming from a rural area with no running water she wants to live that city girl life literally. She got a loan to teach in the area where she grew up she’d rather live in Cali.


But the short answer is culture really matters more than passport bros let on.

Even maintaining one of these ‘desparate demure women” is an issue because they’ll come to you when their family is fukked up.

Say what you will about the most entitled gold digging women in the states she’s spending that money on hair nails and bags. Third world women spend it on fixing their cousin’s motocycles.

 

[Mystic]

I'm sorry for the generalization it's just what I see (mainly online) this is something I mainly hear on line, but in real life too I honestly see white collar black women dating blue collar brehs less than latinas and white women. Asian and black college educated women specifically seem against blue collar dudes for the most part


I know college women in general date/marry other college educated men obviously, but the dialogue I hear from a lot and mainly college educated black women is that they will NEVER date a blue collar/trade man. Why though?

It seems backwards cause if we're being fr in MOST places where black people live (like the south) the most financially secure black men are blue collar. But their biggest gripe with dating is seemingly "black men aren't earning enough".

Just from what I see, it looks like a lot of college educated/white collar black women genuinely look down on blue collar men. Obviously not all of them, but a good enough amount to notice it. I think educated women in general tend to lean against blue collar men but I specifically see mainly white collar black women talking down.

Respectfully

Because you punch up not down. You get a billy and you dating a woman who works at Walmart?

 

[Coco Loco]

Yeah and unfortunately with Elon's fukkery blue collar looking more secure in the DMV now than federal work or contracting smh

Indeed!

 

[Wiseborn]

That still doesn’t answer why you haven’t settled down where you’re living as an expat. Black American women are the problem, so go find someone better.

one other point. I’m not assuming that you’re unhappy with your dating system. I talk about what the thread is about.

If I think the thread is silly I don’t go in them. I don’t waste time saying why Dogset vs. Catset threads are stupid.

I might take a light jab at a @Busted_Toes thread but I don’t go in hating.

I talk about shot because I want to. Just like you do.

I question whether @CreepyMcCreeperson is a Man not because I think he’s a girl but because I can’t understand why he doesn’t understand male thinking i.e. why a Man doesn’t want a ran through

So in short don’t assume I’m an incel just because I post in these threads and I won’t assume you’re a femcel.

Again anyone who reads my threads realizes that I look at this as a societal issue because at the end of the day Black american women for all their percieved disdain for Black american Men have far more babies than zenophobic Korean and Japanese women.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Y’all get on here every day, and complain about women not lowering standards. When it comes to looks, every group of men does that. But black men are the only ones expecting women of higher social classes and education levels to date down. People usually date within the same lifestyle. A white man who lives in the sticks, and works on a farm is not expecting a white professional woman come to the farm, and milk cows. He’s going after the farm girl. Asians value education. An Asian woman from a highly educated family can’t bring home an Asian man who works at a car wash. She might be able to bring a white plumber, but he has a skill, and Asians lower their standards for white men. Those short Mexicans who do construction aren’t pulling latinas from well off families with degrees. Y’all think every other group of men has it so much better. Do you work with white men? They complain about their wives all the time. Women usually file for divorce. Those white wives aren’t happy either.

Plenty of black women date down, but they are not dating down for a man they aren’t attracted to. Some of y’all just don’t have the looks OR personality to pull like that. Every black man with a decent woman isn’t making 6 figures, or a thug.

This needs to be a propaganda campaign and I'm dead serious.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I mean White and Asian women are going after the dudes in Finance working at Wall Street not the plumber or electrician.
Actually now that I think more about it, I would say Black women are more likely to choose the plumber guy more than other races of women.

Only when that guy looks a certain way

Black women will date a straight up bum if he's attractive

 

[V Skyye]

one other point. I’m not assuming that you’re unhappy with your dating system. I talk about what the thread is about.

If I think the thread is silly I don’t go in them. I don’t waste time saying why Dogset vs. Catset threads are stupid.

I might take a light jab at a @Busted_Toes thread but I don’t go in hating.

I talk about shot because I want to. Just like you do.

I question whether @CreepyMcCreeperson is a Man not because I think he’s a girl but because I can’t understand why he doesn’t understand male thinking i.e. why a Man doesn’t want a ran through

So in short don’t assume I’m an incel just because I post in these threads and I won’t assume you’re a femcel.

Again anyone who reads my threads realizes that I look at this as a societal issue because at the end of the day Black american women for all their percieved disdain for Black american Men have far more babies than zenophobic Korean and Japanese women.

I’m part of the Black community though. My man, kids, community, and social circle are all Black American. I have no problem with Black American men in any capacity. If I did I would stay far away and wouldn’t even visit this site. I only focused on you because you have the most posts in this thread by far speaking as an expert, while admittedly being very removed from the community. I’m protective of my community the same way I would be if a person of another race was talking down on Black people while not being part of it or contributing positively to it.

You are basically regurgitating stereotypes and stuff from YouTube and social media. It’s also harmful to blue collar men to act like they’re less than appealing when people in our community know they have no issues with women.