Why do females get angry with you if they show interest in you but you don’t show the same interest?
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In 5+ more years it'll be clear to you..
Yeah cause they don’t expect itRejection hits women harder he said .
How many are you are turning down free p*ssy
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I rest my case
We react more violently than women about everything… but they go through it more intensely …how many women compared to men....stalk , rape and kill the opposite gender for rejecting them?
i rest my case.
i rather be a man rejecting a woman , than a woman rejecting a man
Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.
Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.
So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment
It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.
surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.
I've had this happen many times. The ones who get mad the most are the big fat ones, especially fat white women. But I've had several different types of women do that. I hate that passive aggressive shyt too. Honestly when they get like that I give them the same ass energy lol. You ignoring me? Ok I'm ignoring you.
intra vires
Glory to Michigan
It's a common coping mechanism people often employ when dealing with rejection. Sometimes, it's to exact some sort of revenge. Sometimes, it's about disassociating themselves from the source/feeling of rejection.
In any case, good on you for not "shytting where you eat." I have a friend who was a 30 under 30 type that's been cast down like a fallen angel all because he had fukk his subordinate. He really thought his black ass was beyond repproach in white corporate America. As if these fools weren't jealous of his position.
I don't know how long ago that happened and I know I'm a stranger, but I'm sorry you had to go through that.
In any case, good on you for not "shytting where you eat." I have a friend who was a 30 under 30 type that's been cast down like a fallen angel all because he had fukk his subordinate. He really thought his black ass was beyond repproach in white corporate America. As if these fools weren't jealous of his position.
My wife has a similar story and, unfortunately, these aren't the only times I've heard this type of thing. That type of trauma will definitely shape how you move.For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out.
I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him.Life comes at you fast.
I don't know how long ago that happened and I know I'm a stranger, but I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Bboystyle
FIRE MATT LAFLEUR
This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.
Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.
So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment
It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.
surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.
Soooo. U complained that she came onto u and now u mad cuz she ignoring u?
If u love ur job and aint trying to fukk it up, why complain? She doing u a favor by not fukking with u at all.
Seems like u the hurt one cuz she dont be saying hi or give u cookies anymore
Pacni99a12
All Star
Nah I treat them the same way as always. I think that bothers them even more honestly. lol. They the one that has the problem not me
Bboystyle
FIRE MATT LAFLEUR
Soooo. U complained that she came onto u and now u mad cuz she ignoring u?
If u love ur job and aint trying to fukk it up, why complain? She doing u a favor by not fukking with u at all.
Seems like u the hurt one cuz she dont be saying hi or give u cookies anymore
Bum ass nikka @It was always you koba negged me cuz i called out his stupidity
Stay mad cac cuz u aint getting attention from your walmart co worker
XannyWarbucks
Superstar
It's happens to men and women, lol. Women are less used to shyt like that though.
My girl got me because of how terrible her flirting was. I actually found it cute, how fukking awful she was at that shyt and I wanted to see how far she would go.
The most I could say, is that as bad as you think you are at showing interest and flirting, women are 10000x worse.
My girl got me because of how terrible her flirting was. I actually found it cute, how fukking awful she was at that shyt and I wanted to see how far she would go.
The most I could say, is that as bad as you think you are at showing interest and flirting, women are 10000x worse.