Why do men give up on love so fast?

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I say fukk love, but human nature draws me to at the minimum internalize infatuation :mjcry:
 

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It takes one shytty woman for YALL to say fukk B****es! And basically YALL are in player status for yrs.

Explain Yourself:mjcry:
costs us way more to get played

we both get hurt... we both get jaded


but to a man... he's most likely spent a hell of a lot more money in the process and lost a lot more pride

and a woman will always have another 230984230948324023 nikkas to come swoop in

we just fukked up and alone... and to get back in REAL dating... again... more money... more time.. more effort




it's just easier to say "man let me chill, fukk some hoes, and get as many on the team as possible, while inviting them over for netflix, blunts and henny"
 

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nikka, love is a word invented by cacs to put on cards and candies for sale, it means nothing.

That said, if im in a relationship and it becomes marriage or whatever then obviously i have emotionally invested in this person, so its like any other investment, if you put years and money into that investment and get burned, chances are you arent going to want to instantly hop back into the market heavy, so you settle for low cost index funds (thots).
 

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nikka, love is a word invented by cacs to put on cards and candies for sale, it means nothing.

That said, if im in a relationship and it becomes marriage or whatever then obviously i have emotionally invested in this person, so its like any other investment, if you put years and money into that investment and get burned, chances are you arent going to want to instantly hop back into the market heavy, so you settle for low cost index funds (thots).
Don't forget a man loses time and time is money and or resources.
 

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Because men are mentally feeble by nature. Too much can really damage their mindsets. Theyre not built to handle tough stuff.
I don't think most men value relationship, just the person and the relation. Women value the relationship so while relationships are hard, women value them more than not. Men, it's about the person. That's why the heartbreaking for a man but not as much for a women.

Once a woman loses her virtue to a man, her value can never recover. That's why thots are on a mission to change how men see women but if there's no virtue, a man will rarely ever value you outside of his basic needs.
 

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I don't think most men value relationship, just the person and the relation. Women value the relationship so while relationships are hard, women value them more than not. Men, it's about the person. That's why the heartbreaking for a man but not as much for a women.

Once a woman loses her virtue to a man, her value can never recover. That's why thots are on a mission to change how men see women but if there's no virtue, a man will rarely ever value you outside of his basic needs.
I think she's just being bitter via shaming language. Right out of the bitter bytch hand book.
 

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this sums it up perfectly...

...in my opinion......a lot of men do not care to look at a woman in a light that is beyond the superficial....that is why it's so easy to make generalizations


There's a song by bruce springsteen called secret garden.....and i think it's one of the most beautiful songs i ever heard....because,to me, it talks about a man's lack of concern in truly appreciating a woman's heart and soul....and the result of that being...his inability to reach the very essence of a woman...cause of the woman's self consciousness about showing her "secret garden" to the man

the song reminds me of the saying ..."a woman's heart is as fragile as a man's ego"
I love women for all they are, especially sistas but y'all can be real shytty in relationships. A lot of these posters were dead on.
 

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Got this from bodybuilding.com....

I will explain how ALL women are evil
In that they're only there until somebody comes and takes them from you or for as long as you have the resources to keep them. A woman doesn't feel any love or connection for you besides a fake bond her genetics create to keep her magnetized to the one providing for her. She's just happy to be your "possession" and only "loves you" because you fulfill her criteria and nobody better has come along.

If a better male comes along with more money and is famous etc she'll ditch you, and she won't feel bad about it WHATSOEVER. A woman's level of care and consideration towards you exists on a "what have you done for me lately?" level rather than any true affection built up between two people from spending time together.

A woman is your possession and a direct cause of the things you have. You have good looks, lots of money and fame? You will have a hot woman by your side as your possession. You are with her for 10 years, loving each other every day, then you lose EVERYTHING, your looks, your money, your fame? She's gone, just like everything else you owned, just like your Ferrarri it's only there as long as you have the resources to KEEP it there, because it's just an object it feels no "bond" with you.

You see it all the time. Soldiers get their arms blown off in war, their wives promise to love them still and be with them always, they push the guy around in a wheelchair for 2 months then leave him. And they don't feel bad about it at all. Because a woman cannot feel ANY responsibility or guilt for her actions, she can do that to her husband who fought in war for her and rationalize it as "oh, I was just way too young to deal with that, nobody could possibly expect me to stay, I'm too young for this!"... Then the soldier lives a lonely life forever more. The state desserts him in favour of immigrants. He fights for his country, for his family, and once he's injured neither the state nor his "loving wife" feel an ounce of loyalty towards him for what he's given to them. He'll be left homeless so Ackham Al-Munjabi can house his wife and 50 kids. He'll be left loveless forever more because he's no longer a strong male.

This is the reality of the world and the reality of women. Whilst men bond like brothers, like packs of wolves, women come and go, from shiny thing to shiny thing, whichever they believe suits them best. I guess that's why people compare women to cats and men more to dogs.

So there you go peasants, no such thing as love.

And when I say ALL women I mean it. My mother, sister, every female on earth.


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Another poster said some eye opening shyt...


"doesn't have to be just money. But you're giving women something. Emotionally or physically. If someone was to come a long and offer the same + something else to a woman chances are they'd make an excuse and go for that someone else. Now say that same woman was to leave you for that new someone else and found out that this new someone wasn't who she thought this new someone was, or that new someone really didn't offer what she thought he would.. who do you think the woman would come crawling back to"

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"Listen, Morty, I hate to break it to you but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed.
It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle, Morty. Rise above. Focus on science."
 

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Men get their hearts broken in h.s or college ONE time and are HOH for life. Smh

Women get heart broken, dismiss that person, then move on.... and even if it happens again she will dismiss and move on until she sees a REAL trend of Men Ain't shyt, before considering giving up on dating.

Has anyone just admitted that men are emotionally weak? That's why men are stronger than women physically bc their emotional competence is null and void, on average.
 

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Men get their hearts broken in h.s or college ONE time and are HOH for life. Smh

Women get heart broken, dismiss that person, then move on.... and even if it happens again she will dismiss and move on until she sees a REAL trend of Men Ain't shyt, before considering giving up on dating.

Has anyone just admitted that men are emotionally weak? That's why men are stronger than women physically bc their emotional competence is null and void, on average.


Yes men are socialized to be emotionally weak. We naturally dont go through life experiencing a range of emotions like women

This is where women are superior. Women can go through a string of emotions in a day similar to a manic depression

Going from extreme happiness to sad to mad back to happy in a few hours is everyday for a woman. Mind you a woman is experiencing these emotions without external influence most of the time.

Its all in their heads

Thetefore when they are hurt emotionally its just another day for her

But us dudes tend to just be happy most of the time and generally only change moods due to external stimuli. Therefore a heartbreak is the type of emotion we are not used to feeling until it happens

It also doesnt help that most of us are taught from an early age that women are angellic beings that will love us unconditionally

And women are taught that men aint shyt and are all dogs

Maybe if we teach our sons that women aint shyt they wont be so broken up when one leaves us

Its unfair to teach men like this because times have changed so much fron when that teaching was necessary
 

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Yes men are socialized to be emotionally weak. We naturally dont go through life experiencing a range of emotions like women

This is where women are superior. Women can go through a string of emotions in a day similar to a manic depression

Going from extreme happiness to sad to mad back to happy in a few hours is everyday for a woman. Mind you a woman is experiencing these emotions without external influence most of the time.


Its all in their heads

Thetefore when they are hurt emotionally its just another day for her

But us dudes tend to just be happy most of the time and generally only change moods due to external stimuli. Therefore a heartbreak is the type of emotion we are not used to feeling until it happens

It also doesnt help that most of us are taught from an early age that women are angellic beings that will love us unconditionally

And women are taught that men aint shyt and are all dogs

Maybe if we teach our sons that women aint shyt they wont be so broken up when one leaves us

Its unfair to teach men like this because times have changed so much fron when that teaching was necessary
Sounds mentally unstable.
 
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