Why do men give up on love so fast?

[DarkHorse23]

It takes one shytty woman for YALL to say fukk B****es! And basically YALL are in player status for yrs.

Explain Yourself

(1) "Love"? Love doesn't exist. Women don't love men, they lust men. there's a difference. A woman only stays with a man as long as she can benefit from him. Whether that be great sex or financial security. That's why she only chases after pretty boys or successful men with money. If you're not in one of those categories then you're invisible to them.

(2) One shytty woman? I've had multiple bad experiences, so as a result i stay to myself and will focus on me.

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[DarkHorse23]

Werent you considered a child a few years ago? You dont have enough experience with women or life in general to know what you're talking about.

Turning 26 in June. I'm not an old man but i doubt anyone would call me a child either. I think i've had a enough experience to be able to sit at the table and speak on my perspective.....

 

[Mowgli]

Turning 26 in June. I'm not an old man but i doubt anyone would call me a child either. I think i've had a enough experience to be able to sit at the table and speak on my perspective.....

You have the perspective of someone whos emotionally scarred.

 

[DarkHorse23]

You have the perspective of someone whos emotionally scarred.

And that makes my perspective less relevant/valid?

I think not.

 

[Mowgli]

And that makes my perspective less relevant/valid?

I think not.

It makes your perspective less valid, because you apply your emotional problems to all women. Proven in how you had the balls to quote me so foolishly.

 

[DarkHorse23]

It makes your perspective less valid, because you apply your emotional problems to all women. Proven in how you had the balls to quote me so foolishly.

Whatever you say Sir Lancelot....

 

[The Guru]

If you don't let mistakes define what you could achieve you make a bad experience into a lesson. You live and you learn. When i look back, I've been in some bad situations but they were not all the same. Neither the women, nor the circumstance nor me as a man at the time. There were unique goods and bads. That one that should have been though I wonder how she's doing. She hit me up on facebook but i was like nah that's another Guru.

 

[The Maverick]

As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.

 

[PlainSight]

"Why do men give up on love"

Because love is wasted on the jaded. You have to allow the callouses to smooth out and heal.

 

[InDePickWest]

Because men are mentally feeble by nature. Too much can really damage their mindsets. Theyre not built to handle tough stuff.

 

[Shameonyou]

As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.

goodness this post is powerful

 

[PlainSight]

Because men are mentally feeble by nature. Too much can really damage their mindsets. Theyre not built to handle tough stuff.

Strangely, my mother said this to me quite recently.

I don't agree completely - I think women, despite the stereotype of being "ttoo emotional" tend to have a better handle on getting over them while men are socialized not to be emotional at all or even deal with the concept, so we have no idea how to deal with them. It was one of the things I had to work on after I was diagnosed as autistic - emotional intelligence and consistency, as well as identifying it in others.

The question: is it really nature? Or nurture?

 

[MikelArteta]

Nope men are looked at as weak for letting their emotions out so they bottle them up, instead of dealing with them



While women cry, confide in their friends etc.

The thing is men don't fall for every women they are with like women do for every man.

I've only loved two women in my life and felt strong feelings for one more. Yet I've had like ten women tell me tbhry love me and Carr for me deeply

Strangely, my mother said this to me quite recently.

I don't agree completely - I think women, despite the stereotype of being "ttoo emotional" tend to have a better handle on getting over them while men are socialized not to be emotional at all or even deal with the concept, so we have no idea how to deal with them. It was one of the things I had to work on after I was diagnosed as autistic - emotional intelligence and consistency, as well as identifying it in others.

The question: is it really nature? Or nurture?

 

[Marl0 Stanfield]

It takes one shytty woman for YALL to say fukk B****es! And basically YALL are in player status for yrs.

Explain Yourself

I don't cheat in relationships. I wouldn't get into one if I would. I love being in love now that my shyt is straight n I'm getting money. A lotta guys are frustrated cuz their status ain't up to par and they can't reconcile that with having to accept subpar women, in their mind. They're 15-20k a yr nikkaz mad cuz they ain't with supermodels n actresses. So they disrespect chix.

But it's understandable cuz they're tryn not to take a loss by being embarrassed by a chick. So they overcompensate and act hypermasculine to the point of retardation n lose a good woman. I have in the past. I just didn't let it turn me into a jerkoff. I'm comfortable enough financially to shrug off chix doing janky shyt, that's why I'm not in a relationship right now. I don't even know if I wanna stay here in my city after I pull this lik off.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep most women don't love you, but what you offer them, the status, the career you have, car you drive etc. Etc.

Lose them all and Most women will jet.

As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.