PlainSight
Anon
True. Funnily enough, you could also argue that this is a result of social engineering.
Maybe it's the kind of women you attract
Why do men give up on love so fast?
- Thread starter KinksandCoils
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True. Funnily enough, you could also argue that this is a result of social engineering.
Maybe it's the kind of women you attract
Money can't buy love or loyalty.
When I worked in family court it was usually the dudes with bread who were getting screwed.
That whole get your status and money up and you'll get a loyal dime is some old coli wives tale.
When I worked in family court it was usually the dudes with bread who were getting screwed.
That whole get your status and money up and you'll get a loyal dime is some old coli wives tale.
I don't cheat in relationships. I wouldn't get into one if I would. I love being in love now that my shyt is straight n I'm getting money. A lotta guys are frustrated cuz their status ain't up to par and they can't reconcile that with having to accept subpar women, in their mind. They're 15-20k a yr nikkaz mad cuz they ain't with supermodels n actresses. So they disrespect chix.
But it's understandable cuz they're tryn not to take a loss by being embarrassed by a chick. So they overcompensate and act hypermasculine to the point of retardation n lose a good woman. I have in the past. I just didn't let it turn me into a jerkoff. I'm comfortable enough financially to shrug off chix doing janky shyt, that's why I'm not in a relationship right now. I don't even know if I wanna stay here in my city after I pull this lik off.
I want true love 
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Its biolgical. Scientistic studies have shown proof that men are not built to handle tough situations. Thats why most mental institution patients are men, most homeless..men, little boys are something like 3x more likely to be born with ADD or ADHD, and thats before they breathe so its not social. Men are the physical strenghth but most are not built to make or weigh in on heavy thinking artillery. Most are slaves to their desires, egos, and urgers.Strangely, my mother said this to me quite recently.
I don't agree completely - I think women, despite the stereotype of being "ttoo emotional" tend to have a better handle on getting over them while men are socialized not to be emotional at all or even deal with the concept, so we have no idea how to deal with them. It was one of the things I had to work on after I was diagnosed as autistic - emotional intelligence and consistency, as well as identifying it in others.
The question: is it really nature? Or nurture?
Ask @KOOL-AID. He can verify. He sat through a gender studies course or something like that
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
ouch. I don't think that's fair to say hun.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
This^
Beerus
Banned
Cuz its easier that way?
Scott Larock
Its hard leaving thecoli but I gotta find a way...
I agree I think this is why old cacs limited what women could and could not do because women are built for the important things right now like classroom learning and getting over shyt. Alot of men once the playing field leveled realized they weren't that nice.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
False
PlainSight
Anon
Marl0 Stanfield
Yeshua Ben YHWH
It's not about buying love. The more money you make, the more better gooder refreshinger places you'll kick it at. Resorts, law offices, conferences, high end restaurants n clubs, u kick it with professional women who bring something to the table. That's why it's funny with ngaz constantly making threads hating on chicks here. Most of the complaints are about shyt that bum bytches do. The first time u have an atty or a doctor or a model or a publicist end a relationship because she's met a dude n he's getting it n they get along better, u immediately think she's a pro gold digger. 
But when u see that they're really happy together, u realize that u done reached the lvl where it's all about love n conversation n communication because n only after y'all are on the same lvl professionally.
U don't fully grasp it til u have to drop a bum chick with a great personality who u love because she's just not on ur lvl n she has no ambition. I mean this is if ur trying to win. The thread was about players, n squares don't really do all that shyt, they just simp n get ready to slit their wrists all the time. I'm talking about the mentality u get once u date 5 or 6 high lvl chix n u drop at least one urself.
I've been a simp in the past but once I started getting it I ran thru chix n then slowed up in just fckd with nxt lvl chix. I also see that a lotta these bad bytches y'all see in the club are p-tutes on the low with kids u don't know about cuz they live with the daddy/grandma. That's low lvl fck shyt. When I look at a chick now I see if I can picture her as my wife n her going thru this nxt lvl shyt with her own thing to focus on so she's not looking at me. I gotta pull my thing off before I can have my kid so once I'm scraight, I'm on the lookout.
It's a rite of passage for us to deal with dusty women. To rationalize what we went through and cope we usually just throw women in general under the bus; some of us grow out of that, some don't. On top of that there are nikkas that live around other nikkas that supposedly have success with women (albeit non-wifey status) while acting like complete scumbags. So if they see that that type of behavior is rewarded, what's the incentive to seek and give love?
Imo
Imo
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DarkHorse23
Banned
Oh shut up, your opinion is irrelevant......
Scott Larock
Its hard leaving thecoli but I gotta find a way...
Not many alpha males out there, you have alot of beta trying to become alpha, a good reason for the thug worship.
Men who don't win will Harbor some animosity.
Most women Lusk after a handful of men.
Reality of the situation.
Men who don't win will Harbor some animosity.
Most women Lusk after a handful of men.
Reality of the situation.