Why do men give up on love so fast?

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btw I wouldn't even say men give up on love fast, just with experiences you become smarter and not waste your time. When your young and a chick flakes you may give her another chance, when you feel her distancing you may "fight for her", you may do left and right to try and impress :heh:

but as you gain experience you realize not to waste your time, if a chick flakes:camby:, if she's distancing you know the end is coming and to eject, you don't fight for her because you realize if a woman wants to stay she will stay with you. As well you realize you don't need to do anything to impress her, if she doesn't like you for you nothing can change that.

Relationships and dating become easier as you get older. The he key to life is to always remind yourself that you only have control of yourself. I can control the women I want in my life, and I can also control to :camby:if she is not bringing me happiness. Life and relationships is so simple when you think of it in that regard, if she is not adding to your life and if it's not seamless your wasting your time.

If she wants to be with you she will if she doesn't she won't.

If she wants to talk to you she will, if she doesn't she won't.

When you realize that life becomes so much much simple

as @C.Holla says
"If they want Sam Bowie over Jordan then let them"
 

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aint no broad gonna love or take care of me better
than me........
besides Ive seen the darkest sides of the female
and will never trust or submit/conform to the
concept of love 100%
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Because dudes were raised by women and react to emotional problems like women
Bullshyt.

Men love hard.

Women love often.

As a man, love is pretty synonomus with putting all eggs in one basket, putting pride, reputation, and esteem on the line. Only way to be vulnerable.

As a woman, you get a clean slate every relationship, have options constantly surrounding you,

/end of thread.
 
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As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.

Damn nicca go write a book so i can invest in it & get my money right
 
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