Why do men give up on love so fast?

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That whole get your status and money up and you'll get a loyal dime is some old coli wives tale.

You're right. All you have to do is be 6'2, have a muscular built and handsome face and women will be loyal. It's all about looks with women. That's the end all be all to them....
 

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As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.

Not everyone breh. I take it case by case. Dont let these individuals fool you.
 

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when a men hurts its one of the worst feeling in the world too us.
to know we did everything in our power to keep u and yet we still lose you

so when u realize that whats the point of putting yourself out there again so easily so fast when u dont wanna feel that pain again
u rather be ice cold to a female and with no fukks given to her feelings even if she is a good woman

a woman can get a man that easy while a man can struggle that hard
a woman is smart enough to cheat and not get caught while were stupid enough to get caught

when a man loves he loves for real and that is the reality
when a woman loves we dont know if its real or just fiction
 

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Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.
 

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Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.
I believe men love stronger, but women love more often, if that makes sense.

When a dude is in it, he's really in it. Men are even more likely to forgive infidelity than women. That's why dudes feel betrayed and go crazy after a break up with the girl they love, it's because as a man, you're taught to never show your vulnerabilities to anyone. And then when you finally do, and she walks away, it hurts like a motherfukker. That ego will never let us admit it though.
 

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Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.

Its a bit of all of this, as a man, and especially as a black man when you have to be "A MAN" hard, strong, prideful, provider, tuff, not really emotional, you know manly stuff.. When you come across that woman that shatters all that, be it a hoe, friend, girlfriend or wife and that guard comes down for the 1st time. And you finally open up to someone and let your guard down after possible years of not being able to do that because it isn't "manly" or whatever the case might be.... Its really a big deal. Men love much harder than women, women are taught that its ok to love lots of people so spread love and your feelings with people.

So not only does a man get heartbroken, he has his pride hurt, probably his wallet and his ego. For most men thats as close to becoming useless as it gets, so you get alot of men that just say screw it and don't even try for love. They let the women fawn over them and they move on at the 1st site of trouble.
 
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A more serious answer.

You realize a few things.

1. Women always have opportunity, men don't.
2. Women's vaginas is expandable, good dikk isn't always good dikk after a while.
3. Women aren't as emotional as the world said they were.

Imagine guys who don't get a women's favor naturally and have to work for it?
Imagine guys who have to work for something only to have it lose interest layer on down the line?

Most men realize it's not a winning game like America wants us to think.

everyone has opportunities you may just not like the ones you have.
 

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Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.

no, its only when men love. Like I always say commitment is the male vagina. I've been with many women in my life but only loved two, I didn't give a damn about the rest. When your young and naive and you experience heartbreak it sticks for awhile, after awhile its meh. There is nothing now a woman can do to me to hurt me, because I don't put anything past a woman.
 

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I believe men love stronger, but women love more often, if that makes sense.

When a dude is in it, he's really in it. Men are even more likely to forgive infidelity than women. That's why dudes feel betrayed and go crazy after a break up with the girl they love, it's because as a man, you're taught to never show your vulnerabilities to anyone. And then when you finally do, and she walks away, it hurts like a motherfukker. That ego will never let us admit it though.

this is :duck:
 
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