Why do so many men have low self esteem?

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Y’all give porn way too much credit.

I disagree. I think having unfettered access any fetish you have, at any time, in any manner has an impact on some men.

Men were not designed to stay in a room and watch porn for hours everyday.

I dont care who disagrees, it just aint the way to live. That ish is very likely going to impact how you see women.

Even on this forum we have brehs talking about women as if they on a porn scene. You read shyt and ask yourselves if these men ever talked to an actual woman in their lives :gucci:


You also have men who refuse to interact with women because in their mind, every woman has had trains ran on her, every woman has a triple digit bodycount, every woman suck off a camel for 800 dollars. And they 100% believe this :gucci:


Keep telling yourself porn and social media has nothing to do with it, or isnt a major factor.

But if anything, this forum tells me its an even bigger factor than we can possibly quantify. And there are much much much worse forums on the internet than this one that would bolster my argument:hubie:
 

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I disagree. I think having unfettered access any fetish you have, at any time, in any manner has an impact on some men.

Men were not designed to stay in a room and watch porn for hours everyday.

I dont care who disagrees, it just aint the way to live. That ish is very likely going to impact how you see women.

Even on this forum we have brehs talking about women as if they on a porn scene. You read shyt and ask yourselves if these men ever talked to an actual woman in their lives :gucci:


You also have men who refuse to interact with women because in their mind, every woman has had trains ran on her, every woman has a triple digit bodycount, every woman suck off a camel for 800 dollars. And they 100% believe this :gucci:


Keep telling yourself porn and social media has nothing to do with it, or isnt a major factor.

But if anything, this forum tells me its an even bigger factor than we can possibly quantify. And there are much much much worse forums on the internet than this one that would bolster my argument:hubie:
You been to some dark places breh. I feel you.
 

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But at least people were beating off to there own imaginations. Remember it would take effort to access porn back in those days. Only way you was getting it is if you purchased it. Masturbation isn’t an issue but whipping your dikk out everyday to some big titty scenes and glazed asses is. Porn today has an addictive nature to it now because now you can literally customize your kinks and preferences than you could do before.

Thats why you have men doing dumbshyt like buying women’s farts. A lot of men on this site would probably rather beat of to some nice cakes getting beat by some bbc and getting cream pied than fukk a real woman.
This part is deep. There really is a difference between fukkin a woman and pleasuring yourself. It's like eating fast food vs eating at a nice restaurant.
 

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My self esteem is very low.

Cause I have zero hoes now.

(Last touched on some new new around Thxgvg so its not super dire yet)

Whenever I have a good woman in my corner my self esteem is high

A shame that it depends on that, but what else can you judge by?

I would never buy anything from a woman that was supposed to be a kink. Never bought puzzy before so damn sure not gonna buy a pair of worn drawls
 

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I disagree. I think having unfettered access any fetish you have, at any time, in any manner has an impact on some men.

Men were not designed to stay in a room and watch porn for hours everyday.

I dont care who disagrees, it just aint the way to live. That ish is very likely going to impact how you see women.

Even on this forum we have brehs talking about women as if they on a porn scene. You read shyt and ask yourselves if these men ever talked to an actual woman in their lives :gucci:


You also have men who refuse to interact with women because in their mind, every woman has had trains ran on her, every woman has a triple digit bodycount, every woman suck off a camel for 800 dollars. And they 100% believe this :gucci:


Keep telling yourself porn and social media has nothing to do with it, or isnt a major factor.

But if anything, this forum tells me its an even bigger factor than we can possibly quantify. And there are much much much worse forums on the internet than this one that would bolster my argument

I do see your point in the fetishes available to men at their every click.. as the more deeper you go into fetishes the more of a possibility you will become a danger to society. I also agree with you on how this forum proves that porn has a strangle hold on men. Before JBO, I had no idea what pornstars’ lives were, what exact scenes they were in, the history of the industry.. etc. that’s super OD.

My disagreement comes from the simplification of the problem. Simply blaming everything on porn and thinking nofap is an answer is a cope-out to a truth nobody wants to admit:

SOME OF THESE MEN ARE fukkING DWEEBS SO UNTIL THEY DECIDE THEY WANT TO BE SOMETHING IN LIFE,LET THEM SUFFER IN THEIR OWN PITIFUL MISERY.

For a sub-forum that boasts about how many bytches they get, y’all sure do care about the nikkas who DON’T get any. I don’t carry this “save the world” mentality that y’all do. fukk em. You are NOT an example of this, as I recently have seen you say you were addicted to porn. You pulled yourself up by your spine and wanted to change yourself. For those who don’t let them suffer.
 

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I disagree. I think having unfettered access any fetish you have, at any time, in any manner has an impact on some men.

Men were not designed to stay in a room and watch porn for hours everyday.

I dont care who disagrees, it just aint the way to live. That ish is very likely going to impact how you see women.

Even on this forum we have brehs talking about women as if they on a porn scene. You read shyt and ask yourselves if these men ever talked to an actual woman in their lives :gucci:


You also have men who refuse to interact with women because in their mind, every woman has had trains ran on her, every woman has a triple digit bodycount, every woman suck off a camel for 800 dollars. And they 100% believe this :gucci:


Keep telling yourself porn and social media has nothing to do with it, or isnt a major factor.

But if anything, this forum tells me its an even bigger factor than we can possibly quantify. And there are much much much worse forums on the internet than this one that would bolster my argument:hubie:
Excessive usage of porn is not the cause. It is the effect

Let that sink in
 

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I do see your point in the fetishes available to men at their every click.. as the more deeper you go into fetishes the more of a possibility you will become a danger to society. I also agree with you on how this forum proves that porn has a strangle hold on men. Before JBO, I had no idea what pornstars’ lives were, what exact scenes they were in, the history of the industry.. etc. that’s super OD.

My disagreement comes from the simplification of the problem. Simply blaming everything on porn and thinking nofap is an answer is a cope-out to a truth nobody wants to admit:

SOME OF THESE MEN ARE fukkING DWEEBS SO UNTIL THEY DECIDE THEY WANT TO BE SOMETHING IN LIFE,LET THEM SUFFER IN THEIR OWN PITIFUL MISERY.

For a sub-forum that boasts about how many bytches they get, y’all sure do care about the nikkas who DON’T get any. I don’t carry this “save the world” mentality that y’all do. fukk em. You are NOT an example of this, as I recently have seen you say you were addicted to porn. You pulled yourself up by your spine and wanted to change yourself. For those who don’t let them suffer.

I agree with pretty much everything you're saying. At the end of the day, a man is going to decide if he wants to take control of his own life and better it.... or throw a decade long pity party and blame websites :yeshrug:

I do agree with your overall point. Cant save everyone, or even anyone.
 

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This part is deep. There really is a difference between fukkin a woman and pleasuring yourself. It's like eating fast food vs eating at a nice restaurant.

Facts some nikkaz be like why try for real chick when I can watch Mazerati's titties clap for a nikka or Gianna Michaels ride a nikka to the grave.
 
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