Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[filial_piety]

Yeah but men initiate. How do you start up a car and then be mad that it actually drives?

Ah but would you allow just anyone to drive your car?

How often do you lend your car out?

Are you selective in who you allow to borrow it?

 

[Rawtid]

So you're saying it's the abandonment aspect that is the big concern, here? These kids grow up to be angry that their dads left them?

Okay may be you're right? But what about the argument that these kids will turn gay or be effeminite (sp) because they grow up without a father?

As seen in this thread

I think that's BS. There are gay boys in two parent households.

 

[intruder]

Men who are intentionally not choosing to be apart of their child's lives should get shared blame for the outcome of that child. Women who choose sperm banks or are pushing the father of their child away should get the sole blame for the turn out of that child.

Wait wait, waiiiiit a minute. @Teedot said that the men still deserve 100% of the blame in those situations too.

Do you ladies need a timeout to come to an agreement in how the whole gender wants to approach this?

 

[intruder]

I think that's BS. There are gay boys in two parent households.

THANK YOU

 

[Rawtid]

Ah but would you allow just anyone to drive your car?

How often do you lend your car out?

Are you selective in who you allow to borrow it?

The same thing can be flipped on the man. You going raw in a random knowing how babies are made? Children made out of wedlock is a shared "mistake".

 

[Rawtid]

wait a minute. @Teedot said that the men still deserve 100% of the blame in those situations too.

Do you ladies need a time out to come to an agreement in how the whole gender wants to approach this?

No. We just don't agree and it's fine.

 

[filial_piety]

The same thing can be flipped on the man. You going raw in a random knowing how babies are made? Children made out of wedlock is a shared "mistake".

When the men complain i'll ask them the same question...

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

A baby can't be made without sperm. The child gets half from each parent. Both parties don't want a kid both parties take proper precaution

While I appreciate your input, it's as if you're being deliberately obtuse in not recognizing da woman has 100% control of whether or not to have her snatch lounge open for cocktail hour or closed off because of a dress code violation.

How you're not able to grasp something so simple is beyond me right now lol.

 

[intruder]

Wait wait, waiiiiit a minute. @Teedot said that the men still deserve 100% of the blame in those situations too.

Do you ladies need a timeout to come to an agreement in how the whole gender wants to approach this?

No. We just don't agree and it's fine.

This, from a mother. So what about you, @Teedot ? YOU have kids? Or are you an outsider looking into the situation just like me?

 

[Rawtid]

When the men complain i'll ask them the same question...

Why would they complain? They have no physical evidence of their bad decision making. Then on top of that they can choose not to be involved. It's a get out of jail free card.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Ldtz be real women choose the most horrible men to lie with.

Talk to most of these mothers and dude was a player beforehand, cheated beforehand, only came around to get his nut off. But suddenly having a kid he's going to be Mr responsible?

These women wanted scum and got scum

my baby daddy was a player and cheated but he still stepped up and takes care of his child. he didnt have a daddy in his life either. we argue alot. i joked once that i was gonna take our son and leave and he choked me out and told me he'd kill me first before i take his son away. theres no excuse for being a deadbeat. nikkas find a way to do what they want if they want to. stop coddling these nikkas.

 

[Rawtid]

my baby daddy was a player and cheated but he still stepped up and takes care of his child. he didnt have a daddy in his life either. we argue alot. i joked once that i was gonna take our son and leave and he choked me out and told me he'd kill me first before i take his son away. theres no excuse for being a deadbeat. nikkas find a way to do what they want if they want to. stop coddling these nikkas.

My friend is like that. He kicked down his baby mother's door because she wouldn't let him see her son. I mean went to her house and kicked down her fukking front door. I have another friend that T-Boned his baby mother's car with his because she was playing with his kids. He had to go to jail on the weekends for that.

 

[filial_piety]

Why would they complain? They have no physical evidence of their bad decision making. Then on top of that they can choose not to be involved. It's a get out of jail free card.

All the more reason for women to take unwanted pregnancies more seriously than men, no?

I know some people don't want to admit it...but the reality is...sex that leads to pregnancy is not 50/50 because the end result is not 50/50 and the 'responsibility' is not 50/50.

 

[MikelArteta]

A baby can't be made without sperm. The child gets half from each parent. Both parties don't want a kid both parties take proper precaution

 

[Blackout]

My friend is like that. He kicked down his baby mother's door because she wouldn't let him see her son. I mean went to her house and kicked down her fukking front door. I have another friend that T-Boned his baby mother's car with his because she was playing with his kids. He had to go to jail on the weekends for that.