Why Do Women Do This? UPDATE IN OP
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Yes?
Tombstone
The Villain
I would think it depends on the dude. If its a chick I like ill hit her up late night just to talk to her cuz its late night and I know shes probably free and Im usually busy during the day.
Not even trying to act cool but this hasn't happened to me in a while. Not even because I'm so good looking or so smooth. More because in the last few years I've only been giving my attention to girls who want me bad.
To answer the OP, she is doing this to test you. When you called and she didn't pick up, she knew it was you. She wanted to see if you would try again to classify you as thirsty (cause she's dumb). When you texted to say it was you, she felt like she had the power (again, dumb/immature). So she ignores you. Then you stop giving her attention, she realizes she might have misjudged you and starts sweating you again. They do it because it's in their nature to test how much they can control you. How much they can make you eat out of their hand. How far are you willing to go to get a chance at her. What is the best way to control you (sex, emotions, jealousy, ego, guilt, damsel in distress, becoming your momma and you being dependent on them to take care of you, etc, etc). They just want to figure out how to get what they want. They all do it. Some are aware of it. Some aren't. Some do it intricately, some do it in a tacky way.
To answer the OP, she is doing this to test you. When you called and she didn't pick up, she knew it was you. She wanted to see if you would try again to classify you as thirsty (cause she's dumb). When you texted to say it was you, she felt like she had the power (again, dumb/immature). So she ignores you. Then you stop giving her attention, she realizes she might have misjudged you and starts sweating you again. They do it because it's in their nature to test how much they can control you. How much they can make you eat out of their hand. How far are you willing to go to get a chance at her. What is the best way to control you (sex, emotions, jealousy, ego, guilt, damsel in distress, becoming your momma and you being dependent on them to take care of you, etc, etc). They just want to figure out how to get what they want. They all do it. Some are aware of it. Some aren't. Some do it intricately, some do it in a tacky way.
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
She likes you. Woman test man it's natural to see what type of man you are, because woman are vulnerable, but a lot of times these tests are based on wrong assumption, depending on her mental make up.
And its also another way of playing hard to get because no one values someone who comes easy.
And its also another way of playing hard to get because no one values someone who comes easy.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
she only wants you as someone to talk to, ONLY at work just to get through the day. Out of work hours she dont want anything to do with you, she probably has someone blowing her back out.
Remember most girls have more than 2+ guys tryna hit, you not the only one tryna get at her
Remember most girls have more than 2+ guys tryna hit, you not the only one tryna get at her
Yeah. This too.
Nothing but facts being typed in this thread. As men we weren't put on this planet to figure women out. Been in the same situation as OP, women give the number but it sometimes comes with flaky communication, I put them as a 2nd thought and move onto someone who is interested, can communicate on an adult level, and can follow through with plans.
The old saying holds true: People make time for who they want in their lives.
The old saying holds true: People make time for who they want in their lives.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
A lot of women was choosing hard on a breh when I first started, but I don't mess with women at work.
It happens, breh. And don't stress it