Why do women match you on tinder just to give one word answers and bland conversation ?

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

I know they need attention and validation but this shyt makes no sense to me. We both swiped right, you could've easily swiped left if you weren't interested. Do these bytches need validation that badly ?

Me : Hey how are you

Her : Hey, I'm fine and you ?

Me : I'm doing good, just at work

Her : Nice

the fukk bytch why did you swipe right then
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[J_rock]

I know they need attention and validation but this shyt makes no sense to me. We both swiped right, you could've easily swiped left if you weren't interested. Do these bytches need validation that badly ? ​

You should already know the answer to this.

Yes, they do.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

"I know they need attention"

then what else are we talking about my nikka. it really is this simple

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Because theyre too busy replying to 10 other cats theyre actually attracted to. Or becasue they lack personality

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

You should already know the answer to this.

Yes, they do.

bytches man. I'm glad I've grown to know the game. It's no sweat but it's just bewildering ​

 

[International Playa]

They got options, they probably replying to you till the one they really want is secured

 

[kwazzy100]

I know they need attention

Boom.

 

[AAKing23]

Kinda why I stopped with it, it's supposed to be a dating site where two people with mutual interest in each other try connecting with each other.

Notice I bolded the word mutual, because on these dating apps these women still expect you as the man to do all of the courting and carrying of the conversation like you approached them on the street.

It's like bytch I didn't make you swipe on me, you chose to

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Don't look into too much, focus on yourself. Lift weights, get money. Once you start posting pictures of you in different countries doing different things that's when you have the power. Then that's when they fighting for your attention.

Invite them over and then kick them out the next morning. Nice guy game

 

[Kenyan West]

Look at how everyone here is putting the blame on the woman. Naw. In a dating context, always take responsibility for the way women are reacting to you.

Yes, she could just be attention whoring. But the real reason you got those lame replies is your conversation game is trash. What you posted is boring as fukk, arouses zero emotion and thought. You're talking to these bytches like you would talk to a grandmom at a bus stop. Lead the conversation with more masculine, fun energy. Stop asking interview questions like 99% of the other guys in her DMs.

Bold statements. Acute observations. Assume the sale and CLOSE.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

They get so many messages that they sit back and leave it to you to make the conversion interesting.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

But you’re not really contributing much to the conversation either. How are you?
Fine.

She answered the question. What is she supposed to say? What would be a better response?

It’s not like that was an interesting question to begin with. Plus, women think men on these apps are killers, so they may not give away too much info in initial conversation to a stranger.


I think the reaction you get from women in real life has more weight than women online and dating apps. If you’re too afraid to approach women in person, then you can’t blame women for not having personalities.

And a lot of women who use Tinder aren’t looking to date the men, they just want the matches. And don’t act like men just swipe right to most of the women, and shoot their shot to as many as possible because it’s a numbers game.

 

[colicolicoli]

Look at how everyone here is putting the blame on the woman. Naw. In a dating context, always take responsibility for the way women are reacting to you.

Yes, she could just be attention whoring. But the real reason you got those lame replies is your conversation game is trash. What you posted is boring as fukk, arouses zero emotion and thought. You're talking to these bytches like you would talk to a grandmom at a bus stop. Lead the conversation with more masculine, fun energy. Stop asking interview questions like 99% of the other guys in her DMs.

Bold statements. Acute observations. Assume the sale and CLOSE.

Facts!

I don't respond to "hey/whats up" texts at all because it goes EXACTLY how OP posted.

Start a real freaking conversation.

 

[8WON6]

for all the shyt men catch for poor social skills, women are just as bad. They just have "something" to offer that lets them sit back watch us act stupid.

 

[LordDeathwatch]

bytches man. I'm glad I've grown to know the game. It's no sweat but it's just bewildering ​

:Egregious1:

So either you understand the game or you're confused, you can't have it both ways nikka. :FleecingSeason: