Why do women match you on tinder just to give one word answers and bland conversation ?

[Gold]

I know they need attention and validation ​

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[Shorty K]

Me : Hey how are you

Her : Hey, I'm fine and you ?

Me : I'm doing good, just wondering if you were free to grab a drink sometime soon?

Her : *either says yes, no or ignores you*


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You're welcome TC

 

[Bless't]

Look at how everyone here is putting the blame on the woman. Naw. In a dating context, always take responsibility for the way women are reacting to you.

Yes, she could just be attention whoring. But the real reason you got those lame replies is your conversation game is trash. What you posted is boring as fukk, arouses zero emotion and thought. You're talking to these bytches like you would talk to a grandmom at a bus stop. Lead the conversation with more masculine, fun energy. Stop asking interview questions like 99% of the other guys in her DMs.

Bold statements. Acute observations. Assume the sale and CLOSE.

All facts.

 

[Primetime21]

Dating apps are a crap shoot anyway. I did the math..if you take a sample of 40 women half of them are overweight. Of the remaining 50% you have to cancel out the single moms, trannys, ___sexuals, and ones you simply arent attracted to. You’re lucky if you can find 3 out of that bunch. Not to say you cant eat with it, but i’d only use it to supplement your offline pursuits.

 

[King Jae]

Dry ass convo and u wonder why she not bitin....step ur text game up...talk to her like she standing in front of u...

 

[jeh]

 

[YouMadd?]

Straight from multiple women's mouths who I know:

"It is too overwhelming to respond to everyone"

Basically, they have too many choices in the inbox...

 

[verbalkint]

Facts!

I don't respond to "hey/whats up" texts at all because it goes EXACTLY how OP posted.

Start a real freaking conversation.

Not to single you out but how else does a first convo start besides "hello".

I'm sure opening with a long paragraph is equally if not more problematic.

 

[AAKing23]

I don't understand these apps, if you blunt and want to have sex then it's a conversation ender. If you keep it casual with no flirting then they get bored and it will eventually end.

Exactly bruh

Not to single you out but how else does a first convo start besides "hello".

I'm sure opening with a long paragraph is equally if not more problematic.

This. I try not to start it with hello. I usually ask questions but I'm not about to be sitting here all day thinking of witty one liners just to start a damn conversation

Just for them to not respond

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Not to single you out but how else does a first convo start besides "hello".

I'm sure opening with a long paragraph is equally if not more problematic.

Exactly. When I'm talking to a female whether online or real life I keep it very simple because at the end of the day if she's attracted to you all you gotta do is not talk yourself out of the p*ssy. But with Tinder we've a;ready established the attraction aspect of it so when I get these replies it's like wtf​

 

[kevm3]

you are probably just one of 50 matches they got that day and aren't the top match in their mind. Most of these dating apps are trash and women have way more options than the average male, so you will only get convo from women you are several points ahead of in looks. Real life is the way to go, especially since most men are afraid to talk to women now

 

[Voice of Reason]

Look at how everyone here is putting the blame on the woman. Naw. In a dating context, always take responsibility for the way women are reacting to you.

Yes, she could just be attention whoring. But the real reason you got those lame replies is your conversation game is trash. What you posted is boring as fukk, arouses zero emotion and thought. You're talking to these bytches like you would talk to a grandmom at a bus stop. Lead the conversation with more masculine, fun energy. Stop asking interview questions like 99% of the other guys in her DMs.

Bold statements. Acute observations. Assume the sale and CLOSE.

 

[Voice of Reason]

hinge>>tinder

TF is hinge

 

[Ohene]

Look at how everyone here is putting the blame on the woman. Naw. In a dating context, always take responsibility for the way women are reacting to you.

Yes, she could just be attention whoring. But the real reason you got those lame replies is your conversation game is trash. What you posted is boring as fukk, arouses zero emotion and thought. You're talking to these bytches like you would talk to a grandmom at a bus stop. Lead the conversation with more masculine, fun energy. Stop asking interview questions like 99% of the other guys in her DMs.

Bold statements. Acute observations. Assume the sale and CLOSE.

Facts!

I don't respond to "hey/whats up" texts at all because it goes EXACTLY how OP posted.

Start a real freaking conversation.

Lol youre both delusional idiots. None of what yall said matters

 

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