No vitriol or hate, you know most women who are single moms chose the wrong guy. They choose a guy who's not fit to be a father over a guy who is responsible. To be fair you can say the same about men.
Why does the coli hate single mothers so much? Read OP
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Why would I or you care
All she ever fukked with was the street nikkas.
nikka, why are you even looking her way. Let her deal with the consequences.
Y'all nikkas just pressed they don't want you.
What's even funnier, they wouldn't want you if they had 0 children or 5.
fukk you even looking at a dusty chick with that mentality
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So the people who have actually been raised in a situation are telling you how bad it was and your first response is to dismiss them? Their lived experiences don't count?
Wouldn't they have more credibility than most on the subject?
Yet no mention of the bum ass nikkas that's still running up in them
You can't use shame for men the same way you can for women. For women words alone will invoke great emotions and provoke a reaction.
For men, actions and results are the only things tangible.
If a bum ass dude can sit in his girls house and play Madden all day while she works and still get food clothing, sex, and shelter, he's gonna do it. It doesn't matter how many times his boys clown him, they're not fukking him, feeding him, or clothing him. He'll just shrug it off.
As long as bum nikkas keep getting their needs met the behavior isn't gonna change.
I care this shyt is effecting our community. We don't teach this kids birth control which leads to ever growing cycle of poverty. We're encouraging kids to make the wrong decisions because it's lame. People have to break the cycle. I'm looking at the bigger picture
Why would I or you care
Y'all nikkas just pressed they don't want you.
What's even funnier, they wouldn't want you if they had 0 children or 5.
fukk you even looking at a dusty chick with that mentality
nikka, you ain't out here mentoring the youth.
You're out here in the military representing United States imperialism.
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Didn't know this.
Don't get the hate for single moms.
But some dudes choose not to deal with single moms because of a variety of reasons.
- Don't wanna deal with baby daddy drama
- some see a woman with multiple baby daddies as a red flag. They may wonder why ain't one of the baby daddies wife or stay with her or wonder if she a big hoe.
- some may feel that a single mom may not want anymore kids so if a dude who is childless mess with her...he may end up having no kids of his own
- kids may not respect man that single mom is dating and may say shyt like "u ain't my daddy", which is true
- some men may not want to fully pay for another man's kids
Etc.
But some dudes choose not to deal with single moms because of a variety of reasons.
- Don't wanna deal with baby daddy drama
- some see a woman with multiple baby daddies as a red flag. They may wonder why ain't one of the baby daddies wife or stay with her or wonder if she a big hoe.
- some may feel that a single mom may not want anymore kids so if a dude who is childless mess with her...he may end up having no kids of his own
- kids may not respect man that single mom is dating and may say shyt like "u ain't my daddy", which is true
- some men may not want to fully pay for another man's kids
Etc.
Interesting. What is the response to women like that saying men ain't shyt when they knowingly choose poorly?
Why would I or you care
Y'all nikkas just pressed they don't want you.
What's even funnier, they wouldn't want you if they had 0 children or 5.
fukk you even looking at a dusty chick with that mentality
Ya' Cousin Cleon
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these dudes are basically Jody. I actually saw somebody say that they can understand why some men would choose not to be around their kids based on who the mother was
Yes, I coparent currently. And my son’s father will actually get full custody of him in three years, since my son will be nearing that pre-teen age.
But I’m not sure that they differentiate between single-moms on here. I’ve gotten hate messages before, despite the circumstances of my situation.
I honestly believe that most people associate single mothers as anyone that has a child but is not with the father any longer(whether it’s through divorce, ltr ending, or that ons where y’all were never together to begin with). I don’t think they care as much about the circumstances.
Tbh its not ideal at all. I wish it wasn’t such an epidemic in our community. And i always hurt for the kids. Kids need both parents. They really do. I don’t think I ever thought deeply about it because I was raised in a two parent household. Now that I’m a parent, especially of a boy, I can see why it’s so important. He gets that nurturing and love from me. But it’s his dad that sets him right. Kids need that balance.
Even before I became a single mom I never had negative feelings toward single mothers. Now that I’m one, I feel empathy, because it’s hard doing it on your own. On the other hand I have a difficult time with shytty parenting regardless of their marital status. So I don’t like shytty single parents.
My issue I guess is that often the blame and anger is directed toward the person who is doing the role of two parents because the other parent is gone. Like people really hate the person that stuck around and really aren’t talking about the men that knew that woman wasn’t shyt, and impregnated her anyway and doesn’t even have the gall to rescue his child from the shytty mother.
I don’t get that... I see it all the time, “fatherless home” or “single moms ain’t shyt” and unfortunately i do believe a lot of issues in our community are because of fatherlessness. I get that anger. I just have a hard time understanding why it’s often only directed at the person that stuck around, instead of being directed at all these fathers that don’t even care enough to be in their child’s life.
Those women need to look in the mirror and do self reflection.
Why are they attracted to those type of men and why do they attract those type of men.
But those women most likely won't do self reflection and will continue to make the same mistakes until they are now saddled with children they don't want or their looks don't grant them access to the type of men they want.