"Why I Do Not Want to Split Rent or Mortgage With My Man"

[A Woman's Opinion]

Okay that’s nice you’re good to your husband BUT do you do everything on the list? Because I hear women who promote traditional values but when you lay them out ( like I did) asterisks starts to get place hear and there.

And the second part is irrelevant.

All men don’t have the same desires to be satisfied, so that check list is a big ridiculous and immature.

No, i don’t wash the bathtub every night (it’s not needed) , but I don’t leave lights on in every room. (He hates that. Lol)

No, I don’t mske him lunch everyday. He prefers to buy it, but I don’t ever touch his BIKE, or drive his truck. (He hates that) and I don’t argue about it. I know to leave things that are his alone.


I know what my husband wants from me. And o give it to him.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

All men don’t have the same desires to be satisfied, so that check list is a big ridiculous and immature.

No, i don’t wash the bathtub every night (it’s not needed) , but I don’t leave lights on in every room. (He hates that. Lol)

No, I don’t mske him lunch everyday. He prefers to buy it, but I don’t ever touch his BIKE, or drive his truck. (He hates that) and I don’t argue about it. I know to leave things that are his alone.


I know what my husband wants from me. And o give it to him.

Ridiculous and immature? No it wasn’t. I actually used another female poster ( in this thread )reference point. I just wanted to see where your head was at. And the only reason I challenged that was because I never ever see women happily go the full housewife life, I wanted to see if you were an exception.

As long as you meet his demands to his satisfaction and are submissive then I have no problem with you. In fact I applaud it.

But I’ve seen too many women want a traditional man and cut corners on being a traditional wife and that’s not fair.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Oh good fukking grief
Read the 1st paragraph and was good, thanks

fam. she's saying "piece" of mind when she means peace of mind

she made this error more than once so she can't say it was a typo.

 

[AtomicUse]

Yall nikkas actually read that shyt?

I scrolled through to look for a pic, didn't see one and went straight to the thread to see if any pics were posted.

 

[AtomicUse]

To many I, Me, and My's for my taste. There is a reason why you're single and it's most likely because you're selfish and narcissistic. A serious relationship/marriage is not about you, it's about the other person. It's about the giving of yourself to your partner/spouse which is why most marriages fail in this "it's all about me" generation.

That's how my wife is. It's like fighting a counterpuncher but in a good way, every time I give something or make a consideration she comes back with something even harder and it's a never ending cycle of affection.
I'd give this crazy old lady some flowers and probably wouldn't even get a back rub or some food.

 

[AtomicUse]

"A picture is worth a thousand words"

She actually makes Hill look good.

 

[Matt504]

Completely unrelated to the responses about the author's looks but shoutout to @Critical Distance for his Beyonce thread.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Man fukk her. From what I read she wants equality at work but stay in a traditional woman's place at home. fukk her.

I mean, a lot of nikkas here want a woman to cater to them in a traditional way.... after she gets home from work and pays her share (if not all) of the bills

This whole generation doesn't give a fukk about sacrifice or teamwork. It's all "me me me" which is why shyt is all going down in flames Glad I found my FAWG and got out of the game, she is a real one.

 

[OrionBC]

If she's looking to be a kept woman then more power to her. I hope she finds the man she is looking for. I honestly couldn't see myself being happy in a relationship like that. She listed her first reason as being the "piece of mind" that she gets when she knows that her man can take care of all household finances. That paragraph rubbed me wrong the most because it's the very definition of selfish to me. How could I ,as a wife, have peace of mind while knowing my husband has no peace of mind because he is under the strain of feeling like he is responsible for me financially, like a child. I feel like if we were both financially responsible and hardworking adults before marrying than, the union of marriage should benefit the both of us financially, not just one person. If we were both good financially on our own respectively than, coming together should mean more security financially for both parties. It means you don't have to worry about paying rent alone because there is another adult there to help which means, more money in both adults pockets. It means not having to pay utilities on my own because there is another adult there to help which still means, more money in both pockets. I personally wouldn't feel any peace of mind knowing my husband is handling the most important part of the household, the finances, alone.

 

[concise]

fam. she's saying "piece" of mind when she means peace of mind

she made this error more than once so she can't say it was a typo.

She botched "principle" as well.

 

[1thouwow]

And a sucka ass nikka is gonna fall for that

 

[invalid]

She actually makes Hill look good.

And those were the more flattering pics of her. If you go check out her FB, I'm not convinced that she was even born a woman. She looks like a straight up nikka.

 

[Kane1]

So she wants to work and have money but don't want to spend it on bills and have her man pay for the household


I see nothing wrong with her 'How to catch a SIMP plan'

 

[kevm3]

The issue with her is simply that she literally wants to avoid doing anything hard at all, and she's trying to justify it with feminism, thus making feminism look bad in the process.

I get not wanting to cook all the time if youre busy with your job.

I get not wanting to stress out over bills.

But it's strange to think you can be in a relationship and not have to take on any reslonsibility at all. Like, you literally want to keep all your money, never spend it, not do any shores whatsoever... if she divorces, does she expect to take have his money then?

She isn't making feminism look bad. She's embodying what feminism is, which is to keep the privileges of being a woman, obtain the privileges of being a man and facing the downsides of neither.

 

[richaveli83]