BlaqkSpliffin
Ni**as Still Weird - Me
And my mom was 30 when she had me but in her teens with my sisters. There's a class issue but there's also a generational issue. Your experience isn't the majority and never has been in any culture.
Lord_nikon
Veteran
I was about to post,,,, shyt is true tho 
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Some people dont love themselves or feel a lack of love from their family, partner, friends, etc.
This causes a need for something to love them unconditionally, so they pop out babies and drain the love out of them like a love atm machine.
This causes a need for something to love them unconditionally, so they pop out babies and drain the love out of them like a love atm machine.
Amor fati
Superstar
Half my classmates from Class of 2015 are pregnant or already with a kid/married. My nikka.... we are 21-22 years old and literally every other classmate's FB profile I click on has a baby in their arms.
TF is going on here?? Why is my graduating class so damn stupid? How can you even afford to have a baby at your age in this climate without making six figures? Even the Honor Roll student who I thought had a bright ass future is boo'd up with her man and a newborn baby working a 9-5. I'm convinced this is how broken families are created in the black community. I guess I'm so upset because a couple months ago this could've been me (I was going raw in my girl even when she wasn't on the pill). I was on some loser ass shyt breh.
Being pregnant at a young age is not a novelty at all in eastern cultures girls get married off hella young, and in western cultures you see girls from 15-21 getting pregnant by some idiot since the 70's. I think the best question you should have asked was "Why are many females getting pregnant by dead beat guys while jobless, studying or working minimum wage jobs?"
Amor fati
Superstar
The average folk in the west don't have a purpose or dream so shyt like this is bound to happen.
You know how you got some black parents that be ashamed if their kids come out 
I would be the type of kid that would be ashamed if my parents were broke.
Do not disrespect me and bring me into this world having to compete with kids whose parents weren’t broke as fukk, smoke, drank, or was in the club every weekend, knew the difference between “there”, “their” and “they’re”, wasn’t hopping on and off community dikk, whose life and career goals wasn’t to become a CNA or working at FedEx, had degrees beyond high school, et cetera, et cetera... them shyts is embarrassing as fukk. Who wants to compete with remedial ass parents in 2020?
You know how embarrassing it would be to get into a fight with some young nikkas at school and yo momma comes in acting a fool cause yo daddy ain’t around to step in and handle the situation?
You know how embarrassing it would be to be in children’s circle and the question comes up “what do your parents do” and you have to say that yo momma does nothing but collect snap benefits and child support from an invisible daddy?
Shame these parents making consecutively bad decisions.
I would rather had been aborted instead of them bringing me into a whole life of struggle.
I would be the type of kid that would be ashamed if my parents were broke.
Do not disrespect me and bring me into this world having to compete with kids whose parents weren’t broke as fukk, smoke, drank, or was in the club every weekend, knew the difference between “there”, “their” and “they’re”, wasn’t hopping on and off community dikk, whose life and career goals wasn’t to become a CNA or working at FedEx, had degrees beyond high school, et cetera, et cetera... them shyts is embarrassing as fukk. Who wants to compete with remedial ass parents in 2020?
You know how embarrassing it would be to get into a fight with some young nikkas at school and yo momma comes in acting a fool cause yo daddy ain’t around to step in and handle the situation?
You know how embarrassing it would be to be in children’s circle and the question comes up “what do your parents do” and you have to say that yo momma does nothing but collect snap benefits and child support from an invisible daddy?
Shame these parents making consecutively bad decisions.
I would rather had been aborted instead of them bringing me into a whole life of struggle.
Dude just said they are at least 21 so your chart is irrelevant and im sure he's speaking on his social network and not the whole country
So he's basically asking the whole country then. Unless everybody on the coli lives in the same area
blockburna420
Consecutive thumbs up
The data is about 6 years old but teenage pregnancy has trended down since 91.
Decrease in teen pregnancy | womenshealth.gov
You know how you got some black parents that be ashamed if their kids come out
I would be the type of kid that would be ashamed if my parents were broke.
Do not disrespect me and bring me into this world having to compete with kids whose parents weren’t broke as fukk, smoke, drank, or was in the club every weekend, knew the difference between “there”, “their” and “they’re”, wasn’t hopping on and off community dikk, whose life and career goals wasn’t to become a CNA or working at FedEx, had degrees beyond high school, et cetera, et cetera... them shyts is embarrassing as fukk. Who wants to compete with remedial ass parents in 2020?
You know how embarrassing it would be to get into a fight with some young nikkas at school and yo momma comes in acting a fool cause yo daddy ain’t around to step in and handle the situation?
You know how embarrassing it would be to be in children’s circle and the question comes up “what do your parents do” and you have to say that yo momma does nothing but collect snap benefits and child support from an invisible daddy?
Shame these parents making consecutively bad decisions.
I would rather had been aborted instead of them bringing me into a whole life of struggle.
you're trippin bruh
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
Veteran
Best time to have kids biologically is early 20's. However, the kids that did the best at my school and ended up the most successful (usually) had parents that didn't have babies until late 20's to mid-30's...at least from what I saw. Like in high school, the A-students parents would be mid-40's. The C-students momma's would be fine as hell 
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It's kind of a trade-off. You can have your kids a little early and they'll probably be a bit healthier and stronger..........or you can mature and have them later. Parents that are a little older tend be able to invest more time into their kids (getting them to read earlier, learning an instrument etc).
Location matters too. My girl is from a smaller town and everyone got married/had kids fairly early (damn near half her graduating class by age 25 or so). I'm from Dallas, 3 years older than her, yet probably half the people I went to school with STILL haven't had kids even though most have great jobs and make a lot of $$$. The ones that have had kids didn't start making babies until 28, 29 or 30...even the super religious types. Big city means lots of options so you tend to wait it out. Small town means you gotta pick someone quickly or get stuck with no options.
.It's kind of a trade-off. You can have your kids a little early and they'll probably be a bit healthier and stronger..........or you can mature and have them later. Parents that are a little older tend be able to invest more time into their kids (getting them to read earlier, learning an instrument etc).
Location matters too. My girl is from a smaller town and everyone got married/had kids fairly early (damn near half her graduating class by age 25 or so). I'm from Dallas, 3 years older than her, yet probably half the people I went to school with STILL haven't had kids even though most have great jobs and make a lot of $$$. The ones that have had kids didn't start making babies until 28, 29 or 30...even the super religious types. Big city means lots of options so you tend to wait it out. Small town means you gotta pick someone quickly or get stuck with no options.
Yeah I mentioned in the past, I was shocked at how many females I went to High School with got pregnant & had a kid within 2-3 years of graduating High School.Half my classmates from Class of 2015 are pregnant or already with a kid/married. My nikka.... we are 21-22 years old and literally every other classmate's FB profile I click on has a baby in their arms.
TF is going on here?? Why is my graduating class so damn stupid? How can you even afford to have a baby at your age in this climate without making six figures? Even the Honor Roll student who I thought had a bright ass future is boo'd up with her man and a newborn baby working a 9-5. I'm convinced this is how broken families are created in the black community. I guess I'm so upset because a couple months ago this could've been me (I was going raw in my girl even when she wasn't on the pill). I was on some loser ass shyt breh.
