So you think women that move on quickly give a shyt about new dude? It's all the same game just from a different perspective. In either case both parties come off like they didn't give a shyt.
Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?
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I would talk through a major issue but we aren't always going to agree on what issues are classified as major. I'm not tryna have a conversation every day about something I might have said and was interpreted in a different way because of insecurities, etc.. Basically, if I'm with you and I'm letting you know we are together, there's nobody else, etc. and if that still don't get through then that ain't on me. It's insecurities that kill relationships.
This is why I don't trust women.
I think muthafukkas need to stop playing games with others. Sometimes that ends in death. Just saying. No one wants to be an adult be up front.
I don't trust men. I dont trust anyone.I agree.
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It's not, OP. They just do it while they're still in the relationship. When they officially cut the cord, that's just letting you know that they finished something they actually started doing a few weeks -- or months, if you were in it for a long haul -- ago.
Nor should you. Humans.
Women emotionally detach while there telling you they love you, sleeping and spending time with you they are slowly withdrawing.
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From my short time on this site, I think you are cool peeps but you have to let some of that venom out of your heart.
I used to feel that way about women but it's non productive. There truly could be a man out there who is an admirer of yours but you have such a strong wall up.
Yeah humans are shyt.
I think we all agree on that, lol
But sometimes a person creeps in to show you something different. I definitely agree people are more fearful of pain then loneliness but isn't life just a big ass risk.
Enjoy the time with someone meaningful and if it ends, then just keep pursuing your dreams.
Somehow we have to love one another(both men and women).
Somethings got to give because this mistrust between genders is causing our demise for the future.
I let someone in and that didn't go over too well. I just can't afford to keep doing that you know? I mean it sounds good but it's just easier I guess to say "fukk it". Im going to achieve my goals regardless but maybe the whole relationship thing isn't what I need. I'm always happy when it's working for others. It's definitely a natural feeling to want someone but the potential hurt may be enough to say 
until whenever lol
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It's cause women out here be having mad dudes on deck in case it don't work out with the dude they really like. They got plan B, C, D, F etc guy plus dudes in the friend-zone that gives them male attention and will do anything for them at their beck and call.
Thing is men can do this too but you gotta have superb game, whereas even ugly chicks can have several dudes on deck just by using their sexuality and they don't even have to be sexing any of them.
Since us men approach women, many of us may start dating or talking to one chick and curve every other chick that shows us interest cause we really like one particular chick. And when shyt don't get poppin' were left alone going "wtf?". Whereas for women whether they are seeing someone, dating in a relationship, if they look decent they gon always have dudes crushing on them, chasing them etc.
It all really comes down to hurt people not wanting to get hurt again. They were played so they continue the destructive cycle by playing others. They feign interest enough to the point where all these dudes they got in the back burner think they got a chance without ever having to kiss or have sex with them. By having multiple backup dudes, they don't necessarily have to "face reality" of being alone when it doesn't work out with a particular dude.
These chicks don't like the feeling of being heartbroken, but this ultimately causes their relationships to fail. It causes their relationships to fail because in-between relationships you are supposed to learn from those failed relationships and grow as an individual. You are also supposed to heal from whatever pain, abuse and/or baggage you received from that relationship. And even if their relationship doesn't ultimately fail they are many times unhappy. It's called monkey branching. They don't let go of one branch (guy) until they get a firm grip on the next one.
You gotta also realize that a lot of women are male dependent no matter how much they tell you that's not true. How many chicks out here's lives revolve around their man? Especially if he's really ambitious, successful, is making moves on a consistent basis etc. She's gonna be all about supporting him and his goals. Women like to feel needed by a man, so if the relationship ends that sense of being needed vanishes.
There's also a lot of other things that come into play such as social media and women being bombarded with attention on a daily basis. They don't even gotta be attractive, if they post thirsty pictures or do sexual shyt you gon have simps coming out the wood works.
I already wrote too much, you can write a got damn book on this topic alone.
Thing is men can do this too but you gotta have superb game, whereas even ugly chicks can have several dudes on deck just by using their sexuality and they don't even have to be sexing any of them.
Since us men approach women, many of us may start dating or talking to one chick and curve every other chick that shows us interest cause we really like one particular chick. And when shyt don't get poppin' were left alone going "wtf?". Whereas for women whether they are seeing someone, dating in a relationship, if they look decent they gon always have dudes crushing on them, chasing them etc.
It all really comes down to hurt people not wanting to get hurt again. They were played so they continue the destructive cycle by playing others. They feign interest enough to the point where all these dudes they got in the back burner think they got a chance without ever having to kiss or have sex with them. By having multiple backup dudes, they don't necessarily have to "face reality" of being alone when it doesn't work out with a particular dude.
These chicks don't like the feeling of being heartbroken, but this ultimately causes their relationships to fail. It causes their relationships to fail because in-between relationships you are supposed to learn from those failed relationships and grow as an individual. You are also supposed to heal from whatever pain, abuse and/or baggage you received from that relationship. And even if their relationship doesn't ultimately fail they are many times unhappy. It's called monkey branching. They don't let go of one branch (guy) until they get a firm grip on the next one.
You gotta also realize that a lot of women are male dependent no matter how much they tell you that's not true. How many chicks out here's lives revolve around their man? Especially if he's really ambitious, successful, is making moves on a consistent basis etc. She's gonna be all about supporting him and his goals. Women like to feel needed by a man, so if the relationship ends that sense of being needed vanishes.
There's also a lot of other things that come into play such as social media and women being bombarded with attention on a daily basis. They don't even gotta be attractive, if they post thirsty pictures or do sexual shyt you gon have simps coming out the wood works.
I already wrote too much, you can write a got damn book on this topic alone.
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If you talking to a chick, getting to know her, dating etc and she don't wanna hang out with you all the time best believe she most likely seeing/got other dudes on deck. And texting don't count, cause girls be on their phones 24/7 and they'll text like 20 nikkas at a time and that won't mean shyt to them.
To be honest, in 2016 unless I'm fukking a chick whatever happened before don't mean shyt. Women will waste your time if you let them.
To be honest, in 2016 unless I'm fukking a chick whatever happened before don't mean shyt. Women will waste your time if you let them.