Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

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What happened to the communication that you all desperately require which would have avoided being held in the dark about how you truly feel...

Men need to realize you can never go wrong with communication. Even it's something unpleasant or not easy to hear.
Say breh we already discussed this a couple posts up. Basically y'all don't listen, brush it off as nagging, we mentally check out and leave. :manny:

I feel You are a prime example of a man that doesn't taken women or relationships seriously judging from your stories. They are just objects.
 

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Keep in mind that most men aren't even getting attention from women like that and would be perfectly happy with one woman :patrice:

Has posting on the coli taught you nothing :dahell:
I don't feel men want just one woman. They say that in the same breath they talk about side pieces and stables.
 

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anyone else notice its usually much easier for women to move on from relationships and become serial daters?

these bytches are cold mang :dame:

they say they love you until the next swinging dikk comes along :sadbron:


My ex-wife told me that it wasn't easy and that she was just tryna save face.
 

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An that has always been my concern with women.
I truly believe we are shaped by our parents. Many of us never saw that two parent home ecosystem, so naturally we run from confrontation and seek shelter of the easiest route.
I know The Coli(and other male dominated forums are least likely not to admit it) but men(the non sociopathic ones) love women. So it's hard when we finally get with you and y'all start doing that passive aggressive, you should know what I'm thinking bullshyt. That's not how I operate and most men don't either.
This is where the dilemma comes because both genders are speaking to each other but not listening.
Most men are not out here to get women to pump and dump. Yeah this might sound simpish, even white knightey(I know that's not a word lol) but we generally love interaction with women, at least I do.
So now it's a game of who's out to get who. People become paranoid and cycles repeat of our past.
We have to start learning how to communicate and somehow get back to the middle. It's a war outside nobody is safe from and hiding behind assumptions is killing relationships. My girl and I live by just saying what we feel and let's deal with it.
Maybe my ideology is off but somehow we gotta start treating each other with respect during and after a relationship. Not saying you need to coddle a grown man if you are not feeling him anymore but think about the next woman who gets him. A lot of dudes deal with insecurities of not being good enough but here's a secret a woman can squash all of that if they just keep it 100.
Disclaimer: this also goes for men as well..


Breh you speaking gospel here....

I'm from a two parent stable home and dealing with women from single parent homes/broken families has NEVER gone well....

The contrast in dealing with women who grew up with both their parents is the level of loyalty and commitment ... They will stick it out and try to make it work... They have faith and resolve innately ingrained in them from youth and subconsciously model that....


Settling down with these harlots who have daddy issues is a no go.


My own mother even said so and like an idiot I thought I knew better smh
 

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Say breh we already discussed this a couple posts up. Basically y'all don't listen, brush it off as nagging, we mentally check out and leave. :manny:

I feel You are a prime example of a man that doesn't taken women or relationships seriously judging from your stories. They are just objects.

I really don't be sifting through threads and reading posts so forgive me. Communication is a two way street. If men communicated the shift that we really be thinking or wanting to talk about I believe wholeheartedly that women are not capable of handling or implementing anything discussed. We may perceive that you are nagging because you don't know how to effectively engage us in a way that make us want to listen
 

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Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho.. :ufdup:

This . . she thought felt it out way in advance, very premeditated

Furthermore, a key that unlocks many locks is a master key. A lock that's unlocked by many keys is a useless lock and can't be depended on. She can "get over you" by jumping dikk to dikk and this is why it's imperative to cut off all contact and social media ties immediately upon break up. In the most extreme cases perhaps a toned down level of contact is okay . . but absolutely all social media ties must be broken instantly and without question or answer
 

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Chicks will check out of a relationship months before the break up :to:


By the time you find out its over its BEEN over in here eyes.
 

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I really don't be sifting through threads and reading posts so forgive me. Communication is a two way street. If men communicated the shift that we really be thinking or wanting to talk about I believe wholeheartedly that women are not capable of handling or implementing anything discussed. We may perceive that you are nagging because you don't know how to effectively engage us in a way that make us want to listen

So you basically said that men are not communicating truthfully, if at all. That's not a two way street lol
 

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Breh you speaking gospel here....

I'm from a two parent stable home and dealing with women from single parent homes/broken families has NEVER gone well....

The contrast in dealing with women who grew up with both their parents is the level of loyalty and commitment ... They will stick it out and try to make it work... They have faith and resolve innately ingrained in them from youth and subconsciously model that....


Settling down with these harlots who have daddy issues is a no go.


My own mother even said so and like an idiot I thought I knew better smh

If you are screwing around with other women, why should someone try to work it out or be loyal to you? That's not a two parent thing that's just common sense. Small issues and arguments sure, but lies and cheating is some other shyt b
 

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probably been said, but;

woman deal with it immediately and then start to put it together
or they are already mentally done and move on while still in the relationship so the transitions easier.

we/men in most cases go about our business fine and then it can hit you out of nowhere.
 

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00000000000000000000000000000022Females check out emotionally early, if you don't recognize it.
You can spot when they check out emotionally.
by when they first start to decline intimacy in what a simp beta male will call the honeymoon period.
When a honeymoon period should not exist, in any female/male interaction.

When, the level of intensity in a real caring loving relationship won't wane.
Plus a real man will not tolerate declining intimacy on any level in a relationship.

If you can recognize a female declining intimacy and not tolerate it.
You will eliminate the incubation period for a female.
to check out emotionally and hyper gamy you the fukk up.
There by eliminating the period where she checks out and starts to smash on your still dialed in emotional state.
All because she checked out emotionally and was not dialed in like you were.
Expose and eliminate and then do not tolerate declining intimacy.
As that is how females at the root check out emotionally and then hyper gamy you the fukk up to play you.


Art Barr
 

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Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho.. :ufdup:
We don't move on easily, we just move on before you knew it was coming. You were fukking up somewhere along the way and didn't realize.
cold but true :demonic:
 
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