Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[iBrowse]

Why shouldn't they share?

It consciously or subconsciously undermines diminishes her perception of him. In moments of weakenes and/or anger women are known to throw those things said in confidence at their man. It has happened time and time again.

 

[LEEeveryday]

Options...

 

[Edub]

...while my heart is still ripped in half

anyone else notice its usually much easier for women to move on from relationships and become serial daters?

these bytches are cold mang

they say they love you until the next swinging dikk comes along

Especially when women are young they are professional fronters...it's not their fault, at that age they are concerned with keeping up with the standards of pop culture as much as they are with keeping you...probably a little more honestly...so once broken up their mission of keeping up social norms and standards still remains...she still has an image to maintain in other words. Most of us men don't concern ourselves with such things(image/social norms etc.) so once broken up she still remains a thought.

Sooo...basically what I'm saying is many young hoes are fake, so have fun but don't invest too much

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Men if you care about the woman you with then you need to become more perceptive and if that's difficult, then you need to listen if she is crying out to to you that shyt ain't straight. This shyt is not going to magically come together.

Women, there is no way to pre plan for disaster. Its gonna happen whether you are ready or not. Dont prolong his or your pain hoping that he get it because he wont. Men are wired to do things their way and it is their right as human beings. The only thing u can control is yourself. If it ain't what its supposed to be and you are done begging, let him know and push.


We will never get our relationships right if we are not honest with ourselves and with each other.

Sad to say, all of us ain't built for relationships whether we want them or not

 

[Edub]

Catch "feelings" brehs

This

 

[jbrad]

Man, you gotta realize these chicks have dudes on their ass 24/7 waiting for you to slip up. Those text, IG comments and all that other ish might be annoying to her at first until she realizes you're acting up and might give you a chance to redeem ya'self but if not, she won't really hesitate to entertain them back once she feels as she's had "enough"

 

[Elle Driver]

It consciously or subconsciously undermines her perception of him. In moments of weakenes and/or anger women are known to throw those things said in confidence at their man. It has happened time and time again.

Not necessarily.

 

[serial]

Men if you care about the woman you with then you need to become more perceptive and if that's difficult, then you need to listen if she is crying out to to you that shyt ain't straight. This shyt is not going to magically come together.

Women, there is no way to pre plan for disaster. Its gonna happen whether you are ready or not. Dont prolong his or your pain hoping that he get it because he wont. Men are wired to do things his way and it is his right as a human being. The only thing u can control is yourself. If it ain't what its supposed to be and you are done begging, let him know and push.


We will never get our relationships right if we are not honest with ourselves and with each other.

Sad to say, all of us ain't built for relationships whether we want them or not

I agree..... a lot of us looking for relationships when we should be working on ourselves... how is it possible to be honest with someone externally if you can't be honest with self.

I also think a lot of us want a relationships but dont want to put in the work it requires to maintain it. Sometimes you need to water your own grass instead of looking outside for something greener.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

In matters of breakup, you have to be ruthless and be the one that cares less. Even if you're hurt you gotta push those feelings to the side and be a savage with some new chick. You might think that showing your emotions will win her over but it won't. She won't feel sad or have compassion for you.

I learned this the hard way. There's no point in being the nice person in a breakup. You gotta be the indignant a$$hole or you'll be the one crying. Why? Because even if she's done with you... If you act like you're in the right... If you carry yourself with righteous indignation... Then she's forced to at least think to herself, "damn this nikka is adamant in his stance. Did I mess up? Am i missing out on something?"

Sounds crazy and fukked up but that's how it is. Like Future said, "If she catch me cheating I won't ever tell her sorry." Like what's the point if she's gonna break up with you anyway? So she can feel better as she does it?

Btw, this advice is I know. But you can either follow it or be the one crying every night while ya ex moves on in life.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I agree..... a lot of us looking for relationships when we should be working on ourselves... how is it possible to be honest with someone externally if you can be honest with self.

I also think a lot of us want a relationships but dont want to put in the work it requires to maintain it. Sometimes you need to water your own grass instead of looking outside for something greener.

Yassss!
When we all realize everything we need is already inside of us, just the thought of making a relationship the be all, end all to life is laughable. Yes we are built to have companions and whatnot but if you ain't whole and he ain't whole, then all you got is a situationship with an expiration date.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I think this is bullshyt. Men have way more options especially because you guys don't have feelings. You can pretend to like a chick and fukk her and not feel anything.

It's truly fukked up out here because people don't understand the effects a person can have on you when you truly love them/confide in them.

I think people are more fearful of being hurt than being alone. I know I am. I'd much rather not have anyone than for the whole thing to be bullshyt.

Eventually you don't bother to talk you just do shyt, like leave.

I don't trust men. I dont trust anyone.

I think @Rawtid and I have dated. I'm sorry ma. We're similar. I really want to give you a hug. You didn't deserve that. Just know he was probably scared and emotionally immature or unavailable. Please don't give up. Can I ask you a personal question?

"In an ocean of feelings I'm emotionally allergic. It's like the open sea is a person that you can only see when you go below the surface. We played a game of "I spy it" we invaded each other'a privacy but I liked it."

 

[Rawtid]

I think @Rawtid and I have dated. I'm sorry ma. We're similar. I really want to give you a hug. You didn't deserve that. Just know he was probably scared and emotionally immature or unavailable. Please don't give up. Can I ask you a personal question?

"In an ocean of feelings I'm emotionally allergic. It's like the open sea is a person that you can only see when you go below the surface. We played a game of "I spy it" we invaded each other'a privacy but I liked it."

Sure, what's the question?

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Sure, what's the question?

Have you ever loved one of your partners and had that feeling reciprocated?

 

[DallasTxRep]

Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho..

There it is. Yall usually realize that the shyt ain't gonna work way before we do so yall put a backup plan in motion...while still in the relationship

 

[Crucial]

If you are screwing around with other women, why should someone try to work it out or be loyal to you? That's not a two parent thing that's just common sense. Small issues and arguments sure, but lies and cheating is some other shyt b

I'm trying to figure out how you got that from what he said?!

Your broad generilzations of men AND women make it hard to have a decent discourse.

All men are not habitual womanizers and not all women try to communicate before moving on.

Like the breh said, trying too say something can be different from straight saying something.

IMO