It doesn't matter that he dapped you. He's still very much capable of responding himself.
You're reaching. "Get Ur Freak On", "Work It", "Gossip Folks", "She's A...", "I'm Really Hot" etc., were not bigger with R&B crowds.
Whether you liked the song or not is irrelevant. "I'm Really Hot" is in tune with "Lose Control"?

. Those songs sound nothing alike. I don't think brehs were listening to those songs. I know they were.
Read some of the recent posts you've made on this forum and you'd understand why it's laughable.
Yes, there are certain things on certain levels that are exclusive to some people, but we're specifically talking about Missy Elliott. You've even admitted to liking some of her music. Just because you've never seen a group of males discussing Missy's music irrelevant. That's just based on what you've seen. There's a an entire world that exists outside of you and the people you know.