Why/Why Not Are/Aren't Relationships For You?

[King Khufu]

Relationships are for me, because I like what comes with it. The close companionship, learning about eachother compromising for eachother, building eachother up, and building together.

However, they also have to be at the right time, sometimes depending on your place in life, the commitment, the sacrifice, the time, the vulnerability just isn’t appropriate.

For me it’s not right now, but sooner or later it will be again.

Real talk bro. This under rated. Lowkey I be like that too.

 

[Clay Puppington]

I understand his situation.

It just seems like men have to compromise so much of who they are for a woman and I'm not exactly sure what it is women provide for you in the long run.

I just feel like dating is almost a talent show.

I'm supposed to show you who I am and how great of a person I am to win you, but who are you? What do you do? What is the prize other than sexual gratification that makes a man decide to compromise so much of who he is for her? Is it just the idea of not being alone?

I don't know breh.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I don't know breh.

Have you been in a relationship before?

Can you tell me the benefits you got from it outside of a sexual gratification and simply not being alone?

I'm not saying there isn't more I'm really asking what is it since I don't have any experience.

 

[Clay Puppington]

@DarianaGrande the female perspective on certain things, someone to try new restaurants and experiences with, companionship, encouragement, support

I met a dude in college who got a job thru his fiance directly helped his pockets.

And most importantly, you can go raw


It's not like you get into full on relationships with ppl just to smash
Y'all can do that without the label

 

[Mandarin Duck]

@DarianaGrande the female perspective on certain things, someone to try new restaurants and experiences with, companionship, encouragement, support

I met a dude in college who got a job thru his fiance directly helped his pockets.

And most importantly, you can go raw


It's not like you get into full on relationships with ppl just to smash
Y'all can do that without the label

I mean no offense but it does boil down to

1. Sex
2. Not being alone

I said other than sex and you still labeled raw sex as one of the things that's "most important" about a relationship.

I can eat alone and watch a movie alone

Sex is the only thing I would actually need a female for.

If I could turn off my sexual libido I wouldn't have a problem with being alone for the rest of my life.

 

[Clay Puppington]

I mean no offense but it does boil down to

1. Sex
2. Not being alone

I said other than sex and you still labeled raw sex as one of the things that's "most important" about a relationship.

I can eat alone and watch a movie alone

Sex is the only thing I would actually need a female for.

If I could turn off my sexual libido I wouldn't have a problem with being alone for the rest of my life.

You are right.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Relationships don’t work for me at the moment because of how my life typically moves. Out of town a lot, constantly around the party and having to entertain people, not really family oriented lifestyle at the moment, etc.

Only way it’d work is if I found someone that did the same thing I did but I really dont want to date a female entertainer/musician/artist unless they’re low key and have a healthy relationship with the industry and business of music.

 

[Stuntone]

I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I've been In 4 relationship.

Women are just raised to be selfish in this society. It's there happiness, entertainment and ambitions 1st and you should be able to find happiness while sponsoring her wants. All most impossible to find a woman that will put your needs first. Married men have too much pride to be honest.

Most women are just restless and unable to be happy, but will run u crazy and broke trying. Most marriages are unstainable unless the man is a pure hearted simp.

Married men are to embarrassed and ashamed to tell us the truth.

 

[MikelArteta]

I just don't have faith in women but I still love them. So I just do short and casual

 

[fkthisgaysite]

They are not for me because I am Fatal Attraction.

I will be honest: I cant handle being cheated on. You may leave any time but you will not make a fool out of me nor waste my time.

I am 26. Decided this around 22.

I also know more about women than I should, growing up around them and all. And I've been tha dude ladies wit a man flirt wit, so I know how they get down. Why waste my time?

 

[TRY GOD]

I don't want to be a part of another person's problems.

I thought I wasn't adequate enough at one time in my life, and that may be the case.

As I get older, I value my free time, and I am dealing with my own problems, trying to get ahead of them. I don't know if I'm ready to deal with another person's problems and life troubles, at this point in my life yet.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Im naturally a loner but I enjoy my wife's company because we have more fun together than I could have alone.

You have to find the right woman to make a relationship worth it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Funny thing I'm just here chilling outside and listening to these two guys talking who are in their 50s

Before marriage was a nice life after nope

 

[The M.I.C.]

I just don't have faith in women but I still love them. So I just do short and casual

I thought you were engaged?

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I've been In 4 relationship.

Women are just raised to be selfish in this society. It's there happiness, entertainment and ambitions 1st and you should be able to find happiness while sponsoring her wants. All most impossible to find a woman that will put your needs first. Married men have too much pride to be honest.

Most women are just restless and unable to be happy, but will run u crazy and broke trying. Most marriages are unstainable unless the man is a pure hearted simp.

Married men are to embarrassed and ashamed to tell us the truth.

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