Woman Says Single Mom's Destroying Their Sons

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Sweetheart you're talking to a guy who actually has custody of his son. And I still look out for my bm even tho we're not together. When she had my son she used to tell guys i wasnt shyt and i didnt do anything for him, despite my son being with me every weekend. Some of y'all are lying. But to the others its easy to spot a scumbag dude. Before I got promoted I pegged my old boss as a scumbag, he just did some time for child support. Let me help y'all...

How to spot a scumbag ain't shyt man so he won't impregnate you and leave u completely high and dry.

1. His friends. Men tend to congregate with men of similar stature and drive. If none of your man's best friends have jobs make him wear a rubber.
Side note (if his friends have decent jobs and he works part time at taco bell or something same deal. He's the childhood loser friend that's about to get dropped from the team) if you've never met his friends you shouldn't be having raw sex.

2. Gifts. Men are proud creatures. A near universal trait of male deadbeats is they will take a handout from anyone. If a toddler offers him the change from her piggy bank he'll seriously consider taking it. Most men feel uncomfortable taking from a woman. If a nikka is too eager to let u pay for dinner, of if he's not uncomfortable accepting a pair of Jordan's make him strap up.
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I'll continue if yall want...

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And look who dap this post:mjpls:
@Rawtid @bcrusaderw @VFib @Kiki128 (B-B-But I never dap or rep anti-black male posts)

Let a black male poster said the exact same thing about black women and see how those same women who dap that post(and others) attack him and call him a c00n.:heh:

You have to be a real miserable person to say this fukking lie.:beli:
Dapping a post doesn't mean that you agree with everything in the post, so :camby:
 

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And look who dap this post:mjpls:
@Rawtid @bcrusaderw @VFib @Kiki128 (B-B-But I never dap or rep anti-black male posts)

I never said that. Anyway, I don't care who people date. It has nothing to do with me. Black women can never seem to do right in the eyes of many men on the Coli. And I'm not here to seek validation from any of you.

Let a black male poster said the exact same thing about black women and see how those same women who dap that post(and others) attack him and call him a c00n.:heh:
This site is full of posts talking shyt about black women. And I have never called anyone here or in real life the C word.
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And look who dap this post:mjpls:
@Rawtid @bcrusaderw @VFib @Kiki128 (B-B-But I never dap or rep anti-black male posts)

Let a black male poster said the exact same thing about black women and see how those same women who dap that post(and others) attack him and call him a c00n.:heh:

You have to be a real miserable person to say this fukking lie.:beli:

there's nothing anti black about that post though.
 

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And look who dap this post:mjpls:
@Rawtid @bcrusaderw @VFib @Kiki128 (B-B-But I never dap or rep anti-black male posts)

Let a black male poster said the exact same thing about black women and see how those same women who dap that post(and others) attack him and call him a c00n.:heh:

I dapped him because of the first part of the post. What was"anti black male"about that?? He wasn't lying.
 

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Situations are a bit more complicated than what you guys are letting on.

My mom and Dad were divorced when I was about 12, but my dad had been taking care of me and my little sister still while we lived with our mom. When they were together my mom was primarily a housewife and she really didn't work all that much even after they split.

I'm 24 now and my sister is 18 so the child support isn't coming anymore and now I've basically been left to take care of my mom. Dad only covers insurance for me but he still takes care of my sister while she is in school. Mom still isn't working but nothing is medically wrong with her or anything.

I kind of resent my dad still because even though he took care of us he still left my mom out here and now I pretty much have to care of her which is really hindering things that I want.

On the other hand, I'm kind of realizing that my mom just seems like she just doesn't want to do anything with her life.

Is my dad an "ain't shyt" because he left although he still took care of us?

Is my mom an "ain't shyt" for not getting over this and being a burden to her children although she has helped with other things?

The answer is probably somewhere in between. I just know it sucks to be in this situation.
 

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I really hope you're a woman :what:

Df does her look have to do with the message? Even if you aren't a woman you're one of the people she's talking about in this video. So worried about the exterior that you can't even take a look within
bytch just fishing for daps. The lady had solid points
 

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Dapping a post doesn't mean that you agree with everything in the post, so :camby:
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I never said that. Anyway, I don't care who people date. It has nothing to do with me. Black women can never seem to do right in the eyes of many men on the Coli. And I'm not here to seek validation from any of you.
But you dapped it tho.
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And that post was about shyting on black men while uplifting non-black men as black women saviors, nice try.
This site is full of posts talking shyt about black women. And I have never called anyone here or in real life the C word.
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And??? It doesn't stop y'all and others from calling them c00ns(and rightfully so), and doesn't mean y'all get a pass for doing the same thing.

And :duck: at the site full of anti-bw post.
there's nothing anti black about that post though.
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I dapped him because of the first part of the post. What was"anti black male"about that?? He wasn't lying.
A post that was very direct with saying black women is now seeking non-black men because all black men ain't shyt, but you don't call that black male bashing. :dahell:

Even the other two posters say I question say they didn't agree with that part(even tho I'm :duck: at that).

And :smh: at you saying was he lying, Wow.
 

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But you dapped it tho.
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And that post was about shyting on black men while uplifting non-black men as black women saviors, nice try.

And??? It doesn't stop y'all and others from calling them c00ns(and rightfully so), and doesn't mean y'all get a pass for doing the same thing.

And :duck: at the site full of anti-bw post.

:beli:

A post that was very direct with saying black women is now seeking non-black men because all black men ain't shyt, but you don't call that black male bashing. :dahell:

Even the other two posters say I question say they didn't agree with that part(even tho I'm :duck: at that).

And :smh: at you saying was he lying, Wow.

I agreed with the FIRST part of the post not the end because nonblack men aren't better at all.

That's the whole reason why I dapped the post (because of the beginning of it) I would never put non black men above black men.
 

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But you dapped it tho.
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Why, yes. Yes I did. If it annoyed you so much feel free to place me on ignore. You will no longer see any of my activity.
And that post was about shyting on black men while uplifting non-black men as black women saviors, nice try.

And??? It doesn't stop y'all and others from calling them c00ns(and rightfully so), and doesn't mean y'all get a pass for doing the same thing..

Quote me where I have ever called someone here the C word. As much as 'bedwench' gets thrown around here......please.



A post that was very direct with saying black women is now seeking non-black men because all black men ain't shyt, but you don't call that black male bashing. :dahell:

Even the other two posters say I question say they didn't agree with that part(even tho I'm :duck: at that).

And :smh: at you saying was he lying, Wow.
This site is full of "bytch" "Hoe" "HOH" "HOFH", 'bytches ain't shyt', daps for cheating, daps for using women for sex, don't date these American women, etc but there's no women bashing....

OK. Well, enjoy the rest of your day.
 

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Lol women are out here having children with men I wouldn't even leave my $10 weed sack around and wanna blame men in general. Lol I don't respect deadbeats, I just had to cut off my own cuz for being a deadbeat to his 2 kids. Do you think my lack of respect made him stop being a deadbeat? Nope he just found another fat lonely girl on fb and moved in with her. Deadbeat nikkas get no love or respect in this society except from the coddling mothers that make them and the broken women who loved them. What am I, as a supposed "good black man " supposed to do, beat nikkas up for not taking care of their kids. If its obvious a man elicits no respect from respectable people, if you get weird scumbag vibes from him, don't let him impregnate you. Smh you can get birth control and condoms for free as a woman. Smh. I swear, its unintended, but the rhetoric of a lot of women these days makes it hard not to think of them as overgrown children...

Most are overgrown children, mentally, breh. :yeshrug:
 

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Why, yes. Yes I did. If it annoyed you so much feel free to place me on ignore. You will no longer see any of my activity.
Its just good to know you believe Non-black men are better and black men ain't shyt.
Quote me where I have ever called someone here the C word. As much as 'bedwench' gets thrown around here......please.
What that got to do with anything?:heh:

It still doesn't change the fact you agree with the post.
This site is full of "bytch" "Hoe" "HOH" "HOFH", 'bytches ain't shyt', daps for cheating, daps for using women for sex, don't date these American women, etc but there's no women bashing....

OK. Well, enjoy the rest of your day.
Link who said that and dap that on the bold.:mjlol:

And what other stuff you listed got to do with specifically attack black men and uplifting non-black men? Last time I check all races of men do this.:childplease:

Show me a post that bashes black women specifically and uplifts non-black women for better dating choices for black men?:usure:
 

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Its just good to know you believe Non-black men are better and black men ain't shyt.

What that got to do with anything?:heh:

It still doesn't change the fact you agree with the post.

Link who said that and dap that on the bold.:mjlol:

And what other stuff you listed got to do with specifically attack black men and uplifting non-black men? Last time I check all races of men do this.:childplease:

Show me a post that bashes black women specifically and uplifts non-black women for better dating choices for black men?:usure:

A post that says this has 46 daps and counting. Looks like you were the last one to dap it, too.

She is telling the truth. Black women are a large part of the problem in the black community but we as black women have too much pride to take responsibility for our fukk ups. I say all of us because stand up black women should raise the standards and hold bum bytches accountable instead proteting them There are a lot of SORRY ass black women out here giving birth to and raising these problem children.

There are plenty of black women who think like the woman in this video but if we speak up about these trifling thots we might get beat up. Trust me I've had black women get in my face and argue me down.

I'm going to go this far and say black women are the main problem. Black man has been examined from head to toe so bm know where they fukking up. If we all know what we need to work on we can move forward. These problematic black women flat out believe that all black women are innocent and doing wrong to contribute to break down of our culture. That is detrimental because no changes are going to be made. These sorry women are going to continue to hurt their children. Take it from a black woman half of us are sorry as fukk.

A lot of us don't want to admit this but black mothers are teaching their sons to have disdain for black women. Their first taste of what a black woman is like comes from their black mother. Trust. My nephews can't stand my sister. She is overbearing, argumentive, neglectful, and insensitive towards them. She never misses an opportunity to remind them that it is a burden to take care of them even though they didn't ask to be born. And then she has the nerve to wonder why they want non black girls instead of black ones. She ruined black girls for them.


I said a mouth full but I'm getting frustrated with my sistas my damn self. I hope more black women start speaking up for ourselves because our culture is in critical condition. Problematic black females can't hide forever.

So when a Black woman says those negative things about Black women its gospel. But when a Black man says similar about Black men (and less offensive tbh), its anti-Black. Why is that :patrice:
 

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A post that says this has 46 daps and counting. Looks like you were the last one to dap it, too.



So when a Black woman says those negative things about Black women its gospel. But when a Black man says similar about Black men (and less offensive tbh), its anti-Black. Why is that :patrice:
Oh you right I did dap that post.:ehh:

But I didn't see in that post of her uplifting non-black women, like they some saviors like the other post I quoted.

And she was specifically talking about her sister, she wasn't generalize all bw like the other post generalize all bm.:mjpls:

And I don't agree with her in the parts you bolded I agree with the rest of her post.
 
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