Women and Cold Approaching

[EBK String]

I'd hate to entice anyone to pick up vices but a shot or two of alcohol or hitting a couple of puffs of a blunt should mellow you out and calm your anxiety. When I attend high stress events or have to see high stress clients, I do the same.

I would find a Toastmasters Club near you to work on your communication and build your confidence there.

And didn't you tell me you lived near a college campus? Look up events there and attend and just work on starting conversations with people (take a shot or two or hit a blunt before you do) and see how that works out. Eventually, if you start attending more events and socializing, you will build up the confidence and not need any of the vices. Also, college campuses have loads of kids with social anxiety as well so you would be in good company practicing with them.

As for being a virgin. If it bothers you so much, then that's what escorts are for. There is no shame in it. We all have our different paths. From a religious standpoint, there is virtue there but that's another conversation.

Mr. Ruthless and Master strategist needs drugs to deal with stress huh?

 

[god shamgod]

Probably trollin, If you’re 35 asking this You’re done. You missed out go get an escort

 

[invalid]

Mr. Ruthless and Master strategist needs drugs to deal with stress huh?

I have a short temper and a big ego. I would fukk up deals if I didn't have something that mellowed me out. I know where my shortcomings are.

 

[EBK String]

I have a short temper and a big ego. I would fukk up deals if I didn't have something that mellowed me out. I know where my shortcomings are.

More like you have to self medicate to deal with all the racist micro and macro aggressions you try to rationalize away.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

If any of these nikkas tell you "game" and "mouthpiece" ask them for examples.

I used to be bad at approaching women too.

You know how I got over it?

I learned through trial and error that a woman makes her decision before you even approach her or within 5 seconds of doing so.

Once you realize that your face, clothes, and demeanor (all very measurable and concrete things) have 100x more impact than the actual conversation, you will
never fear approaching again.

 

[Jerz]

Save up a few dollas and go buy some. That's the first thing you should do

 

[Turbulent]

Dating app.

Also remember, most women front. 9 times out of 10 they are losers deep down (like most people). Don't let their talk game fool you. They are single and looking just like you because no man wanted to cuff them. Remember that

 

[Ahadi]

Hit the gym.

Find a project / something you own and feel proud of.

Work on your speech with toastmasters.

Get another job which supports your speaking skills and make enough money to move out.

Figure out your style. Hire a stylist / image consultant to help support your aesthetic.

 

[earthwalka]

To be honest if you are 35, living at your parents and working at a restaurant, you have bigger fish to fry brother and I don’t mean that in a bad way but there is a lot more going on your life I believe and focusing on how to sex women is NOT what you should putting your attention towards. Just my advice. But if you must meet women, just try online dating, don’t cold approach, I don’t think that would work for you.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

its over

 

[Balla]

No. Please don't do this, man. Some creepy dude (nothing to do with his appearance, everything to do with his body language) cold approached me in the market last week while my fiancée was an isle over, and he got himself doubly humiliated when he refused to admit it was a simple mistake. It was a cringeworthy experience for all involved.

Go join a club or attend some social activity - I'm talking festivals, concerts, galas. You're not going to be well received if you're interrupting someone on a singular mission like buying cereal lol. If you're a professional, join professional orgs. You can join Black orgs too. shyt I met my fiancée through a black professional org. Orgs and clubs establish that you've got something in common.

You're anxious because you're not used to interacting with women as people. Which we are . You're at an age where women your age are actively seeking long-term relationships, so you're in luck in terms of finding long-term companionship when you're ready. You should go and explore your options though. However, go interact with women without the aim being getting your dikk wet. You need to see it as a possible side effect of your interaction. Once you interact with them as people and don't let their womanhood distract you, you'll start making connections. Trust me when I say that lots of women are willing to overlook social awkwardness and such when they like you for who you are.

Also, go get in shape. You'll feel a lot better about yourself when you're taking care of your body.

This is why I don’t approach in stores. Every single fukkin time I see an attractive chick, about 5 minutes later her man comes and starts cuffin outta nowhere.

I’m like damn, attractive chicks can’t shop alone sometimes, why they always gotta be cuffed?



The best bet for approaching in stores is when the women talk to you randomly or they just give you that look to approach.

Chicks give me that look I’m on it!!

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

This only feels good for the moment and does nothing to increase your social skills tho

Social skills ain’t gonna help him

 

[wastedmermaid]

stay away from these online dating/coaches/vultures/redpill
delete all that content

Why do you say this?

 

[BigTyme Records]

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Stop making the same thread every year fakkit. Not trying to be rude. You ain’t gonna do a damn thing.