Women and Cold Approaching

[The Burger King]

OP keeps making the same thread over and over again.

I even saw him post similar stuff on the BB forum and I don’t even post there, I was just looking for a thread on there with good workout advice.

I told you years ago, you gotta get up off your ass and take action.

You’re so busy focusing on the plan that you have failed to execute.

I know that’s what you’re doing because I have the same issue at times, though it hasn’t affected me nearly as bad as it has you.

I literally told you like 2 years ago to hit the gym and lose the weight. If you had done it then you’d be in a much better position now.

All you’re doing is mentally masturbating and it’s getting you no where.

If you have a mental hang up or something get therapy and maybe some medication (though medication could make you complacent and only make your situation worse).

But TAKE ACTION and DO SOMETHING.

You’re looking for cheat codes and overnight fixes and the reality is your situation could take years to fix.

 

[Jahbarri]

No, I don't have any friends. Pretty much a loner.

Why u trolling

 

[AJD]

Equivalent of them nikkas that be asking you all kind of questions bout a hustle that's raking in money but takes work or gym shyt knowing damn well they ain't gon "start tomorrow" cause they too lazy.

Op done made this thread like 5 times, stop wasting coli bandwidth, you already know what to do. Not to mention you getting advice from some these nikkas who are self-admitted semi incels themselves

 

[GilSho]

35 year old virgin still living with his moms?

Fact that she hasn't kicked your ass out by now is why nothing will ever change for you.

 

[number21]

Why dont you actually get a stable job and move out your mom house before thinking about some p*ssy, op?

 

[Coli Bot]

Being fat is such a wonderful problem to have because you can lose weight!

So much other bs people cant change about themselves and have to just deal with.

 

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First question breh why I get tagged?

Second, if you got diagnosed with social anxiety disorder don't cold approach. A cold approach without much social interaction means you can meet psycho women. There are a lot of them out there! Go online and sift through the crazy out there.

Third, it is easier to build a rapport with someone behind a screen without much social interaction in your case.

Fourth, I am against paying directly for a woman's company but that doesn't mean that other cats can not do it! But escorts are there for one reason to bust a nut and this doesn't get in your feelings and think they like you.

Fifth, need to move out of your mom's house that will build confidence like anything.

Hope this helps breh

 

[Mordith]

You're an obese 35 y/o virgin who works as a dishwasher and lives at home with his mom. This nikka has to be trolling.

 

[Wild self]

If any of these nikkas tell you "game" and "mouthpiece" ask them for examples.

I used to be bad at approaching women too.

You know how I got over it?

I learned through trial and error that a woman makes her decision before you even approach her or within 5 seconds of doing so.

Once you realize that your face, clothes, and demeanor (all very measurable and concrete things) have 100x more impact than the actual conversation, you will
never fear approaching again.

I think he needs to see actual visual evidence on what is good and what is bad, as well as the type of cologne, type of body language, type of demeanor, and the mentality behind it. Being vague leads to nowhere.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

The second most important thing about cold approaching is being mentally prepared to handle rejection.

Yup and I imagine someone with anxiety might just lose more confidence if that happens

 

[Morose Polymath]

fukk gettin Box. You need to get your life in order David.

- lose weight
- get a trade or skill and get a decent paying profession
- move out your got damn momma house!

After youve accomplished those things, only THEN should you worry about getting your tallywhacker wet

 

[Admiral Kali]

Why do yall act like he's automatically going to pull something if he does online dating like its super easy

 

[CW_1991]

I got a long-time friend like this.

Used to be a badass football player in HS too.

Was benching like 315 and was getting awards from different games and shyt.

Just works, pays his mortgage and plays videogames now. Think he a virgin too. Very odd thing but he a good dude (age 30).

 

[calixprynce]

I think i remember you had a lot of weight to lose??

this is gonna sound wild but if i were in your shoes....
I would focus on older women, like 58-68 age range
Smile, be polite, listen to their stories, provide companionship, then turn it flirtatious

..ultimately progress to going to bed with them

 

[calixprynce]

Damn reading that made me sad. Feel bad for you OP.
Save up and pay for some p*ssy to get that virgin monkey off your back but after that don’t even worry about women. Focus on yourself and getting your confidence up. Find a hobby you enjoy doing and start studying some shyt on the side and going back to school so you can get your money up. Fix yourself before worrying about some females.

Breh , the first time he dive into some p*ssy it’s a wrap for him . Ain’t no focusing lol

he might as well do all that first