Women can date 2-3 guys at once & still be "single"?

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[King P]

Im single

 

[King P]

This is why I learned very quickly from the jump as a youngin...

You never ever ever ever ever ever assume that you're the only one.

Saves you a ton of headache and heartache

 

[tater]

Ive talked to mutliple guys at once, but I always tell them I'm talking to other people. I'm not having sex when I'm talking to someone. If we end up getting more serious I stop talking to the others. It's not that difficult and if you're being duped you lost.

Honestly it doesn't last long. When I like someone a lot I usually focus on them and no one else. We just have to get to that point, but you'll never know if you spend months talking to one guy then realize you don't like him that much. Just to reiterate talking is just that, no sex. That's how people get caught up and feelings get hurt on both ends, it's unneccessary.

 

[mamba]

Islam will not bring me dignity... my character brings me dignity.....

Can religion help build someone's character? Yes... it is also very possible to have character without your Islam...

@Slaimon , it sounds like @Colicat needs to be guided to Islam ASAP.

 

[Richard Wright]

 

[Giselle]

The live version is much better.

 

[Jhoon]

this thread is super real talk. I've been with three women who act like i'm important but i havent asked them out and they act like they're single. I'm sure every now and then they hit a dude on the side but i know some of them don't but still.

But is that a problem?

 

[Zebruh]

Everybody got options. I just accept it and move/act accordingly. Dating game these days is vicious, no way around this simple fact. You can be a good dude and all but without the know-how to navigate this shyt you just fall into that "nice guy" trap and get dealt with quickly. I'm sure a lot of us have. Sometimes you gotta take that L and re-evaluate your approach to the game. You don't necessarily gotta become this ruthless cold ass nikka, just learn how to navigate today's dating scene and how/when to put your intentions in the air.

 

[DemureNatural]

I think we should clarify what it means to date...

I'm single and I'm meeting and getting to know people. This does not equal exclusivity or sex, for me. If we have sex, we're exclusive and I'm no longer dating.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

If it doesn't need to be asked, what's the problem with telling her what it is and removing ALL doubt?

Are you slow? I'm not trying to be funny or confrontational. I'm serious. You don't seem to understand anything that is being posted in this thread. Either that or you are playing dumb. The situation I drew up in my previous post, which is common place, doesn't have a shred of doubt attached to it. The only person who would say they didn't "know what it was" is a cheater who is trying to relieve their own guilt and/or flip the script on the victim.

Smarten up.

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[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I think we should clarify what it means to date..

Are you going on several dates, talking about "us" or "we", telling this person things you wouldn't tell anyone else, making future plans, cuddling, getting physical (not necessarily sex), buying things for each other, talking morning to night through text or on the phone or whatever, is there a mutual understanding of when you will see one another, is there a routine y'all have developed, do you hit each other up every morning? would you get mad if you found out this person was talking to others? Would you tell this person you don't want them talking to others?

Like I said.. there is a point when you do not need to ask "what are we"

 

[NobleDrewAli]

Do u nikkas who build rosters tell all the chicks about each other? :yadontsay:

Yes. Yes i do. Every woman I choose To deal with has the right To know about the other women and make her own choice to deal with it or not and move on. To do otherwise would be dirty to the game. Dudes are scared to mention other women cause they fear they'll lose out on the sex. Women are usually scared to mention other men because of th e heaux label or they'll lose out on some benefit the guy offers.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

@Slaimon , it sounds like @Colicat needs to be guided to Islam ASAP.

May Allah guide @Colicat to Islam.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Islam will not bring me dignity... my character brings me dignity.....
Can religion help build someone's character? Yes... it is also very possible to have character without your Islam...

I'm just trying to help all of the ladies in the world, as I too was misguided in the past. One of the many benefits of Islam is that it leads to good character and good morales not found in non-Muslims. A lot of it has to do with how you handle your relationship with Allah, worshiping him alone without worshiping mere creatures such as Jesus (that can't help you). Please watch and share this video about Allah, and tell me it's not the Truth!!!