"Women can go weeks without seeing a man she finds attractive when she’s out in public."

[Amerikan Melanin]

Bullshyt.

 

[Scipio]

First of all:


But this sounds like absolute cap. Do you agree?

Based on what I hear women say this sounds correct. Women talk as if there are no good looking men basically anywhere. Part of it too is in certain cities, like NYC, women train themselves to avoid eye contact with men (for fear of catcalling.) So they often don't notice or even see the men that pass them on the street - sometimes walking right past guys they know.

 

[☃ ೋ]

I mean, you can typically tell if a guy is gay or not just by how well he takes care of himself, from fitness to cleanliness.

Nikka what

 

[Scipio]

I dunno about all that

Women start messages that look this if you spend too many hours not engaging them

That's after she's decided she likes you (or after she's decided you owe her attention, whether she likes you or not.)

 

[Ol’Otis]

I believe it

 

[badboys11]

CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE EXPLAIN how we have 19 yr olds bragging about sleeping with over 40 men? How do women have these high ass body counts and they are not attracted to hardly anybody? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE

 

[Scipio]

You mean like most modern women?

The majority of men are to begin with, so once those men are subtracted from the pool, there is relatively small number of men a woman would legitimately find attractive.

How many women do you see on an average week that are legitimately 8s, 9s and 10s?

This might be a function of location. On the A train in Brooklyn during rush hour in the Spring and Summer? Or the 1 or 9 trains in Manhattan? There's at least 3 or 4 women that level on every car. And there's another five or six women just below that level, so real cute, but not all the way dimes. I think that's true of most dense cities with large Black populations.

 

[Reflected]

Nikka what

If anything this ironically plays into what @CarmelBarbie was getting at, which I will concede to, but most men don't take care of themselves. If they aren't running around with pot bellies or being skinny fat, in combination with a dirty face, grimey nails, and just a general dirtiness about them, It would either be that you have come across the anomaly male (at least in my state) that actually takes their appearance seriously or you have just ran into the typical gay dude.

 

[☃ ೋ]

If anything this ironically plays into what @CarmelBarbie was getting at, which I will concede to, but most men don't take care of themselves. If they aren't running around with pot bellies or being skinny fat, in combination with a dirty face, grimey nails, and just a general dirtiness about them, It would either be that you have come across the anomaly male (at least in my state) that actually takes their appearance seriously or you have just ran into the typical gay dude.

Bruh, just say you hang out with dirty nikkas and keep it moving

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

My girl gotta look at my face every weekend so that’s a lie

 

[CarmelBarbie]

If anything this ironically plays into what @CarmelBarbie was getting at, which I will concede to, but most men don't take care of themselves. If they aren't running around with pot bellies or being skinny fat, in combination with a dirty face, grimey nails, and just a general dirtiness about them, It would either be that you have come across the anomaly male (at least in my state) that actually takes their appearance seriously or you have just ran into the typical gay dude.

Huh? That’s not what I was getting at though. My point is that me and my girls don’t see men that we consider handsome very often. I mean I guess if you want to say that some men would be handsome if they took better care of themselves… but a lot of gay men I’ve worked with and have gotten to know I didn’t find attractive either—even before I found out that they were gay. By your stance then because gay men take better care of themselves I would find them more attractive, but I didn’t. When I talk about attractive, I’m talking about face card primarily.

 

[Scipio]

It's right on target. If op is saying most women don't see many attractive men, yet couples are still getting together, don't you think those women are looking at other factors?

No. The OP is about first impressions. Or, baseline assessment of physical attractiveness before other factors come into play.

 

[Consigliere]

I usually only notice a man if he catches my eye

This is why the pick up artist (pua) community talks about peacocking. You gotta wear a funny hat to get women to notice you.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

How many women do you see on an average week that are legitimately 8s, 9s and 10s?

Daily

I live in NYC and take the train most of the time. If you get on the train rush hour in NYC to either go to work or go home you will see attractive women.

Or just go outside for lunch if you work in Manhattan.

 

[Bumblebreh]

men will find every detail to convince themselves a woman is attractive, women will find every detail to convince themselves a man is unattractive

Take sex out of the equation, and men are just as critical when it comes to looks. Stop with the redpill cap.

Most women are more unattractive than men tho since they’re bigger on average