But again.. You getting into "what is a nice guy really"
I see posts from women saying "I want a man who's an a$$hole to everyone but me"... Well if he's nice to her, isn't he a nice guy? If he selling two tons of cocaine, but spoiling her every day, isn't he a nice guy? If he never buy flowers but rub her feet sometimes, ain't he nice? If he broke as fukk with no job but loves her children like his own, ain't he nice?
People are trying to lump all this shyt in with "nice." What's being nice? Cause you love and cherish her, don't mean you're a nice fukking person in HER eyes. Maybe you do all that but scream and act bitter to her single friends.. Isn't that mean? Wouldn't it be mean if you loved and cherished her but only cause she looks so good? Wouldn't a nice guy put her in her place or bring her back to reality when she is wrong? Isn't making her accountable for her bad attitude being nice? Or is letting her run over you the nice part?
Too much bullshyt and variables.. Like I keep saying, NICE is not some quality that is laid upon you, for loving somebody. Or not going to jail. Or making 6 figures. Or not cheating. None of this makes you a nice man or person. What was your intent behind it? Are you nice to other people? Are you even a good person?
No... Nobody picks a mate on niceness. And the fact y'all keep thinking anyway does, especially women, is absolutely crazy. You can be nice. But you damn sure need a lot of other factors going for you. It really seems like "nice" is trying to be used as "good". You'd be better off saying "Hey I'm a good person." and then go ahead and list what makes you a good person. Saying "Oh I'm a nice guy.. I'm gonna love and cherish you.." Well what the fukk does that even mean? What's the details on that?