Women have too much influence on Black masculinity

[Chrishaune]

Nikkas think they are going to outmaneuver white supremacy in a country built on it.

You have to realize the women you are dealing with have bought into it. They don't want it to change.

Get your heads out of the clouds.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Eh...that depends. As a former inner city math tutor and a mentor to Black boys, I can assure you that many Black boys who threw their lives away and got caught up in BS did it to impress other Black boys and this is something that even extends to adulthood too.

It's going to take more than just "ignoring women" to fix the issue. A lot of these dysfunctional street dudes focus more on impressing each other than broads truth be told.

I don’t think ignoring is what I was going for.
And I agree, it has never been only women, we have our part in this too for sure.
But there are currently too many cooks in the kitchen, and this results in confusion, and people speaking from the outside looking in.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Everyone in the black community don't have women problems. And those who do bring that shyt on themselves because 90% of the black community has a serious communication problem.

This isn’t just about women problems though. This is about eliminating outside noise, and developing a healthier base of masculinity.

 

[The Fade]

If Black Men are going to combat this, they have to have facts and use calm when they can

DR. TJ Curry is good at this

And they going to have to have charisma

We haven't seen that yet

I think backlash is coming but it may still be too late

Just wanted to add, that paper and what we're going through is Colonial Feminism, but to me Feminism seems more like a Colonial tool the more you look at it. Especially when you look at it when came to Europeans trying to "save" Eastern/"Oriental" women from Dark Eastern men before America was a thing. They wrote stories about it

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I’m not even mad at women
If you’ve been around enough of them
No matter the color/creed
They all put markers on what a man is and half of them had ain’t shyt daddies to begin with
Or doormat fathers that just gave up to keep his household/marriage
Many have been fed bullshyt from jump
It’s the nikkas I’m tired of
The wolves in sheep’s clothing
The sissyfied bytch nikkas, especially on this forum
That is the biggest detriment to men
It’s like nikkas so scared to unplug from the little crumb of coochie or virtual attention from women
That turn them in to attack dogs for women that wouldn’t even consider them mate material in the first place
It’s a lot of nikkas out here skewing shyt and perpetuating fukk ass shyt for a bag
Leading many of these women astray and keeping them blind to the game
That’s what’s sickening
A woman and her logic
Gon woman
But bytch nikkas is winning the fight right now
From crash dummies to simps
Future Memphis Bleek out here

 

[Forsaken]

Don't raise your sons brehs and wonder why black women have influence over masculinity.

 

[O.Red]

Don't raise your sons brehs and wonder why black women have influence over masculinity.

This is bigger than absentee fathers tho

There are just as many black men in the home that are spineless and overly apologetic because they don't wanna make their woman mad and lose access to sex

 

[Wildhundreds]

This isn’t just about women problems though. This is about eliminating outside noise, and developing a healthier base of masculinity.

Whats masculinity to you?

 

[Ahadi]

I don’t think that’s necessary.
We have all we need right here, and it’s us.

Age?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Just wanted to add, that paper and what we're going through is Colonial Feminism, but to me Feminism seems more like a Colonial tool the more you look at it. Especially when you look at it when came to Europeans trying to "save" Eastern/"Oriental" women from Dark Eastern men before America was a thing. They wrote stories about it

I can see that.

I think it is from the standpoint of treating men and women like they fulfill the same roles, and elevating women to subjugate the men

However, men are in charge in countries in Africa and not taking care of their people

But then they're a victim of colonism too

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Whats masculinity to you?

My father was confident, respectful, driven, empathetic, and a man of his word through and through.
I grew up being taught that a man marches to the beat of his own drum, but not at the expense of his integrity.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Age?

26

 

[Who Not How]

This is bigger than absentee fathers tho

There are just as many black men in the home that are spineless and overly apologetic because they don't wanna make their woman mad and lose access to sex

This is very true, I've seen this countless times. They enable and reward bad behavior. Their woman can do whatever she wants because she knows she still gonna get dikk even if she weighs 250, he still gonna give away his seed if she wants a baby and he still will trick off on her even if she got a bad attitude. Why would she change if she getting everything she wants lol?

Some men don't see the error in their ways though. They saw their mother as head of household. Even if the father is there, he isn't running a damn thing. Like you said, he's emasculated.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Another whiny baby brained thread by so called “masculine and tough” men

 

[Forsaken]

This is bigger than absentee fathers tho

There are just as many black men in the home that are spineless and overly apologetic because they don't wanna make their woman mad and lose access to sex

There are men raised by their mom raising sons right now. Absentee father's create issues for generations.