Nkrumah Was Right
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Not everyone loves/craves the screw up. Most men and woman I know desire peace and the desire to build wealth in a family setting.
Would arranged marriages benefit the black community?
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Not everyone loves/craves the screw up. Most men and woman I know desire peace and the desire to build wealth in a family setting.
cyndaquil
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Thats cause that's who you know. People tend to be around other like minded people.
-Why would we not think about what would make us happy. If me & others in here would be unhappy with the arrangement then we can assume more people will. A bunch of people forced into relationships they don't want & aren't motivated to maintain isn't going to help.
-It's like another breh said, this isn't our generational custom or something we value.
Nkrumah Was Right
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Just noting that not “everyone” craves dysfunction.
That's clear to me .
I was speaking on the loud wheels that need the oil in our community. U got folk waiting till their mid 30s to talk wealth building and marriage. These same individuals was talking sowing their wild oats/ exploring options coming out of college. Mid 30s no one wants a used truck or car with hangups and resentment from both sexes.
Last weekend I attended the wedding of a childhood soccer rival and good friend. He and his wife are 24. In the room was generation bread several yrs into the future. They went to a well known highschool that's private and tough to get into. They were friends went away to different universities reconnected and got married. There grandparents bought them a nice house.
We have well off black folk that didn't play sports. It's only us that are looked down upon coming from generation bread. I've seen it while campus here. This get it out da mud is a sickness.
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My seeds marry his seeds marry her seeds that's how we keep wu-tang money all up in the family.
Nkrumah Was Right
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yall would have wanted yall folks to tell you who to marry
I always thought arranged marriages was some weirdo controlling shyt
In some cultures, parents from various families just suggest that you marry their son/daughter. Not so much as arranged but rather facilitating pairings between good families
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They facilitate it to get something out of it though. They not doing it cause they care about the well being of their children. It's usually some favor for a favor type shyt
. Life is garbage in places this is common.
I actually like them. A little more diverse than its been for the past 5+ years, lolThe amount of weird ass topics in the last week…
Arranged marriage worked better back then because families were actually getting property, livestock and other tangible benefits along with the pairing of the spouses. And women were considered property, not citizens.
Nowadays, parents receive no benefit from their kids getting married besides peace of mind and grandkids. And women have rights now. Best believe modern women ain't going for no arrangement nonsense.
Nowadays, parents receive no benefit from their kids getting married besides peace of mind and grandkids. And women have rights now. Best believe modern women ain't going for no arrangement nonsense.
I think it's more that there's a much greater emphasis on individuality, rights and free will. Those concepts don't exist in places that have forced and arranged marriages.
